age differences (again)

[spectreofsorrow]

ok i appreciate this has been done before but it didnt really address my problem.

i,m in uk. age is 16 not 18 etc. basically why i have fallen for a 13 year old girl and i,m 19. now i dont really have a chance with her but it leads to my problem.

i have had one girl friend in my whole life (last year she was 14, for 2 months) who i lost my virginity too. its so hard to find girls who like u when your as shy and naive as me. i go out alot but just cant talk to them without lots of alcohol.

so why would it be bad if at last find a girl who cares and shes 13 for example? its just i kissed this 13 year old girl two weeks ago and it got me thinking. if a girl is cute, nice personality etc why would it be condemned so much? on a MORAL standpoint would be wrong? i,m a very nice person who would never hurt a girl, in fact my girl friend would always be in charge cause i,m not confident enough.

i started to cry when i realised she was just drunk and didnt really like me. it was so sweet. but now my suicidal thoughts are returning and this is affecting university work. so if such a precuious gem ever liked me hyperthetically, how on earth could i ever turn her down cause of age?

[BP2K2Max]

cuz girls at that age are easily suggestible and are willing to do things that they don't really want to do in order to be accepted. 13-14 is too young to be exposed to sex and especially with someone who is 19+. i don't really kno what advice to give you. i wouldn't go near that cuz i like my freedom and pedophiles get it bad in jail.

not to mention that a 19 year old and 13 year old have nothing in common. when you talk about school she'll be telling you what happened in Study hall and you'll be talking about actually starting your life, getting a career and being independant. plus what are her parents going to think? they're not going to want there daughter being with a crable robber. and are you gonna be proud to show off your 13 year old GF? there's nothing better than going to a party with a girl that you know everyone else is wishing they were there with. i could go on and on as to why it wouldn't work and why it shouldn't happen.

[YogsVR4]

You need to grow up - right fucking now. If your maturity level is the same as a thirteen year old then your in a sad state.

If the father of that child was anything like me and he were to find out, your ass would either be rotting in jail or nailed to wall.

Dating a girl thats 13 at your age. That was one of the dumbest things I've heard anyone even consider

[Steel]

Ok sometimes people need it straight cut, no bullshit. This is one of those times, and i apologize for going into Master Sergeant Steel harshness for this, but...

Grow some motherfucking balls man. Go out there and meet girls around your age (i.e no younger than 16, and that's pushing it). I don't fucking care if you're scared, do it anyway. You can't go around life pussyfooting around and going to the lowest common denominator. You may not conciously realize it, but the reason you're going after the youngin's is becasue you know you won't be rejected, becasue 13 year old girls are naive, and impressionable. Grow up and and deal with the fact that you WILL be rejected. 13 year old's don't even have a shred of concept of love, except for how much they loooove their new nail polish color.

And did you stop to think how much something like that could fuck up HER life? Noo... you didn't did you. You put all of aobut 5 seconds of thought into this, and it shows. You'd get HER shunned by her family, caught up in a bunch of legal trouble, and fuck up her sex life forever. Bp2 is right, what the hell are you two going to talk aobut after you pick her up from school, eh? Fucking britney spears, and hillary duff, and how cooool they are?

If you're seriosuly considering suicide, get help right now. I'm not dicking you around either, I or someone else here will. Otherwise, shut the fuck up with the little veiled attemp to get attention on how horrible your life is becasue you can't find a woman, and that it's not fair that you can't go for an immature GIRL 2/3's your age.

Go out and get a Job. And i mean a REAL motherfucking job, excruciating manual labor. It builds character, which you're seriously in need of. Roof houses, do odd job's for the local houses, fill in goddamn potholes for all i care. Hell, maybe you'll meet some cute girl on the job that needs her pipes cleaned. One thing's for sure, you'll get your mind off this stupidass bullshit real fucking fast.

And then when you're done with work, go back to your dorm, take a fucking shower cause you stink, hang out with the guys and drink some beers at parties. Find a slut and fuck her. No I don't fucking care if you "don't go for that kind of woman". You;re 19. Of course you go for that kind of woman.

Now Go out and do what i fucking say. As the great Gny. Sgt. Hartmann said "You had best unfuck yourself or I will unscrew your head and shit down your NECK!"

</MSgt. Steel>

[publicenemy137]

yah that's sick man. I was going to tell you a mouthful also but it seems the other dudes on here already got that covered. If I had a younger sister who was 13 and dated and older guy who was 19, I'd kick his ass many times over. Think about it this way, if you had a daughter or little sister who was 13 and dated a 19 year old, you tell me how that is wrong.

[kublah]

Originally Posted by Steel

"You had best unfuck yourself or I will unscrew your head and shit down your NECK!"

Not only one of the greatest movie quotes of all time, but perfect application to this situation. You absolutely need to unfuck yourself, especially before you go around fucking anybody else.

First and foremost, if you are feeling suicidal, there is no substitute for getting professional help RIGHT NOW. The solution to that problem is not on this forum.

You say you're a nice person who would never hurt a girl, but you obviously don't realize how easily and thoroughly you would screw this girl up if you did what you're thinking about, even if you don't mean to. Guys your age and girls that age have absolutely no business dating, especially when sex is involved. This isn't the middle ages.

If you aren't self confident, dating girls so much younger than you will be completely counterproductive. You need challenges, not girls that you can talk into doing anything you want because they're just as silly and naive as you.

Everything that has been said so far is correct. Stay the hell away.

[IntegraBoy2003]

That shit is fucked up 13??? she just turned into a fucking into a teenager yeah I am going to ramp my expressions now (Being a major in criminal justice)Now, first of all that is so illegal, I mean why would you, that shit is sick, I would say at least 3 years and jail and you already sound like a sex offender I do not know the law over in England, but I am sure it is close to American law, because OUR law originated from England. You need help, before you get your self in jail, if you need to use alchoal to talk to a broad then you really need help man, I mean come on that shit is illegal too, I am sure that you drink with the youngens. If you knocked her ass up and got her pregnant, you could fuck her life up, I have a cousin that is 13 (she comes on this site) and that is just sick, I hope she reads this so she knows that there is scumbags out there, you need help man just like steel said, we will get you help, but next time think of the consequences before posting shit like that,

and you are in a UNIVERSITY????? man fuck you..

thta is my 2 cents

13 year old girls are thinking about playing with there friends, not playing with a 19 year olds ding dong

[xviciousx]

First off, if you're getting 13 year old drunk... you need to go to group with M.J. If you're at a party with 13 year old girls there... same situation.

Second off, you're preaching to the wrong crowd... My girl problems come first..

Thirdly, you made one post... it was this one... I HIGHLY reccomend if you're to keep posting here to post in some sort of automotive thread.



AFGeneral Vicious

[HogieGT-R]

i'm really starting to think that this guy just posted for kicks O_o

[xviciousx]

Man... why you gotta be stealin my googlie eyes like that?? O_o o_O

[Steel]

heeehe.. gooogly eyeees! o_O O_o

[Steel]

Originally Posted by HogieGT-R

i'm really starting to think that this guy just posted for kicks O_o

yeah... he'll be getting a kick alright... a kick to his ass from my combat boot!

[jon@af]

When it comes to age and love, there is a point when I feel that it doesnt matter--unfortunately, this is not one of those points. If she were 21 and you were 27 it would be different, but this girl is only beginning puberty and that, my friend, is not right on any level. I don't care if this is a bullshit post or not. If it is, well then that shows how smart and mature you are; going on to an internet board and messing around-congrats you're very, very cool. However, if this by chance is true, I suggest you stop yourself now before you hurt yourself and completely screw your future, because if you are arrested for such a thing as this, it will impact your life.

As has been said already, it's time to grow up and get into the real world. If I were that childs father, or the father of the 14 year old, you would be dead right now, and don't think that they still can't find out, because things have an odd way of hitting the fan. You are taking advantage of an immature girl, even if you say she is mature for her age; she will act mature if she thinks it is something that will keep her around you because as has also been mentioned, young girls are very impressionable. Grow up, get a life, and join some activites. Go to the gym, start doing something with a group; something that will build your confidence and help you meet new people--and women YOUR age.

[IntegraBoy2003]

If was the parent of that child; I would of smashed a egg at ur neck and then proceede to give you a swift kick in the eye socket, proceded by kicking your shine with shit kicker boots, then I would pour nucaic acid on you

[stealthj]

guys chill i fucked a 14 yr old too.....yeah 3 years ago when i was 14 too but fuck man that is disgusting

suicidal? i guess u might as well end it now :x