The ABSOLUTE ONE thing that pisses me off the most.... *warning, may get long*

[Damien]

Well, I do find after the initial ordeal of meeting her and everything is let out, it gets easier!

My problem the first time was because.....well, it was the first time!

[darkness]

I haven't asked anyone out in a really long time. Too bloody chicken.

probably should grow some balls.

[Ssom]

YwllowMaranello- AWESOME MATE!!!! You have shown you have more balls than me

[wickedG20]

haha, good to know you ran into her. but remember that getting the number is only 1 step in a series of them. I used to think when i got the girls number, she was gonna be my gf. THINGS HAPPEN dude, she can tell you she wants to be single, this & that, blah blah blah, on and on and on.

But mad props too you, i was a shy one too (still am) and its always hard for us to ask out the ladies out. With me, I'am just to afraid of building up hopes and getting them crushed.

[carnut]

Old fart here! Don't think negative, just be yourself.

I've gone out with the best, turned down by the best and had relationships with the best! The point is just have fun, if it develops into something serious great, if not, at least you had some fun. Life is too short to carry negative thoughts in your head.

[YellowMaranello]

Originally posted by wickedG20
haha, good to know you ran into her. but remember that getting the number is only 1 step in a series of them. I used to think when i got the girls number, she was gonna be my gf. THINGS HAPPEN dude, she can tell you she wants to be single, this & that, blah blah blah, on and on and on.

I know getting her number is only the first step in a long line of them, but its all I need. Once I get past that initial step, I'm usually good to go. (never would have guessed would you?) But I'm still pissed at myself for being scared of that first step. So I'm doing something about it, I'm going to designate a day where I'm just going to go somewhere, and approach every woman I see, while keeping the mindset that I'm not going to try and get anywhere with any of them. That way, I get used to approaching women, and don't have to worry about anything.

[wickedG20]

Originally posted by YellowMaranello


I know getting her number is only the first step in a long line of them, but its all I need. Once I get past that initial step, I'm usually good to go. (never would have guessed would you?) But I'm still pissed at myself for being scared of that first step. So I'm doing something about it, I'm going to designate a day where I'm just going to go somewhere, and approach every woman I see, while keeping the mindset that I'm not going to try and get anywhere with any of them. That way, I get used to approaching women, and don't have to worry about anything.

haha, i had that idea once. but your right, the first step is always the biggest. when its hard for me, i do what tangie said she does and just not give a f*ck about anyone. like, i look at the girl and say to myself, what the f*ck do i have to lose, the worst that can happen is i do something stupid, she laughs and i never see her again.

[YellowMaranello]

Originally posted by wickedG20

like, i look at the girl and say to myself, what the f*ck do i have to lose, the worst that can happen is i do something stupid, she laughs and i never see her again.

True, and if you don't at least take that first step, you won't see her ever again anyways, so at least you'll get a laugh. Good viewpoint.

[slave]

I hear you man. I got myself an agent for modelling, gotta go and do some small "personal" courses with one of the most gorgeous girls ever, who complains I dont live in her town etc, but I still cant talk to girls I like. Its fucking annoying.

[integra818]

Look man, just let the real you come out, do you want her to like YOU or an alternative attitude, don't act different just so she can like you, act yourself, if she doesnt like you, aw well, if she likes you then you're gonna be with that girl for a while and you'll be very comftrable around her knowing that she accepts the REAL you.