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Originally posted by saturntangerine
Try faking self-confidence. I walk around pretending that I don't care what people think, and I pretend that everyone loves me, and everyone cherishes me and it gives me the motivation I need to flirt or even just get lunch by myself. (yes, I am that big of a dork that I don't like eating by myself... issues, I tell ya... issues)
I used to be "little, quiet 'tangie'" as I just found out through a friend of a friend type deal. When this girl heard that I rode a motorcycle, she just simply couldn't believe that "little" (I'm 5'9"), "quiet" (I like to rev on ricers, especially when I'm on my bike) me rode a motorcycle.  Find a way to break your own shell, even if it means just acting. Hey, it adds a bit of variety, so that when people get to know you, there's all sorts of facets to work out.
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I'm actually the most non-shy person there is! I'll do anything for a laugh and pretty much whatever someone dares me to practically.
Oh, but wait, there is more. I couldn't ask a girl out if my life depended on it. I mean, if my life depended on it i could, but nothing could make me. I've been dared to ask girls out and I did it, but it wasn't for real so that made it easier. My first girlfriend, well I found out she liked me and now all I had to do was ask her out but it took me a week to do so. Now, I could flirt easily and mess around with any girl, but when it comes to asking a girl out, I just can't do it.
If ya want to know more,
http://www.freeopendiary.com/entryvi...96&entry=10002 , this site tells a lot.
I do though find talking to a girl in person is easier than over the phone because I can do some moves and it shows how you mean things better like facial expressions.