let's talk about foreplay

[eversio11]

For whatever reason, it's become uncool for men to be into foreplay. I guess most men just aren't good at it or just don't care for the other at all, because I find foreplay to be a lot of fun. Not just fun, but it really is essential if for the most intimate sex and to be able to please her.

Let's share and discuss some of our favorite foreplay moments, stuff that really gets them going, male and female. Obviously, let's try and keep this at least R-rated, we don't need to hear detailed descriptions of what goes on below the belt.

I'll get the ball rolling. When I'm taking off her shirt, I like to stop as it's halfway over her head, so her eyes are closed and her arms are raised above her head, and just grab her hands and start kissing her. She seems to get a kick out of it, kind of like some lite bondage or something

[quteasabutton]

yeah i agree, many guys now it seems ur sitting there and they're like..let's have sex. it's seems almost out of left field and always merits a no answer. same goes for guys who just leave right away after sex. don't do that, it'll make your girl feel like a cheap slut who's getting used just for sex and chances are that's not how you wanted her to feel.

as far as foreplay goes, i love it when he's sitting on the couch and i'm on him, facing him, and start kissing him, kinda grinding a little on him. anything is good lol always a good time

[2.2 Straight six]

oh, can't tell you that, it's a secret.

[jon@af]

My girlfriend likes it when, as I start to remove her shirt, I start kissing her belly and work my way up as I continue taking it off of her.

She also likes when I start out giving her a light but sensual back rub and every so often with increasing times, start kissing the back of her neck and by her ears.

Her wrists are also very sensitive. I just lightly rub the inside of her wrist and she loves it.

No sex at the end but the intimacy is great just the same. I don't care what anyone says, you don't have to have sex to be intimate with your girlfriend/boyfriend.

[Toksin]

Not telling all, but with my ex (yeah, I broke up with the girl i posted in the "post your significant other" thread) I used to love it when I just kiss her ear lightly and that whole side of her body instantly gets goosebumps. So cute. Worked too

[Nicole8188]

Meh, haven't done anything with anyone in ages. I've almost forgotten what all of that feels like...

[Damien]

^why'd i move back up here???


it's a white thing. Hispanics love it. We're the sensual type. I don't know anything specific, it's more of a spontaneous thing. Foreplay ain't always needed when it's done right or at the right moment. Although, I guess the spontaneity of it kinda is. The time it takes to strip or partially strip. Idk, i dont write this stuff down, i just do it and they've been satisfied.

I ain't heard much about lack of foreplay though. When girls bring it up if we're out with friends, te guys say they do it. So, maybe it's just the gross amount of jerks and jocks...wait, same diff, that don't. 'Cause whenver I hear it from a girl, it's about your stereotypical frat boy, whether he is actually in a frat or not. It's never the good boyfriend, or the dork they took a chance on, or anyone.

As always, stereotypes were formed for a reason.

[Oz]

NFI, never tried it.





























J/P, Nothing turns her pants to teflon more than giving her a new credit card and softly whispering the word "Shopping" in her ear.

[MunG35]

Originally Posted by Oz

NFI, never tried it.



J/P, Nothing turns her pants to teflon more than giving her a new credit card and softly whispering the word "Shopping" in her ear.

ROFL

[ghostrx7]

im all about it, work your way from neck to the money spot as slow as u could resist. then tease by it for a good few minutes. a slight blow on that area, then maybe up a leg for 1 more min. by the time u get there, they will be begging for it...........

[drunken monkey]

depends on the situation and the location.
foreplay in a restaurant is whole new ball game.
foreplay in a restaurant in venice is something else entirely.
teasing from morning until evening is another nice little game to play.


....and considering that this forum has a lot of under 16 year olds on it, i'm not entirely convinced this is a valid subject matter.

keep it clean guys and gals.

[2.2 Straight six]

minimum age is 13 to join, all kids should've had sex-ed by that age. and if they haven't, im sure they'd know about it.

[MBTN]

The neck the neck the neck! Also, I enjoy sliding my tongue up her entire back. Last girl I had went WILD when I very lightly would bite her shoulders. However, she also enjoyed her hair being pulled and her ass slapped. HARD.

But the tried and true is to go for the neck.

[vinnym86]

foreplay's great. plus, if she said it was great, and you didn't give any foreplay, she was lying to you.


also, (according to Playboy mag), A woman can reach her climax by simply massaging her the right way in the right environment. How's that for foreplay, She's having the time of her life and Mr. Johnson downstairs didn't even need to knock on the door!

[imtheoneandonlyD]

Originally Posted by Damien

I ain't heard much about lack of foreplay though. When girls bring it up if we're out with friends, te guys say they do it. So, maybe it's just the gross amount of jerks and jocks...wait, same diff, that don't. 'Cause whenver I hear it from a girl, it's about your stereotypical frat boy, whether he is actually in a frat or not. It's never the good boyfriend, or the dork they took a chance on, or anyone.

As always, stereotypes were formed for a reason.

I dont think you can stereotype people who are good at or like involve foreplay. Just seems stupid and childish.

I guess im a "jock" and i love foreplay, i think in some cases it can be better than sex. A nice massage is a great place to start, esspecially if your using lotion/oils.