AIM Chat

[airforcevr04]

Ok, me and my fiance have been engaged for 3 months, now my parents like her too. Problem is that she talks to her ex ALOT, and she doesn't do it on the phone, she does it alone on aim. So is there any program that I could type in her s/n and log her chats? Because I really can't deal with this anymore, and I don't wanna tie the knot like this. Thanks

[knorwj]

don't do anything shady yourself or you lose your edge if an argument should arise. Spying on her secretly would not go over well if she found out. I recomend just approaching her on it and explaining how you are feeling.

[Andydg]

This is a wierd first post...

Just buy yourself some sort of a key logger.

[bluechevelle]

I don't know about aim, but yahoo has it. If you know her password or can get it it should have a message achive. You can delete it though so she might do that.

[freakray]

If I didn't know better I would say it's just a troll looking for attention.....

[airforcevr04]

I know its a wierd 1st post, but I've been hanging around here for acouple of months,just checking it out, and when this problem arose I tried finding the solution my self, and I couldn't. So I thought maybe you guys know a program like the one i described. I've tried talking to her about it, but she just like closes the door, so i need to do it this way.

[-Jayson-]

i know the feeling, my GF used to talk to her X every now and then on the phone. She always said they were just friends and wanted to keep in touch. And for her part that was true. But i told her, Guys cant be friends with girls, if a guy is a friend with a girl its because he wants her. She kept saying no no its not like that. We about 6 months ago he leaves her this message that he is still in love with her and wants her back. My gf was upset and told me about it. I rubbed in a little that i was right. I was also kinda pissed and told her that if she kept talking to him i was gonna leave her. She stopped talking to him and thats been the end of it.

[Quickshift]

Dead Aim does it just tell her its for taking away ads which it also does. PM or Aim me if you need help getting it.

[KustmAce]

Uninstall AIM.

[Toksin]

Yeah, installing a keylogger on your fiance's computer is a great way to strengthen trust in the relationship.

Talk to her and tell her you're uncomfortable with it, dufus.

[airforcevr04]

lol, I dun think i'll be able to get on her comp. I'll give it a shot tho, does anybody know a program that I can do it from my comp??

[HighOctaneNOSUser]

I'm sure there's a way if you're using a router and have the systems connected. But like Toksin said, not a smart way to make progress. Just tell her about it!

[Quickshift]

Lol i'm glad that girl said no. A gf is too much of a hassle at this age i'm 15 btw almost 16.

[balls_to_the_wall]

So your not comfortable just talking about a problem with your fiance? Don't do a key logger or crap like that, if she finds out, she is going to be Pissed. Just ask her whats goin on and tell her about your insecurity with it.

[Raz_Kaz]

WOW.

No offense but if you can't even talk to your fiance about this then the marriage isn't gonna get very far. As for the whole men can't be friends with girls bullshit...that depends on the guy.