I just don't understand....

[knorwj]

god i'm so frustrated at my friends. I don't understand what it is.

OK so my birthday is officially over as of 5 minutes ago (typing this as of 12:05 Nov 4)... anyway. my 21st birthday sucked I didn't really do anything I don't even think I drank until the weekend after my b-day. Anyway so this was my 22nd birthday and also the last year that many of my really good friends will be in college. I decided to have a party this weekend with all my friends espescially those who seem too busy to hang otu most of the time. I called them and said that I would plan MY birthday party around them just so they could show up.... yeah they said they'd get back to me after making up a few excuses.

some other friends I try to call and get over here and they talk to you for awhile but as soon as you mention comeing over they stop talking... yup ok I get the point guys. F*ck me.

Anyway I went all day and out of the lets say 50 or so friends I have at school not one said happy birthday to me, and they all know it was my birthday. god I try and be such a nice guy to everyone I know. When its thier birthday I go out of my way to track them down and say happy birthdya but for me... its like ehh nobody cares its just Will. WTF.

I don't think i've had a fun birthday since I came to college and now its my 5th year here... yes 5th year.


Its not my friends either because if it was someone elses birthdya everyone would be like oh my god lets have a party or lets do this or whatever... what the hell why can't someone once at least go out of thier way for me? maybe this sounds selfish but I am that guy who does anything for anyone only to be nice and I never ask anything in return... If a girl has a flat at 4 in the mornign BAM i'm their to fix it for them if they call me, I don't ask for a thing I just go because thats what I do. but at the same time I feel like in everyday life I get shit on constantly by these same people that I go out of my way for... I'm really getting tired of my so called friends. hell right now one of my roommates felt bad and invited a few people over to hang out... they said happy birthday and are now all locked in his room smoking while I sit in my room typeing this...

this post kinda makes me sound like the push over loser guy.. but i'm not i'm good looking outgoing etc. have lots of friends but for some reason they alwasy seem to overlook the minor things especially with me.



WOW thats a long post... well thanks guys for sticking through it if you did, just need to let loose.

[Entity_101]

i know how yer feel, ive had a few at every party that dont do anythign to indentify that its your birthday they just sorta hang around and get free stuff, not even a card !!>! WTF!!!

[_WIDE_LOAD_]

happy bday dude.
dont worry, same thing happend for my 18th. i invited 60ppl to my party n shit, had everything organised and 5 out of 60 turned up...i didnt even get and RSVP's I had to call them to see if they were comming. how fucked is that.
so i know how ya feel man, you aint alone
later, WIDE

[Insanity_97]

Aw, poor guy, that really sucks! I'm sorry to hear that...here's a smooch or two.....Happy Belated Birthday Hunny

[LotusDreams]

Happy B-day dude. People are assholes. Don't worry about it.

[knorwj]

thanks guys... feeling better today. I dunno I was just really bummed last night. I feel old. must be a quarter life crisis haha.

[LotusDreams]

Might as well go out, buy a miata and date someone half your age then

[knorwj]

haha well not quite at the miata stage yet.... and half my age would probly land me in jail haha

[-Josh-]

Sounds like some of the problems i used to have years ago, until i started being a dick to my friends, then they wanted to be all buddy buddy.... I dont recommend this though, everyone's different and you might not get the same results.

[kittedb18bt]

Originally Posted by knorwj

I feel old. must be a quarter life crisis haha.

i turned 22 just a few weeks ago. yeah, i feel old now too. not 1 person even called me on my birthday. i have a few friends birthdays close to mine, i call them and say happy birthday, but they didnt call me even though my birthday is within a few weeks of theirs.

ugh, i dont have many friends though. i dont know what to tell you, just that you are not alone i guess.

[ghostguy6]

I get the same thing all the time On my last b day one person remembered, one fucking person! and she was even 3 days late in telling me. When I look through all my old family photos all the dates are the wrong date, all my ID says I was born on the 14th but evey single photo was taken on the 24th Im not even sure what my own birthday is anymore Its so nice to know my family cares so much about me

[kittedb18bt]

ghost guy, that is hilarious/sad at the same time. you really dont know what your birthday is?

[ghostguy6]

Originally Posted by kittedb18bt

ghost guy, that is hilarious/sad at the same time. you really dont know what your birthday is?

I really dont know, for agruments sake I "celebrate" it on the 14th just because my birth certificate says the 14th but whenever I ask about the old photos and home movies everyone changes the subject rather quickly.

[96Civ]

Originally Posted by ghostguy6

I really dont know, for agruments sake I "celebrate" it on the 14th just because my birth certificate says the 14th but whenever I ask about the old photos and home movies everyone changes the subject rather quickly.

Sounds like a sign of adoption. Or maybe your actually a test tube baby.

[RSX-S777]

Originally Posted by knorwj

haha well not quite at the miata stage yet....

Let's hope Dayna doesn't read this...