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Old 04-13-2004, 10:46 AM
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Question Could this be considered as cheating?

Okay, here's the situation:

I've been going out with this woman(I'm 18, she's 20) for 5 weeks and 4 days. The other night; my friend Brandie asked me if I wanted to go to the movies with her(she knows I have a g/f). I have known her for 3 years or so. I asked my g/f if I could go and she said yes (because she trusts me). The problem comes from my mom, who thinks I'm cheating on my g/f even after I told her that we were only going to the movies as friends. If anyone has any kind of advice or suggestions, I welcome them with a semi-open mind.


P.S: It may sound strange, but when I was 17 I went out with a 41 year old. You can never say no to a hot woman with no kids .
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You dated a 41 year old woman? Damn you had a sugar mama at 17 thats crazy. HAHA. Nah, its not cheating. Since you've known her for a few years and she's your really good friend than its no big deal I don't think.
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Re: Could this be considered as cheating?

you should still be allowed to have platonic friends. i don't think it's cheating. if you hadn't told her it'd be different.
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It's not you that has a problem, it's your mom that does. This is one of the few times that moms are wrong. I would just ignore it. On a side note, try to see if your GF and your "girl" friend want to have a 3some.
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Re: Could this be considered as cheating?

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It's not you that has a problem, it's your mom that does. This is one of the few times that moms are wrong. I would just ignore it.
My mom tends to spaz about things like this every now and then...It pisses me off beyond reason.


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On a side note, try to see if your GF and your "girl" friend want to have a 3some.
Uhhh....How about no?
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Wow, my mom is the same way, I have a lot of friends that are girls, but no gf, so she asks me all the time, dont all the girls get jealous of each other? I'm like, mom, am I not allowed to have friends? Anyways, to touch on your subject, no not at all bro. If youre gf trusts you, then youre fine, I dont know the situation between the other friend and you, but as long as nothin happens with you guys, you got nothin to worry about.
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Re: Could this be considered as cheating?

Just say "HEY! MOM! STFU!!"

Just tell her she can believe whatever the hell she wants, but that you are telling her the truth as you know and see it. It's your life.
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Re: Could this be considered as cheating?

when you think its cheating your proly cheating. as long as your not feeling her up during the movie i see no problem going out a movie with a girl as long as your g/f says ok. its the same as like going out with your buds. as long as your not secretly trying to get in her pants then thers no big. your moms just over reacting.
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Re: Re: Could this be considered as cheating?

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Just say "HEY! MOM! STFU!!"
that'd go over real well in my house.
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Your girlfriend may be testing you to see if you'd go out with another girl...

Women do that stuff sometimes. Just because they say it's okay doens't mean it actually is. Women are the most complicated thing created by God
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Re: Could this be considered as cheating?

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Your girlfriend may be testing you to see if you'd go out with another girl...

Women do that stuff sometimes. Just because they say it's okay doens't mean it actually is. Women are the most complicated thing created by God
Aint that the damn truth, all this time I thought the reason I didnt have a gf was because I was doin somethin wrong, come to find out...its them! Most of em are all FUBAR with their games and tests and stupid drama shit. But you gotta love em...I miss having one...
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as long as 1) she knows u have a g/f and 2) your g/f knows you're just friends with her then.. it's not considered as cheating however..most women tend to be jealous if it's ongoing..
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Re: Could this be considered as cheating?

Who cares what your mom thinks. If your gf is fine with it, and you're not actually doing anything, what's the problem?
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Re: Could this be considered as cheating?

Only if it's a p0rn movie.
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Re: Re: Could this be considered as cheating?

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Just say "HEY! MOM! STFU!!"
That would be the day I sue Bill Gates and get myself a Viper...Because she would probably try and knock the hell out of me.

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Just tell her she can believe whatever the hell she wants, but that you are telling her the truth as you know and see it. It's your life.
I told her the entire story from beginning to end (covering 3 years in less than and 20 minutes) and she says it still doesn't seem right to her. I'm irritated to hell so I'm just gonna tell her: Fuck it...I'm going to the movies anyway. I'm not idiotic enough to fuck up 5 weeks into a relationship.
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