Swingers?

[Mr2Spyder2828]

Hey. I was wondering about swingers. What goes on behind those closed doors? I was in vegas and I heard that there were some swinger clubs around town. I didnt go to one but I was interested. Is it just a house with a giant orgie inside? Lots of naked people walking around like a nudist camp? Are they full of old hippie couples that have sex with eachother? I dont know what goes on there and I would like to know. Thanks for any info you got on the matter.

Maybe next time I'm in vegas I will check it out and let you guys know what goes on there. But I dont want to go if it will be full of old people geting it on!

[kittedb18bt]

meaningless sex, who wants that?

[Oz]

Me!

[freakonaleash1187]

Originally Posted by kittedb18bt

meaningless sex, who wants that?

for my generation right now, the best kind.

[Nickell100]

new sexual interests, eh MR2? gay bars and swingers clubs: I don't know anything about either.

[Steel]

Eh... the thought of swingers clubs always struck a bad chord in me. It's something I could never do if i have a girlfriend, because I can't honestly see it any different than cheating. And that goes in hand with if I was single.. i couldn't do it with another guys girl (even if he's all about it) just cause it doesn't feel right. To each their own i suppose.

[Spec2 Girl]

Originally Posted by Mr2Spyder2828

Hey. I was wondering about swingers. What goes on behind those closed doors? I was in vegas and I heard that there were some swinger clubs around town. I didnt go to one but I was interested. Is it just a house with a giant orgie inside? Lots of naked people walking around like a nudist camp? Are they full of old hippie couples that have sex with eachother? I dont know what goes on there and I would like to know. Thanks for any info you got on the matter.

Maybe next time I'm in vegas I will check it out and let you guys know what goes on there. But I dont want to go if it will be full of old people geting it on!

I don’t know if it’s quite like that. I saw a documentary on Swinging once and it was more like a party where people were standing around talking and mingling. It was later on in the night when couples sought each other out and went off in to rooms to do their thing. No singles were allowed, it had to purely be couples.

Apparently there are some high class swinging parties where it’s purely invitation only and only for the beautiful people.

I must say that swinging is not something that I understand at all. I just couldn’t be with someone else or watch my husband be with someone else. For me, that’s one of the reasons you get married. You want to be with that person and that person only. Each to his/her own though I guess.

[SwaveDave]

'Hey. I was wondering about swingers. What goes on behind those closed doors? I was in
'

Swinging is the highest form of disrespect for ones spouse/partner; it is a sexual perversion of what a marriage is supposed to entail : Sex in order to strengthen the marital bond thru complete disclosure in intimacy. When its shared with near perfect strangers...it is a cheap temporary thrill at the expense of human dignity and worth. It is a sexual addiction that always comes with a steep price : Emotional devastation once the addiction is broken and/or std's of which there are now over 30 out there., with some being permanent and causing sterility.

It is the most twisted form of sexual immorality because : Swingers lock their doors at night to keep strangers out of their house...yet, they will welcome strangers to use their spouses genitals . Utter reprobate minds -- doesnt come much worse than this . Yet, is a growing pastime in our nation which has become a Moral Sewer.

(and please....dont tell me "its ok so long as two people agree to it" ; thats a lame excuse which only a reprobate mind would think of saying and is the reason our nation is morally corrupt ).

[zebrathree]

Originally Posted by SwaveDave

'Hey. I was wondering about swingers. What goes on behind those closed doors? I was in
'

Swinging is the highest form of disrespect for ones spouse/partner; it is a sexual perversion of what a marriage is supposed to entail : Sex in order to strengthen the marital bond thru complete disclosure in intimacy. When its shared with near perfect strangers...it is a cheap temporary thrill at the expense of human dignity and worth. It is a sexual addiction that always comes with a steep price : Emotional devastation once the addiction is broken and/or std's of which there are now over 30 out there., with some being permanent and causing sterility.

It is the most twisted form of sexual immorality because : Swingers lock their doors at night to keep strangers out of their house...yet, they will welcome strangers to use their spouses genitals . Utter reprobate minds -- doesnt come much worse than this . Yet, is a growing pastime in our nation which has become a Moral Sewer.

(and please....dont tell me "its ok so long as two people agree to it" ; thats a lame excuse which only a reprobate mind would think of saying and is the reason our nation is morally corrupt ).

Your morality is making my head numb.

[Ace$nyper]

Originally Posted by SwaveDave

'Hey. I was wondering about swingers. What goes on behind those closed doors? I was in
'

Swinging is the highest form of disrespect for ones spouse/partner; it is a sexual perversion of what a marriage is supposed to entail : Sex in order to strengthen the marital bond thru complete disclosure in intimacy. When its shared with near perfect strangers...it is a cheap temporary thrill at the expense of human dignity and worth. It is a sexual addiction that always comes with a steep price : Emotional devastation once the addiction is broken and/or std's of which there are now over 30 out there., with some being permanent and causing sterility.

It is the most twisted form of sexual immorality because : Swingers lock their doors at night to keep strangers out of their house...yet, they will welcome strangers to use their spouses genitals . Utter reprobate minds -- doesnt come much worse than this . Yet, is a growing pastime in our nation which has become a Moral Sewer.

(and please....dont tell me "its ok so long as two people agree to it" ; thats a lame excuse which only a reprobate mind would think of saying and is the reason our nation is morally corrupt ).

You must have never done stuff like this then OMG its cool. If sex is to strengthen bonds well then i'm just friendly to any hot ass stranger chicks.

Me i've done a bunch of 3ways *2 girls teh ace aint bout other guys not like theres anything wrong with that* with my ex she was so into it her idea and all. Nothing is more fun then watching your girl go down as well nuff said ya know?
I've never been to club or anything like that and i would find up and leaving my partner to another man or women would be weird but things like 3 ways orgys what not there good just some fun no harm.

[SwaveDave]

Originally Posted by zebrathree

Your morality is making my head numb.

RESPONSE:

Having morality in life, is a very important and wise thing ; its there for a reason. Stray from it and see how fast destruction will come to your life.

Buying into our cultures philosophies of getting as much fun as you can in your life, is blatant disregard for practicing restraint and responsibility -- no wonder people by in large dont want there to be a Creator ; its a fly in their lifestyle ointment. Its still doesnt change the fact that we all have a moral fiber and conscience to your being...only some choose to suppress it in favor of doing whatever they want. God offers a much better plan for you life which involves peace, fulfillment, and absolute moral laws to offer protection from harming yourself . He gives us the choice though...but, there will be alot of regrets, later, for those who took the immoral fun route to their short life.
Just some words of caution to you both.

Dave

[Ace$nyper]

Well thankyou for your words of caution but its not how I live my life. Sex can be like a good caring thing but not always this is just to kill few hours I good way and as far as it being a sin and all i'm quite aware well I guess this line sums it up for me.

I see the light at the end but every time I take a step it gets dim. Tell me this is hell we're living in if so heavens gotta be better but if were hell bound whatever lets go down.

Mad props to who knows this song.
In my views i'm not disregrading the creator at all. I live very stirctly to my religion no where does any of it ever talk about lust being a sin. So I'm doing whats OK in my views and your doing whats OK in yours thats all.

[SwaveDave]

'Sex can be like a good caring thing but not always this is just to kill few hours I good way and as far as it being a sin and all i'm quite aware well I guess this line sums it up for me.
I see the light at the end but every time I take a step it gets dim. Tell me this is hell we're living in if so heavens gotta be better but if were hell bound whatever lets go down.
Mad props to who knows this song.
In my views i'm not disregrading the creator at all. I live very stirctly to my religion no
'

RESPONSE:

Sex is designed by the Creator to be between a husband and wife, because its designed around making the marital bond stronger thru complete trust and intimacy ; sex outside of marriage always comes with a heavy price once the fun is over. Sex isnt just physical lovemaking...its a blending of the deepest part of our souls which is why its meant for a lifetime commitment in marriage. You answered your own quesiton as to if its wrong or not when you said ' i know its a sin,,etc..but i do it anyway' . Yu see, Sex is an addiction and its a subtle one. It feels good but its going to end up in consequences for you unless your married. ITs an absolute moral law not to have sex outside of marriage. And yes, lusting is a sin . Look it up in the Bible. ITs not a case of 'i have my religion and you have yours'....its a case of rejecting what God has given you by way of laws for your own protection ; one has to totally push God aside if he is going to continue in sexual immorality. And, the bible says : 'No sexually immoral person will EVER get to heaven'. Do u want forgiveness for this and your many sins which are against God himself ??? Do u want to go to heaven after this short earthly life ?? Then ask God to forgive you, trust Jesus Christ who paid the sin debt which you cannot pay to God, then ask God to give you his power to resist sexual temptation. Finding a good local Church that has a SIngles Ministry in it, will get you going on the right track and youll meet some nice people who gave up living wrongly too. Then you will have the peace and joy of one day going to Heaven. Please dont go and blow your chance by living how YOU want to...by making yourself 'god' of your life---allow the Creator to have his rightful place in your life by putting him first, then you wont have to spend forever in a place where God -Rejectors go where there is alot of sadness and regret from how they lived.
See the movie : THe PAssion of the Christ which is out now..that will show you how much GOd really loves you man.

Regards,

[chicago_guy]

Will you please stop it with the Creator crap?! Dave, we all know you're very religious, so stop it! Please.

Anyway, there was an episode of Nip/Tuck where one of the main guys and his gf went into a swingers club. That was some weird shit, but in a good way.

[SwaveDave]

Originally Posted by chicago_guy

Will you please stop it with the Creator crap?! Dave, we all know you're very religious, so stop it! Please.

Anyway, there was an episode of Nip/Tuck where one of the main guys and his gf went into a swingers club. That was some weird shit, but in a good way.

RESPONSE:

I regret that you think 'im religious' ! Im not...i just have a personal relationship with THe Creator which is what the main purpose of us being here , is : TO get to know him and honor him. He gives us that choice. Now....i do believe that i am posting in the Philosophical/Views DG of Automotive Forum, am i not ?! Therefore, please dont ask me to stop it friend ; im allowed to do so, plus, asking me to stop talking about my greatest love is like me asking you to please stop breathing in this DG (im sure you dont want to do that , right !?).
We have become totally desensitized to the plethera of sexual perversion in this country due to whats on tv, the radio, ,magazines, and the word on the street. Swinging is absolutely and always Wrong --- please stop and think about what it means when a married couple that promised to respect and honor one another, share their bodys with near perfect strangers for entertainment . You see freind,... if you have a moral foundation on which to live by, you wont get duped when tv shows promote sexual immorality. ITs important to think in reality terms..instead of tv glamoritization hollywood style.
The current generation , seems to be totally clueless why morality in society is important -- can i ask you if you know why its important in society ?? Please tell me if you are aware.

Dave