LIfe sucks

[powerslide042000]

Well about 4 months ago i got dumped for another guy. The girl i was seeing still says she loves me but wont change anything about her relationhip, she wont break up with him. Theres more to the story i just dont want to go into detail.

4/19/02-10/06/03
Only us. No one else

Troy

[CiViC_GIRL]

do u know this guy she's with now?
like all breakups..u gotta learn to move on somehow

[jon@af]

Life doesn't revolve around a person, believe it or not. She's moved on, and even if she says she still loves you, she obviously doesn't love you enough to break up with the guy she's with now. Push her out of your mind, be friends if you want, but that's it. Get on with your life and find someone new.

[Steel]

Yeah man. Forget her.. cut of all contact. Don't even try to be friends with her because it just isn't gonna work. Start walking and don't look back man.

[darkness]

move on.

and life is what you make of it. if you let things get you down, life will suck. if you go out and make fun for yourself, life will be good.

[powerslide042000]

"do u know this guy she's with now? "

Yea i do he used to be one of my good friends

Those things are easy for al of u to say

[craigcully]

Girls are the devil! Sorry to hear about your situation, break-ups are a real kick in the pants. And you are right, it is easy to say all that "move on" stuff when you aren't directly experiencing it, but I'm sure that at some point all those people have and they have learned that moving on is the best move you can make in that situation, I certainly have... well, maybe I haven't mastered the concept, but I'm certainly trying. But yeah, that's really all I can say from what I know about you and your situation, is that all you can do is take it day by day and try to move on with your life, and I found it hard to believe that crap when my gf broke up with me, but I guess you grow up and learn after a while. Do whatever you feel is right regarding maintaining a friendship with her, but from my experience don't get your hopes up for getting back with her, it will only mess things up.

[Jay!]

Go rent Swingers...

Mike: Okay, so what if I don't want to give up on her?
Rob: You don't call.
Mike: But you said I don't call if I wanted to give up on her.
Rob: Right.
Mike: So I don't call either way?
Rob: Right.
Mike: So what's the difference?
Rob: There is no difference right now. See, Mike, the only difference between giving up and not giving up is if you take her back when she wants to come back. But you can't do anything to make her want to come back. In fact, you can only do stuff to make her not want to come back.
Mike: So the only difference is if I forget about her or just pretend to forget about her?
Rob: Right.
Mike: Well that sucks.
Rob: Yeah, it sucks.
Mike: So it's just like a retroactive decision, then? I mean I could, like, forget about her and then when she comes back make like I just pretended to forget about her?
Rob: Right. Although probably more likely the opposite.
Mike: What do you mean?
Rob: I mean at first you're going to pretend to forget about her, you'll not call her, I don't know, whatever... but then eventually, you really will forget about her.
Mike: Well what if she comes back first?
Rob: Mmmm... see, that's the thing, is somehow they know not to come back until you really forget.
Mike: There's the rub.
Rob: There's the rub.

These guys are right. It's time to move on. I know it hurts, and I know it's hard, but that's life...

[CiViC_GIRL]

Originally Posted by craigcully

Girls are the devil!

[jon@af]

Originally Posted by powerslide042000

Those things are easy for all of u to say

Dude, talk to Steel, he knows what it's like because he's been in the same situation. Believe it or not there have been others in your situation.

[fajita23200]

Originally Posted by powerslide042000

"do u know this guy she's with now? "

Yea i do he used to be one of my good friends

Those things are easy for al of u to say

Yes, it's easy for them to say , because half the people here have went through the same thing.It sucks,but believe it are not.There is always somebody you'll like more.It's like saying you'll only eat one kind of food.I'm sure that food is great,but,there are so many different types of food it's unreal.

[Atomis27]

Originally Posted by J_Swigz

Dude, talk to Steel, he knows what it's like because he's been in the same situation. Believe it or not there have been others in your situation.

Me too. Powerslide, you think losing a girlfriend is hard, try having your wife fuck around on you.

[fajita23200]

Originally Posted by Atomis27

Me too. Powerslide, you think losing a girlfriend is hard, try having your wife fuck around on you.

Yes,I know the feeling.But,such is life.Keep on moving forward.

[mustang372004]

I just had a break up myself, two weeks ago I asked her if she still had feelings for me, she said she did and then 6 days later she tells me she doesn't have feelings for me anymore and what hurt the most is that she had a bf the next day. I'm trying to still be friends with her but its still very awkard to talk to each other and I'm trying to get over her and move on, but theres so much stuff that reminds me of her.

[Steel]

mustang: oh, yours did that whole "my feelings changed" in the span of a week thing too? HAHA! they're all such liars.