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[PBking82]

Seriously you're just promoting the steretype that women have believed in forever. Just because a guy is friends with a girl doesn't mean he wants to fuck her. I have many friends that are girls, i also have a girlfriend does this mean i plan on fucking every woman i come into contact with? And installing a keylogger? Whoa, hope you plan on finding a new woman if she finds out. That's like recording her phone calls/video tapping her apartment. Man, if i found out my girl was doing that she would not only get the boot, i would prolly kill her. Peace-

[jon@af]

Let it be man. She's engaged to you. My girlfriend talks to her ex online, that doesn't mean I worry. I trust her. If it really bothers you, sit there and talk to her about it.

[jabby_jabby]

id just like to say im friends with all my exes but one who refuses to talk to me and frankly i want nothing to do with him. even the guys i have fooled around with i keep in touch with, and i have no interest in them anymore now that i have a boyfriend, and they fully know that.

so maybe i wouldnt worry too too much about it.

[vinnym86]

sorry bro, but yeah, its a no-brainer. dude, don't keep shit from her. just come out with it like a big boy. talking and staying the night are still ballfields away, last i heard, so stop being so paranoid.

[knorwj]

like I said earlier spying is a no-no in a relationship. you need to make it clear to her that this makes you uncomfortable. If she doesn't understand that then maybe you guys aren't ready to be engaged.


To put it clear and simple. If you spy on her and she finds out then you are going to be the one in the doghouse, and you know who she is going to turn to to bitch about it? thats right her ex. The very one that you were worried about. So in reality you may be getting paranoid about nothing and by spying you may turn your fears into reality. Just talk to her about it, don't spy.

[airforcevr04]

k, I'm gonna talk to her about it

[Akira13126]

Like a few others have said. If you have a problem with your girlfriend, just tell her. I've meesed up a few relationships because I couldn't just tell her the feelings I had. A couple of months ago it all just builtup and went to shit. Needless to say I lost a wonderful person because I couldn't be a man and say something. I've learned snece then and I haven't had a problem sience. Just talk to her man

[Toksin]

Sheesh.

Takes a billion people screaming at him on the internet before he mans up and talks to her.

Should we start a pool on how long the marriage lasts?

[knorwj]

Originally Posted by Toksin

Sheesh.

Takes a billion people screaming at him on the internet before he mans up and talks to her.

Should we start a pool on how long the marriage lasts?

definitely, but we should wait till the outcome of their little chat, it may not even make it to marriage.

[imtheoneandonlyD]

Originally Posted by knorwj

definitely, but we should wait till the outcome of their little chat, it may not even make it to marriage.

Trust and communication are pretty much the most important things in making a relationship work. Doesnt really sound like you have either.

[Toksin]

Originally Posted by imtheoneandonlyD

Trust and communication are pretty much the most important things in making a relationship work. Doesnt really sound like you have either.

Well said.