Confession of an old thread

Ok, I am sure many of you old school people from here remember a thread I posted in here years ago called why are guys so complicated, well my husband has allways been attracted to other women naturaly. He looks at them as any other man would. I never cheated on him, he never cheated on me. The pic in my avatar is me and him. I love him dearly. Me and Eric. My kids I have shown are our real kids. Every thing else I have said in here, I usualy give credit or the good things done to others instead of myself, and take on the bad things as my own. I am one who does not like to make others look bad and it seems I may have done that. Even though I never ment to do it. We do not do drugs, I do smoke, and at times I do drink. Though we have done them in the past. As I have said before having kids makes you grow up and leave the bad drugs and such behind.

I do not advise any body to take them, they are not what is good in life.
I have made mistakes by using them in the past and learned a hard lesson from them. At times I wish I never took them, though I do direct my kids away from them. I made the mistake of smoking with my kids while pregers with them and it was a horrable one to make. I love them, my family with all I have to give and I would never harm them in any way. They are what life is made of. They are the reason I go on living every day. They are the reason I got up for several months and took care of them, they are the reason I walked the floors while my boy cried 24/7. Eric is a Darn good daddy, and a wonderful husband. It was the hard times we went through that made our love grow stronger than ever. I cherrish every moment we have had and still do have.
They are the reason I never killed myself in times of wanting to. My husband and kids are the best thing that ever happened to me. And as God is my witness, I refuse to let them go. I will send him an email or invite to this place and so you can get his side of the story.

Just had to get this rant out in the open. It is something that has been eating at me. I was upset with a friend and acted as a fool, when I wrote that first thread in here. It was wrong, and if you wish to delete my account I understand.

[fredjacksonsan]

What exactly are you confessing, and do you have a link to the thread?

I've never seen anything from you that would indicate you should be banned...

[00accord44]

Is the confession the smoking while pregnant? That is definitely something I would be upset about, but as long as your kids are healthy then consider yourself even more blessed and love them like the miracle they are

[MagicRat]

Originally Posted by fredjacksonsan

and do you have a link to the thread?

I think it was this one:
http://www.automotiveforums.com/vbul...d.php?t=351176
If I am correct, well, we all learn from our mistakes.
Making errors or doing things that you might feel bad about later is what makes you human.

Analyzing past, negative actions to justify your bad feelings about them is very, very common, and is a valuable mechanism which helps people cope with life. Here is some more info on (what I think is) the applicable theory:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_dissonance

[oldblu65]

Fantasies are just that - fantasies ! Most people when they decide to indulge in those fantasies find out real quick what a mistake they have made - often too late ! Think long and hard ( no pun intended ) before you step over that line . Think !

[blazee]

Originally Posted by MagicRat

I think it was this one:
http://www.automotiveforums.com/vbul...d.php?t=351176

Oh man, I want to bump that thread so bad. I just read part of the first page, and the smartass in me is begging to reply to some of those.

EDIT: Aww hell, I'll do it here.

Originally Posted by karmacae

Ok, they say that women can not make up there minds. Me and my husband have been married for 7 years. For the past 4 he has been hinting at me, and asking me to have a 3 some( me, him, and another woman) Well, I finaly decided that this would be the perfect gift for him. So I went out and got this girl that I knew. (My husband has been eyeballing her.) We got a sitter for the kids. Got some vodka, and some beer for him, and a few other party favers. All this time my husband is at work, he has no idea this is goieng on. Well, around 8 he pulls up in the driveway. My friend meets him at the door and kisses him. She hands him a beer and I hand him the party faver. He sits in his chair with a shit eatting grin. He seem to be enjoying himself. Me and her are allready juiced up. He says that he would rather watch for a while. Ok, thats fine with us. Me and her are getting into it and he suddleny gets up and walks out the door and takes off in the car. Me and her are totaly in shock. This was totaly unexpected. He comes back 15 munits later and says he is sorry, That he did not want to do this because it was not right. NOW WHAT THE FUCK< HE HAS BEEN BEGGING ME FOR THIS FOR 4 YEARS> NOW HE CHANGES HIS MIND!!!!!!!!! OH HELL NO

Maybe another girl wasn't what he had in mind.

Originally Posted by NeonAtron

Call me strange but i dont see what the big deal about 3-somes is anyway. I mean u only got one "connecter". He probably realized "Wtf is the point?"

Obviously a virgin.

Originally Posted by sivic02

Ok maybe I dont have 2, but just think about the possibilities. Although I would feel sorry for the girl Id be having sex with because she would have to deal with it for twice as long lol.

You're so bad that you pity the girl for having to deal with it longer than necessary?

Originally Posted by Raz_Kaz

karmacae, your husband suddenly went gay on your ass. Plain and simple.

Bwahahaha!

Originally Posted by fredjacksonsan

It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean.

No matter how accommodating the motion of the ocean is... you still can't sail the seven seas in a f*cking canoe.

Originally Posted by Raz_Kaz

No man in their right minds would turn down a threesome with 2 other girls. Either that are the combined uglyness of both of you doing obscene acts caused him to tun gay.


Take your pick

[-Josh-]

HAHA, i remember that, quite an introduction to the forums.

[tonioseven]

Sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality.

I feel so guilty about loosing my baby. I would give anything in this world to get him back. Though this place seems messed up in a way. Something is not right in here. This whole world seems so messed up. In reality it is all messed up. I dont know what to believe any more.

[RaeRae1]

Originally Posted by karmacae

I feel so guilty about loosing my baby. I would give anything in this world to get him back. Though this place seems messed up in a way. Something is not right in here. This whole world seems so messed up. In reality it is all messed up. I dont know what to believe any more.

Who to believe? Your psychiatrist may be a good start. I honestly think you need much more than a forum to help you.