Guys...

[Jet-Lee]

Damn dude, that was deep. *sniffle*

[fairladyz_gt-r]

Thx guys for the input

[quteasabutton]

Originally Posted by Jet-Lee

This woman knows what she wants and how to get it.

What a turn on.





Holla back at me gurl!

HoLa BaCk At Me BoI! how about not..

sorry i was so harsh earlier but i'm SO sick of guys not caring about anything but looks. i'm constantly getting messages from guys who are like "hey you're so hot, call me/message me" and that's it. any guy who lacks that much creativity is never going to get a message back, at least from me.

now if a guy had said "wow you look so awesome in that ski racing vid on your page, tell me more about that!" i'd love to talk to him. see my point? get interested in more than just her looks and like all the other guys said, it is very very likely that the more you love and care about her the more beautiful she will become in your eyes. most girls who are attractive already know that guys think they're beautiful. if you want to get one of those girls, you gotta stand out from the rest of the guys drooling over her.

[Jet-Lee]

wow you look so awesome in that ski racing vid on your page, tell me more about that!

[twospirits]

Originally Posted by J_Swigz

everyone pretty much stated what I think on the matter. If you keep looking at it as 'well, there is a hotter girl, I could get hotter,' Then you'll never be happy with what you have. I love my girlfriend because she's hella smart, great personality, keeps me on my toes (in the good way) and of course, is attractive to me.

Are there 'hotter' girls? Yes. Do I notice them? Of course, I'm a guy with eyes. Do I ever think I should get one of these hotter girls because they might be more physically attractive? Not really. I'm happy with my girlfriend and think she is beautiful and love her to pieces . I don't need to the "hottest thing on the block" to be happy, you know?

Now, another thought I have is, don't let anyone necessarily dismiss you as shallow or dismissing of your woman's worth, because I know (being a guy) how guys can sometimes work. Trust me on this, when you find a girl that you are truly happy with, while you might see a girl that is 'hotter,' the woman in your life will still always be the most beautiful girl you've ever seen, and that is all that matters.

I have to say thats is one of the best posts I have read when it comes to relationship posts in here. Very sincere and to the point. Kudos to you man, hope you and your girl stay happy with each other. You got a good head on your shoulders J. You give the rest of us guys a good name.

and what qute says is correct. its not about the looks.

TS out

[vinnym86]

^swigz is the kinda guy that if i ever meet, i'd buy him a beer.

[Jet-Lee]

Hell, if I ever meet anyone from here, I'll buy 'em a drink or two.