Guys...

[fairladyz_gt-r]

I don't get it...am i the only one with this problem? Is like....us guys just seem unable to be satisfly(sp) with what we got.....other's girl is always somehow...hotter? why!? any body know how to make us (me) ungreedy?

[Jet-Lee]

What's it matter if the other one is "hotter"? Sure, I've got female friends that are hot, but their personalities keep them from being anything commitable(if that's a word), imo. The one's that are good match for me, oh well, they understand. I'm hitched and it's stayin' that way as long as possible. If I thought I belonged to someone else, I'd be there.

I don't know how to answer your question except iwht my own experience, which is stated above.

[highteknology]

Originally Posted by fairladyz_gt-r

other's girl is always somehow...hotter? why!? any body know how to make us (me) ungreedy?

this may sound like stupid response, but, why don't you just try and get a hotter girlfriend??

although, i would be willing to bet that the REAL problem lies within you and your ability to appreciate your girlfriend to the fullest extenet. whether she is hotter than others or not you are with HER and you need to realize all that she has to offer. sounds to me like you don't

[Jet-Lee]

Originally Posted by highteknology

this may sound like stupid response, but, why don't you just try and get a hotter girlfriend??

although, i would be willing to bet that the REAL problem lies within you and your ability to appreciate your girlfriend to the fullest extenet. whether she is hotter than others or not you are with HER and you need to realize all that she has to offer. sounds to me like you don't

Awesome job putting into words what I couldn't.

[2.2 Straight six]

there'll come a time when you'll realise that love is blind and having a better-looking girlfriend means nothing.

personally, i find the girl i love the most beautiful i've ever seen. but there's no point being superficial. relationships based on sex and looks rarely last. love someone for who they are, and not what they look like.

[highteknology]

Originally Posted by Jet-Lee

Awesome job putting into words what I couldn't.

what can i say, great minds think alike

[Nicole8188]

Hmm...I'm incredibly shallow and I go for nothing but looks alone.

I also lost my glasses months ago.

[Jet-Lee]

Originally Posted by Nicole8188

Hmm...I'm incredibly shallow and I go for nothing but looks alone.

I also lost my glasses months ago.

From looking at your avatar and myspace, in my honest opinion you look prettier without them. That's saying a lot, because I most generally think girls look prettier with.

*looks over shoulder* I ain't hittin' on you, so make sure your man don't come runnin', now.

[Muscletang]

Originally Posted by 2.2 Straight six

there'll come a time when you'll realise that love is blind

Then why is lingerie so popular?

On a more serious note though I'll say this, love comes in many different taste. Example?



John Lennon here, who was one of the Beatles, probably could have gotten almost any hottie in the 1960's. It was a sure thing if she was a hippie.

Who does he go for though?



Probably the ugliest bitch (yes she's a bitch because she broke up the Beatles) on the planet where all the world's alcohol couldn't make her half-way decent.

As I said, love comes in many different taste. I will agree A LITTLE (I won't fall for no damn Yoko Ono) as the girls I've had the strongest feelings for weren't the best looking but their personalities made up for that. The hottest girls I've known I couldn't stand and it was a turn off.

[fairladyz_gt-r]

She have great personality(sp) too, and as far as i can tell i am not the only one who think she is pretty hot...i mean people stare at her everywhere she goes...emm that say something u know....I am not saying that i am not happy with her, is just that...emm u always have some complain u know....human are never statisly~!!!

[quteasabutton]

Originally Posted by Muscletang

Then why is lingerie so popular?

On a more serious note though I'll say this, love comes in many different taste. Example?



John Lennon here, who was one of the Beatles, probably could have gotten almost any hottie in the 1960's. It was a sure thing if she was a hippie.

Who does he go for though?



Probably the ugliest bitch (yes she's a bitch because she broke up the Beatles) on the planet where all the world's alcohol couldn't make her half-way decent.

As I said, love comes in many different taste. I will agree A LITTLE (I won't fall for no damn Yoko Ono) as the girls I've had the strongest feelings for weren't the best looking but their personalities made up for that. The hottest girls I've known I couldn't stand and it was a turn off.

what'd we learn from this example? don't do drugs...

but yeah back on topic, wow, girls come with personalities?! but hell who cares about personalities when there's boobs! ass! legs! wowz! hotties!

please don't be so shallow, it only makes u look like a stupid, inconsiderate, only thinking with your dick, sorta guy. prooobably not what you were going for. meet a girl who you get along with well, and she will become more beautiful. think like chris. maybe take your girl shopping and buy her some sexy clothes that you both like, take her to the salon for a new 'do. i've known of VERY few girls who would ever turn down a complimentary trip to the salon. while looks are important, they're not everything.

[Jet-Lee]

Originally Posted by quteasabutten

what'd we learn from this example? don't do drugs...

but yeah back on topic, wow, girls come with personalities?! but hell who cares about personalities when there's boobs! ass! legs! wowz! hotties!

please don't be so shallow, it only makes u look like a stupid, inconsiderate, only thinking with your dick, sorta guy. prooobably not what you were going for. meet a girl who you get along with well, and she will become more beautiful. think like chris. maybe take your girl shopping and buy her some sexy clothes that you both like, take her to the salon for a new 'do. i've known of VERY few girls who would ever turn down a complimentary trip to the salon. while looks are important, they're not everything.

This woman knows what she wants and how to get it.

What a turn on.





Holla back at me gurl!

[jon@af]

everyone pretty much stated what I think on the matter. If you keep looking at it as 'well, there is a hotter girl, I could get hotter,' Then you'll never be happy with what you have. I love my girlfriend because she's hella smart, great personality, keeps me on my toes (in the good way) and of course, is attractive to me. Here is a picture:



Are there 'hotter' girls? Yes. Do I notice them? Of course, I'm a guy with eyes. Do I ever think I should get one of these hotter girls because they might be more physically attractive? Not really. I'm happy with my girlfriend and think she is beautiful and love her to pieces . I don't need to the "hottest thing on the block" to be happy, you know?

Now, another thought I have is, don't let anyone necessarily dismiss you as shallow or dismissing of your woman's worth, because I know (being a guy) how guys can sometimes work. Trust me on this, when you find a girl that you are truly happy with, while you might see a girl that is 'hotter,' the woman in your life will still always be the most beautiful girl you've ever seen, and that is all that matters.

[imtheoneandonlyD]

Hot is for staring, beautiful is your wife.

[vinnym86]

from reading previous threads of your's, i'd say you lack plenty of self confidence. Be happy with yourself before you look to others for happiness. you could be expecting someone else to be filling a hole that can't be covered without facing personal demons. When you are happy about yourself, you will find happiness in others.