Should I Pay??

[CivicLx]

Well I'm going to Colorado next Thursday for a week to visit this girl I met when I was stationed in Yuma. We met one Sunday night out cruising. My question is; when I go up to see her and we go out and stuff, should I pay? I normally wouldn't mind but since I am paying for the ticket, I think I should be exempt from taking her out
You guys agree or think I'm just cheap?

[Shortbus]

Since you are going to see her and making the move you should pay this time. Just MHO

[CivicLx]

It never even crossed my mind until today; about going out and paying. I mean I think the guy should pay for the girl, but normally if they're actually going out...or dating. I just don't really want to since I had to buy a ticket. I mean if she came down or something, then of course I would. I'm not that cheap...honest

[grimmy]

I think it might make a good impression on her if you did. might even make her want to eventualy fly down and visit you.

[integra818]

Be a genlteman, pay up . Making a girl pay on your date is like having her tie your shoe laces for you.

[grimmy]

my girlfriend has tied my shoe laces before.
whats wrong with that?

[YellowMaranello]

Originally posted by integra818
Be a genlteman, pay up . Making a girl pay on your date is like having her tie your shoe laces for you.

Not if she said she'll pay.

[CivicLx]

I wouldn't expect her to pay for me too; just herself I'd pay for dinner, but if we went to the movies, I'd expect her to pay for herself since we're just friends. Like I said, if we went on a date, then of course I'd pay, but I don't know if it'll be like that or not.

[Oz]

I'm woith you Civiclx. She should at least pay for her movie ticket. My personal way to deal with it would be openly to offer to pay and if she refuses, let her pay

[Vyacheslav]

gentelmen always pay for ladies

[CivicLx]

Whatever it takes to get me laid

Hahaha...just joking