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#1
02-24-2003, 02:08 PM
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Is it bad to go out with your best friends ex-girlfriend?
4 months ago i liked this girl then she started being a bitch to me then went out with my best friend them dumped him 3months later and went for me.. is that bad to go out with your best friends ex-girlfriend considering i did like her first...
some people say im a douche, am I?
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02-24-2003, 05:14 PM
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yes u r because if she left u once shes gonna do it again, i h8 bitches like that, wen i first red ur post i red "i rilly liked this gurl and then i dumped her and went for my best guy friend" and im like wtf is going on :silly2:
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02-24-2003, 06:44 PM
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It's sounds like she's got problems of her own.
I wouldn't do it man.
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02-24-2003, 08:57 PM
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Well if this girls already been a bitch to you, i wouldn't bother. How do you know shes changed? she might just turn out as a bitch again.
But going out with a friends ex can be seen as bad, but aslong as they are totally broken up, its ok too. You just end up having alot of uncomfortable situations. sarujin
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02-25-2003, 01:25 AM
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No way mate- She is no dobut just using you to get back at your mate. Plus kt could test your frendship with mate
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02-25-2003, 03:16 AM
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Agreed with ALL previous posts on the issue. Not to mention the fact that I consider it a personal honor code not to pursue a girl if one of your close friends, let alone your best friend, has dated her, particularly recently.
How many more reasons do you need to convince you not to touch her with a 10-foot pole?
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02-25-2003, 10:03 AM
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ditch the bitch
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02-25-2003, 06:48 PM
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tear that shit up and secretly set up a camera.. . duh
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02-25-2003, 11:19 PM
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sorry for the 2 threads, i thought i posted the other thread in a different section of coffee break and i couldnt find it later so i reposted it here... sorry
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02-26-2003, 07:09 AM
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02-26-2003, 08:45 AM
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My question is what kind of "best friend" do you have if he went out with her when you liked her? Seems kinda shittay to me.. But I agree with everyone else that if she was that way to you once, it will happen again. Ditch her.
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02-26-2003, 01:39 PM
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i found out she was only that way to me because she thought i hated her for going out with my friend but i didnt and once she found out that i didnt hate her she started being nice again
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03-02-2003, 06:56 PM
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Hell no its never a good idea to go out with a best friends ex girfriend or ex wife. And most females that would even go out with you in a situation like that are probably trying to get back at your best friend or cause trouble between the two of you.
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03-07-2003, 07:19 PM
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The Dilemna
CF - my advice is to stay clear of the lady in question unless of course your objectives from the relationship are purely physical, that's all you want and you're sure you won't be cut up about it when the inevitable happens (ie you get tired of her and ditch her, she sees thru you and ditches you).
As for the general question... It's something my mind is wrestling with at the moment. If two of your best friends end up being a couple for a while and it doesn't work out - then if you and she really like each other, really enjoy each others company, can talk about stuff without reservation together, share values and interests and physically attracted - is it necessarily wrong? Do you potential screw up a wonderful friendship by exploring this aspect of your relationship? Do you consider the consequences of how it affects your friendship with your best male friend? Do you think that in 5 years that you will regret not asking the question now? I don't have the answers - at the moment I'm wondering what I will say to her the next time I see her. There's lots I could say and yet a good part of me is leaning toward it slide - loyalty, friendship are tough calls - I'm going to try and follow my heart on this although it's a troubled one.
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