The official nice guy thread.

[Misundaztood]

Okay, just need to vent. What is it with women?! If your nice, your invisible to them. It's like a huge turnoff for them. I mean, they'll be cool with you at first, but as soon as your even the slight bit nice to them, forget about ever being anything with them. It's soo stupid. They'll date jerks who'll cheat on em', never buy them anything , never want to spend any time witn em', be rude to em'. etc...
Sorry, just had to get it out. Not in the greatest mood today.

[Amish_kid]

and the world feels your pain

literally
i mean it sucks i know im on the same boat as you

[-The Stig-]

it happens all too often unfortunately.... all too often...

[Neutrino]

Originally posted by Misundaztood
Okay, just need to vent. What is it with women?! If your nice, your invisible to them. It's like a huge turnoff for them. I mean, they'll be cool with you at first, but as soon as your even the slight bit nice to them, forget about ever being anything with them. It's soo stupid. They'll date jerks who'll cheat on em', never buy them anything , never want to spend any time witn em', be rude to em'. etc...
Sorry, just had to get it out. Not in the greatest mood today.

That is so true. I have most of my friends advising me to be more of a jerk to girls if i want to be more popular. And you know what i think they might be right.

[Dustin_S]

It's just another law of nature.

Females prefer males that exhibit dominant traits- often aggression, a certain amount of Ego, and leadership abilities, such as getting things done, I.E: being a jerk.

[Porsche]

I feel the pain.

My friend (A girl) says there's an appeal in the jerks, something about how they have confidence. I don't know how that works.

I'm just a nice guy.

[Oz]

Yep, it sure does sux0r to be a nice, average looking guy and have high-heel marks all over your face form where you've been walked on.


Women.

[Twist]

"Nice guys finish last. Win any way you can." ~ Leo Durocher


Yeah, I'm a nice guy. Never had a girlfriend. I have the "terrible awful" friendship disease. You know the one when you become best friends with the girl you'd love to go out with. And you see the jerk she's dating and she says "Why can't I date a guy more like you?" :silly2:

Oh well. I'm taking a break from trying to date now and am just going to enjoy the friendships I have.

[Heep]

I have plenty of confidence and I'm nice. Hasn't gotten me anywhere either though

Women don't know what's best for them....

[YellowMaranello]

Just remember this, attraction isn't a choice. If you can make a woman fell attractino for you then there's nothing she can do about it. Unfourtunately, nice guys don't make attraction. You have to be extremelly confident, funny, different, unpredictable, and basically a challenge. Try treating the woman like your bratty little sister and bust her balls.

[Oz]

Originally posted by Twist
"Nice guys finish last. Win any way you can." ~ Leo Durocher


Yeah, I'm a nice guy. Never had a girlfriend. I have the "terrible awful" frienship disease. You know the one when you become best friends with the girl you'd love to go out with. And you see the jerk she's dating and she says "Why can't I date a guy more like you?" :silly2:

Oh well. I'm taking a break from trying to date now and am just going to enjoy the friendships I have.

w3rd to that whole post.

Originally posted by YellowMaranello
...and bust her balls.

Have you studied biology yet?

[Self]

Ahh people, I can see not many, if ANY of you have read the LADDER yet. If you know what's good for you, READ IT NOW!! Here ya go...
http://intellectualwhores.com/ladderintro.html
It's kinda lengthy, but after you're done, you will be ENLIGHTENED to say the least! Also, I don't necessarily agree with the views of the Ladder, but even I admit it does make a sort of weird sense...

[Polygon]

The sure fire way to get women to like you is called dinkman, it works every time, because nice guys finish last.

[Porsche]

Originally posted by Self
http://intellectualwhores.com/ladderintro.html
It's kinda lengthy, but after you're done, you will be ENLIGHTENED to say the least! Also, I don't necessarily agree with the views of the Ladder, but even I admit it does make a sort of weird sense...

You are my god for sending me that. I do feel enlightend, I don't so much agree with it all, but the author clearly has women worked out. I was impressed. KEEP IT SECRET this can't get out.

[Spec2 Girl]

Speaking from a females perspective, we get tired of the jerks after a while. I went through a phase of being attracted to and going out with them, but grew out of it eventually. Nice guys are so much better all round.