MY BIGGEST F*IN PET PEEVE (slight language)

[SilverLotus340R]

I HATE BEING FUCKIN IGNORED

i am soooooooooooooooooooooo fucking sick of being fucking ignored by every fucking person i know

me and my girl break up and all my fuckin social status goes down the drain...HELLO THEY ARE MY FRIENDS TOO

on the road to getting back together ( you have NO idea how bad i want her back and nothin will change it)

and she does what...IGNORES ME

now to instant messenger ... THE WORST F IN THIS cREATED... she gets on ... me-hey her-hi me - whats up her -nuttin me-how was ur day

1/2 an hour later NO FUCKIN RESPONSE i HATE BEING IGNORED
it is my worst pet peeve in the world is someone acting like ur not there it always has been always will be

thank you and have a nice fuckin day:flash:

[taranaki]

Someone had better post on this before he goes ballistic

[freakray]

I had the same experience with a break up.......suddenly none of your own friends know you.....
I got tired of it so I went to Europe and partied for a few months.....worked for me, but I could do that......
I hope things will get better for you, I hate to say it, but if she is treating you like this, then she really doesn't deserve you.
Go and look after your personal happiness instead of waiting on her.
Hope you will feel better....soon

Ray

[speediva]

It happens to the girlies, too.

I am a tomboy (duh) but I used to hang with my b/f's group. My b/f (at the time) and I had been friends for a few years, so hanging with everyone in a group was pretty normal. But guess what happened in the break?? Everyone took his side except for my good friend, who was pretty much the only other girl in the group.

I am finally (after about 8-9 months) getting to hang with the group again, but I now realize I don't need them. I have made new friends, and I'm happier with them b/c my friendship with them isn't based upon some relationship. I've also gotten my ex back as a friend, which isn't always easy to do.

Time heals all wounds. Just be yourself, and for now just kinda float around until your real friends emerge.

[SilverLotus340R]

thanks guys and gals

im kinda over it now...a day later..pathetic i know

but she was online and i called her and she was normal and she said she was just talking to alot of people and forgot bout my window (which is bull that she forgot but thats not the point)

i WISH i could go to Europe and party..thatd be off the chains

but saturn..as you said..i made new friends after the break up..the bad side of it was that they were all in different schoolls.. so if we wanted to hang out itd have to be on the weekends..i dunno blah blah BLAH

thanks again

[fwdfreak]

I`ve felt that shi*y feeling. Pisses me off

[carnut]

After I got divorced (defendant) none of my so called friends call anymore. Screw them. After awhile my ex-in laws try to suck up to me for help, screw them too. The world is full of new friends.

[Ace$nyper]

All I can say take up drinking and start swinging all will be good then works for me

[PoisonFangs]

I am with you on that one. i cant stand when people treat me like i am not there. the only person that pays any attention to me is my girlfriend.

[KatWoman]

SIlver I know EXACTLY how you feel. Back in the day Alex and I had a car club. We saw a few members come and go but the few who stayed we became really good friends with. Eventually the club died, but we still had our friends. It was nice getting calls a few times a week from people asking how my day went or life was treating me etc.

Then last summer we split up. My phone quit ringing. They quit answering their phones if I called. And if I did get ahold of someone they would say they already had plans....which later I found out they were hanging with Alex but didn't have the balls to tell me. We remained friends after the break up so it wasn't like them hanging out with him would be a problem. I just wish they would have been honest because it just made me feel left out. So what used to be OUR friends has now become HIS friends. They dont talk to me on AIM, my messages go ignored. I've told Alex that this hurts me but his attitude is "then go find new friends." I even reduced my cell phone plan to the lowest one possible just so I can have something if an emergency comes up. Out of 1000 minutes a month I had I barely used 60

Alex and I got back together not too long ago, but the story is still the same with our...I mean HIS...friends. He still doesn't think there's a problem but to me when people quit calling there is a problem. I don't know if I believe in "friends" anymore because when I get close to people, shit like this happens or they move away and I never see them again. I don't even have one female friend I can just call up anytime to vent to, say hi to, have a girls nite out or whatever. Alex has at least 3 guys he can do this with.

So what I did was go back to school so I can finish my degree and get a better job someday.....maybe even someplace else. Alex decided he wants a few days a week to himself completely so he has those nites on my class nites. Now with school, working fulltime, and homework, I have filled in the gaps of time I would be otherwise pissing away. It would still be nice if someone showed an interest of what's going on in my life but I have resigned myself to and accepted that for now that's just not gonna happen.

So Silver if you have the funds or time, school could be a good thing

[Purpura Delujo]

No girl = More beer Start downin the booze mate!

About the ignoring things, if they ignore you, hit the booze :ylsuper. I know that just about alll I've said is hit the booze but hey, hit the booze!