Help wit my Gurl (nothing to do with cars)

[ECKOdotCOMPLEX]

Alright..the only reason why im bringin this up in AF.com is because i feel like this is my second home....i feel like we're all one big happy family and i can trust you peeps...alright heres my problem...my gurl and i have been fighting A LOT lately and tonight i broke up with her...now before we were going out we were like best friends and got along hella good... thats why we started going out...and im in love with her...but this fighting needs to stop...so when i broke up with her i told her to lets learn how to be best friends again and maybe we can try to have a relationship again. cause IMO its easier to have a relationship if your and ur gurl are friends...so what do u guys/gals think? did i do the right thing?

[eklipz]

I think that if you were fighting all the time, then maybe you werent meant to be a couple. But maybe not, what sort of things were you fighting over?
If you and your girl are fighting over small things, try and talk it out and be more cool about it, make compromises. I think it would be good to try and be good friends again, because letting something like "dating" ruin your relationship altogether isnt good at all, and if you love her, then by all means try and make just being friends work. And if you can do that, then maybe if you and her both feel the same way about dating, then try it again, but if the fighting continues again, just end the dating and try and talk her back into just being friends because you werent working as a couple.

[Setanta]

Maybe you did the right thing, but if she sees this here she's going to be plenty pissed that you shared with a couple of hundred strangers

Just ignore her when she wants an argument - that pisses 'em off even more than saying anything back will, hell, it's more fun too

Maybe that's why I'm single

[civickiller]

yeah what are you guys fighting about ? well i think if you guys start to get into an arguement dont raise your voice because that how yelling fights start. just remain calm and dont let yourself get upset. and i found myself doing this, apolozing for everything even if she was wrong just to prevent a fight. then maybe after you guys calm down you could talk about it calmly. thats what i did with my ex, but she is my ex now, anyways if we started to argue i wouldnt raise my voice so she most of the time didnt start to yell because i wasnt yelling. then after she calmed down, then we talked about it. but if you or your girl are immature then your calm talk is probably gonna turn into an argument.

if you did something you have to step back and analyze what you did and take a good look at yourself to see if you really did do something wrong. it takes maturity to do this and if its brought to your attention and you do this, then there wont be any fights.

but to let you know i am single. this is what i am gonna do with my next gf

[TrailerParkJake]

i got in too many fights wth my ex......it sucked ass, and im 10x more happy now that shes gone...sure i had to change my number and she busted out my windshield...but its better off for the both of us...if you love her though maybe give her a second chance.....good luck with thwat ever youy doo...and im drunk right now and pretty pisseed at some bitches soo if ithis douesnt seem like good advice just ignore it...peace bro
-will

[MyFirst4G]

Okay, here is what i do with my girlfriend, first, girls are evil, they always get their way, so its really no use in trying to fight with them..... So, what i would do is make her fell like she is winning the argument and then look all sad and upset that you did someting and then she'll say she's sorry and then in her mind she won, but man, you really did. And you say that u broke up with her, well, sonny, if you love her, go get her, dont wait, the longer you wait, the more its gonna set both of you apart because you both will be like why diddt i go back sooner or whatever.... So, go up to her, hold her hand, and apologize, and ask her what she feels like when she's with you and then you tell her what you feel and trust me man, you got her back! but whatever you do, dont Bullshit! they are too smart.......

[Worshp]

Read Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus LOL!!!

Um, but seriously most times that people fight is when they aren't listening to and understanding what the other person is saying. It really does help to listen to each other and try and put yourself in the other person's shoes. I know that sounds corny, but it's true. Being able to empathise is a quality that applies to all relationships whether b/f g/f, friends, family, colleagues or anything. If you can master this you will be something special.