well...im starting to lose hope

[Chiquae07]

well, i am the talk of the school. i have a job, a nice clean car, and am not dogging down every hot chick i see in school. and it seems people dont want to stop talking to me...in school.

but out of school like now, life sucks.

people dont want to talk outta school, parents disapprove because of my car, and chicks are used to being treated like shit.

it seems like chicks are koo when they are forced to be with you, but when asked free willingly, nothing is happening. i am serious startin to just give up and use the hand. might as well marry my comp. there are NO girls where i live it seems. well, girls have have some sense, and not think they are the shit and go out looking like a stripper.

im not going to steal my friends girl, or familys girls of that matter. it seems that the girls that are willing to do somethin outside of school, are in a relationship with one of my friends....

any advice or aomethin?

[beef_bourito]

are you in high school?

[Chiquae07]

unfortunatly......for the next 2 months, then im out....

[beef_bourito]

just tough it out for the next two months, then when you go to college/university you'll find alot more girls. i think it's something like 3-5 girls to every guy at my university.

i know how you feel though, i went to a boarding school, and neadless to say selection was small, we had a few high quality girls that every guy wanted, then the rest were average or less. just wait until you go to college and meet some intelligent girls, although i've found alot of pretty stupid ones there. is it sad that the most interesting girls i've met are in engineering?

[Chiquae07]

lol. that sounds about right. the most interesting chicks in some of the most thinking majors. i do usually hang out with my buds in college though. you meet plenty girls every weekend. too bad it was their spring break this week, and went to cancun. if i diddnt have AP/IB tests this week i woulda went....damn AP/IB...so im just bored on the comp....

im tempted to ask igovert what is a very high powered drink, that'll make me sleepy.

[jtvyper456]

i think it's something like 3-5 girls to every guy at my university.

^^^Damn, what's this say about men's intelligence, oh well, I'm going to college to major in either computer networking systems (some kind of computer science, haven't decided yet), and business management/accounting--

[beef_bourito]

it sais nothing, just that they're more likely to go to university. there are so many people who go to university simply to go there, they don't have any real intentions there. the liberal arts programs at my university are only really there to fund my (engineering) degree, we have the highest tuition but we also cost the most, what do they have to buy? books and profs.

random fact: Men score on average 5 IQ points higher than women according to some study. don't remember where i heard it but i think it was a canadian news website or something.

[Chiquae07]

im one of those people. im jsut going to college just to go. i have no idea or real intentions of what i want to do in life. i've been told what to do ever since i can remember....

[kublah]

Originally Posted by beef_bourito

just tough it out for the next two months, then when you go to college/university you'll find alot more girls.

Then four years later you'll graduate from college and the problems will really start. The school years are the easiest time you will ever have meeting women, because after that you really don't find yourself in too many spots where strangers are placed together in large groups with no other choice but to talk to each other. It's all dependent on your own initiative once you're not placed in those situations all the time. There is no longer a party every weekend, and your social circle shrinks down to a fraction of its former glory before you even realize it. Then you and a couple friends wind up in a bar where it's basically the same scenario as bourito's boarding school, and that gets old pretty fast.

You are way too young to be losing hope, that's reserved for cynical old bastards like me. Have fun, work hard, play hard, and don't worry too much about this stuff. And don't totally freak out if you don't know what you want to do with your life. When you go to college you've got plenty of time to even decide what you want your major to be, and after you graduate sometimes it doesn't even matter what your degree is in. To many employers a college diploma is useful as an indication that you can be taught at a high level and that you can finish something you start, not that you come to the table already equipped with everything you need to be useful to them.

[highteknology]

Originally Posted by Chiquae07

unfortunatly......for the next 2 months, then im out....

that's your problem. high school is pretty shitty for relationships. wait until you get to college. there are a gazillion different types of girls. you WILL find one that you want to be with.

even if you don't there are girls there, and the use of your hand will become obsolete.

[Chiquae07]

um...i get what you guys are saying, but i still feel the same way. i mean im always with my college buddies for partying, drinking, kickin it, or w/e. just not much people from school. when i do propose to do something with people, everyone backs out last minute. its like i feel that i dont belong there. im the uninvited one to the high school parties. im the one that isn't ever called to do anything. i think you get the point. im bascially invisable to people when its out of school that something would be done. i might as well sell my cell phone, as its never used. bearly if at all.

and meeting chicks is no big deal for me anyway. i go up and start a convo with anyone that i feel like it. i've gotten numbers and things as well. when it comes down to me asking to do anything period, its either a sorry i cant make it last minute, or maybe next time. meeh i give up. i feel like i want to give up on relationships period, friends and girl relationships. just live on my own lisland or soemthing.

[Oz]

Your still in High School. Your life hasn't begun yet.