i can't believe im in this section of af....

[Chiquae07]

welps, apparently i have no idea on what to do. let me inside you on my situation. I personally have 6 different girls that would be willing to 'date' me right after the pause if i asked. i could even go out with all 6 of them at the same time, as none of them would know. kinda like john tucker kinda. but im not that kinda guy. its hard for me to pick, since ive always been that guy that was invisible, until i started talkin and being myself. i have no idea what to do at all, as i havent had this problem before. welps, give me what ya got.

[Oz]

Any info about said girls? Or did you just want to tell someone you have a choice of 6.

[poormillionaire2]

That's funny, because I'm somewhat in that type of situation myself. I wouldn't go with all 6 at once, that sounds expensive.

[Chiquae07]

yea it sounds expensive. im not tryin to brag about anything, since im not that knida guy. i've just never had this 'experense' before about being able to choose from more than one at a time if you know what i mean. such fast replies.

for Oz, they are all cute so that can't help me decide.

1) fun, energetic, always smiling, always dancin if i tell her to
2) shy, fun, is more of a mental and physical bond with her. she is more giggly
3) energetic, fun, willing to buy me stuff for me buyin her stuff, great girl
4) fun, party girl, freak, always makin jokes and its funny
5) girly girl, fun, blond smarts(stupid things happen), a physical person
6) fun, physical person, giggly, always smilin, laid back girl

thing is, i want to grab food, movie, maybe hit a party, and call it a night unless somethin else happens on the way back or w/e

in all they are pretty much the same person overall, 1 smokes, 2 of them drink, the other 3 dont do anythin that im aware of. party would be drinking, no smokes in my presence anyway.

[Oz]

Choose the most intelligent one.

[poormillionaire2]

Take each one out on ONE (UNO, 1) date and see who you have the best time with. Which can hold your attention, listens, be interesting, fun to be with, learn something new about each on of them. You have to get to know each one better before you can make the best possible decision for you. I know that sounds like a long and expensive process, but if you are serious about this situation, I don't see any way else of getting around it.

[mike@af]

Pick the one that you feel the best connection and chemistry with. I'm in the same situation as you, but being that I dont feel a connection with any of them I'm not going to waste my time. Connection and chemistry is a big part of a successful relationship if its going to go anywhere worth going.

Good luck!

[ghostrx7]

someone already stole my advise, go out with each, feel em out. if u decide u just want to hang out with the crazy girls, they probably wouldnt mind seeing u once a week or so, which would make 3-6 girls managable. if u seem to favor one, drop the rest. im in the same boat as most of u know......

u really have to tell us what u want, relationship, or fun fun fun.....

[gouldie1903]

go for the one that you can just be with and enjoy yourself.


i'm in a slightly similar situation but half of them are 1200 miles away (college in fl live in mass) so that helped my selection a little

[IIwhitexb0iII]

eliminate the one that smokes...

in my honest opinion

[mike@af]

Originally Posted by IIwhitexb0iII

eliminate the one that smokes...

[Steel]

Cool. I love you guys who pass up on perfectly good girls that smoke. More for me

[IIwhitexb0iII]

assuming you smoke, it only makes sense for you not to mind girls who do the same...

along w/my automobile, i plan on rocking whomever i marry until the wheels fall off (read: we both die whereabouts of the same age)...smoking is like never changing you're cars air filter for her entire life and i like to take care of my belongings

edit::don't get me wrong, i want a partner not a possesion, (i hope my statements prior didn't seem sexist) my grandmother died at 82 from emphysema which wasn't exactly the 'sexiest' thing to watch

[vinnym86]

let me tell you something... i have never seen something sexier than a girl light up a cigarette right after sex.

I will admit, though, doesn't taste great kissing her, unless you're a smoker, too. I quit... finding a girl who smokes would more likely than not put me back on the habbit.

[ghostrx7]

ill take either or....