friday night lover part 2

ghostrx7 · #1 10-09-2006, 09:54 AM

so this friday started like every other friday in the last 2 months. a few people came over and we got really drunk. my roomate and his g/f went to bed and my friends went to the bar. now its karoline and me. i try to put the moves on her and she resists this time and goes home. i wake up saturday all pissed off cause i didnt get any. i talk to her sat, but i hung out with my friends and she actually came over my house and chilled with my roomie and his g/f. by the time i got home, she went home herself. anyway, sunday comes around and us 4 go to see chainsaw massacre. after that the girls made us dinner and drank wine. we were all drinking and smoking and got pretty f'd up. now, ive been sick for like 1 and a half weeks with a bad cold. i took a few cold pills and they made me feel jittery. anyway, its now karoline and i at 11pm lastnight. we start playing games with each other, kissing and what not, and one thing leads to another. she grabs me and says, were having sex now. we strip and jump on my bed. it took me a while to get aroused because i was weak from being sick. finally it happens, and its all going perfect. now heres the part that gets to me, after about 5-10 mins, she tells me to finish. i ask her if shes sure cause i wanted to go longer, again she begs me to finish... so right after i finish, she gets mad when i pull out. instantly she wants to go again. now, usually i could pull something like that off, but when im sick theres a small chance. after trying for a few, she gets pissed off and says i do it like a girl! i got so pissed off cause i know my potential, but this girl is so intimidating that she makes me nervous which doesnt help. basically she just storms out and i end up catching up to her and walking her out. we kiss then shes gone.. after she left, i was HIGHLY disturbed. i ended up staying up all night jittery as hell from the medicine. i feel like i couldnt live up to her expectations, but on the other hand, it was going good till she told me to finish. i did ask her why she tells me to finish, but she didnt answer me.. i felt like a pathetic loser

i know this is long and slightly embarassing for me to say, but i dont care.. comments? its definately a love/hate kinda deal...lol and i should add ive known this girl for like 14 years.

turtlecrxsi · #2 10-09-2006, 10:35 AM

It's the medication. Maybe she was getting weirded out by your jitters while you were giving it to her. Then all of a sudden she liked it after it was over. Women are weird. We men spend all of our lives trying to "impress" women to get some "action" but then after awhile you realize when you've been with the same person for awhile (like being married for almost 5 years like me) that if she wants it bad enough then she'll be a little willing to make some compromises just like we men have done for countless years...

ghostrx7 · #3 10-09-2006, 10:49 AM

well, she wasnt weirded out cause she askes me to finish like everytime we do it, then she wants more! i do believe it was the medicine, etc... i just wonder if shes been with guys that could finish like 3 times in a row or whatever....

00accord44 · #4 10-09-2006, 12:43 PM

Thats that crazy woman shit. My girl will tell me at least 3 times "Get away from me" while we're in the middle. I fell for it the first time then she yelled at me later saying "Why did you stop!?". So now when she tells me to get away I slow down or ignore her completely unless she is in obvious pain. But last time she was hurtin and she still didn't really want me to stop, just chill out for a minute. I don't wanna get into too graphic of detail (sorry for what has already been said mods) but the trick I use is just to "stay in the garage where the heat is on" so I get to catch my breath, the garade door can cool down and the car stays running.

ghostrx7 · #5 10-09-2006, 12:59 PM

damn, ur right on with that get away shit, she says the same stuff. shes like, gimme, gimme, what the f:ck!lol then shes like im outta here if u dont f me now! i tell her relax, take a deep breath! its like the most stressful damn experience. i dont have any problems with others, she just gets on my nerves at the wrong time, u know? how u supposed to b confortable with someone yelling at u!lol

00accord44 · #6 10-09-2006, 02:10 PM

^

So she's like the field general of the bedroom huh? I like an aggressive woman, but not a mentally abusive one!

ghostrx7 · #7 10-09-2006, 02:35 PM

hahaha, she even asked me a question if something was ok to do, and i said "i dont know ur the referee, whats the ruling on that?"lol well, i called my roomies girl today to ask her what her deal is, and she said that she just wants sex and doesnt want to get involved with anyone. im totally fine with that since im a anti-relationshipaholic. i think she might b getting feelings for me and thats whats bothering her, but i could b wrong.... i know she was drunk, but she said we'd have beautiful babies when we were doin it, that also freaked me out a bit..lol

00accord44 · #8 10-09-2006, 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by ghostrx7

i think she might b getting feelings for me and thats whats bothering her, but i could b wrong.... i know she was drunk, but she said we'd have beautiful babies when we were doin it, that also freaked me out a bit..lol

NOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!

As much as women talk about how they don't want a relationship, most really do deep down. The same goes for us, but I think our deep down is a good bit deeper

ghostrx7 · #9 10-09-2006, 03:08 PM

true, thats why i posted this today, most people probably wouldnt even say this stuff, but i know most of you are serious with ur responses. of coarse u get ur occasional a-hole that makes jokes, but the ones that really read and respond have a sense of the real world... i guess we just both like to have someone there once and a while to do relationship oreintated things(like the movies, dinner, sex, etc) it seems to b going ok, and it has been about 2-3 months since we started having sex with 0 incidents or fights which is always good. she thought it would ruin our friendship, but i think im proving her wrong and she cant stand it. im verry easy going and hassle free...and the "ref" likes that..lol

JustSayGo · #10 10-09-2006, 04:15 PM

Quite wasting your time and personal sanity trying to figure her out. That is the mystery of a woman the keeps us interested. Just when I have been foolish enough to believe that I actually understood one, they do something to show me that I am so wrong (which means to them that they are right) and laugh at that guy. Thinking a guy is on to them really pisses them off. So no doesn't mean no, it means KNOW in her case, as in you are supposed to know what she wants and you better give it to me without asking. You have known each other for like 14 years. Obviosly she trusts you which considering what you know is probably extreamly irrational. Saying no can be a woman's way of putting all the responsibility on you (review BC concepts) freeing her of any guilt that she should not be doing what she is doing. Intoxication is also freeing her from guilt and the fear of facing more serios commitment and the realistic risk of loosing it. Making babies also adds to her excitement and justifies her guilt feelings about how much she enjoys banging (YOU)! Search "women's rape fantasy". Use safe search option to find the real deal. Some women are more aware than others, beginning at the lower end of their spectrum with the dream of being swept off their feet from a dance floor by their handsome prince. Not so different from the way guys think... personally I have allways imagined what spending quality time with identicle twins would be like. Somehow over the past 30 years those twins have not gotten any older!

Sounds like your girl knows her toes are curled by a little more than just being swept off her feet, and exploring her fantasies with you after so many years is only her beginning to where she dreams of going. She wants to continue raising her level of excitement and freedom. Accept as fact, that she does trust you and wants you to take control, to which she may raise her level of bazzaar resistance to keep you off balance and maintain her control. It is a game! Be THE MAN, grab her by her hair, pin her down or against the wall and bite her...carefully! Your way. Always Handle with care! And never forget that the next girl is not this girl. Tell her you will be the one that decides when she is ready. Tease her and make her wait. Yet slowing down must give her a chance to start thinking again. Keep her thinking and wondering what comes next.

I agree there are few acceptions where every woman actually always does want a permenant relationship. Women say they don't want a relationship because they have learned in their past that they do not receive what they wish for, and are more likely to receive when they are not asking. Then it is only a matter of time before they take what ever they want... again with few exceptions.

So out of curiosity when is her birthday? You better know and don't forget. I will take my 1 in 12 chance and guess she may be a Scorpio rather than a wishy washy fishy.

ghostrx7 · #11 10-09-2006, 05:04 PM

haha, very good response, and ya, i did bite her gently lastnight, i know about the teasing cause thats my favorite... i try to throw her off by my own personal games, but she seems to have the final say most of the time. i believe her b-day is august 28th or something, not really sure, but i could look it up! but ur right about the figuring her out thing. i didnt really care until lastnight when she was sketchin me out, but i think im so tired from not sleeping that there is something im missing. im definately gonna go back to my normal life and wait for our next encounter. i did leave her a message today just asking how she felt after gettin home at 1am, but nothing else. shes a dental assistant at a huge medical center(age29) im 28. she is one of my bestfriends and i should just keep it that way. whatever happens happens, but nexttime ill be sure to give it to her good so shes fiending for more. she has told me i am a very good lover as far as kissing and stuff, and she is also(minus the yelling!)lol its funny how i know her so well, but feel intimidated by her, i guess thats from wanting her sexually for about 12 years before it actually happened, now that its a reality, i just gotta calm down and enjoy the ride..... keep em coming, im enjoying this online free therapy!

00accord44 · #12 10-09-2006, 08:44 PM

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i believe her b-day is august 28th or something, not really sure, but i could look it up!

You've known her for 12 years and you don't know her birthday? I know you're anti-relationship, but come on

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...but nexttime ill be sure to give it to her good so shes fiending for more. she has told me i am a very good lover as far as kissing and stuff, and she is also(minus the yelling!)...

Hmmm. I like a screamer. A couple weeks ago there were some painters touching up the areas around my bedrrom window so she put on a bit of a show for em. They were all grins when we walked out of the house later on

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...keep em coming, im enjoying this online free therapy!

Free? The clock is running at $250/hr. I'll be sending the crackhead to collect at the end of the week.

Oz · #13 10-09-2006, 08:54 PM

You have no power over this woman. I wouldn't f*ck her again until you do.

ghostrx7 · #14 10-10-2006, 08:23 AM

i must regain control.....
1. im really bad with bday's, the only one i remember is mine!(seriously)
2. she screams at me, not in joy. i enjoy a screamer, dont get me wrong....
3. crackhead aint gettin shiiiiiit! haha by the way, he knocked on my door lastnight and asked to use my phone cause he hit his hand. i thought for a few, then went out. his hand was bleeding like hell! he had to call his mommy to bring him to the hospital. i should of let em bleed to death......

00accord44 · #15 10-10-2006, 11:55 AM

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...by the way, he knocked on my door lastnight and asked to use my phone cause he hit his hand. i thought for a few, then went out. his hand was bleeding like hell! he had to call his mommy to bring him to the hospital. i should of let em bleed to death......

Hit his hand with what? a spike?

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