What do u think or make of this

[BigFig15]

I got this friend thats a girl. We used to talk to eachother all the time til she got this "boyfriend" Ever since shes gone out with him shes not allowed to talk to any guys other than his friends. We hardly ever talk anymore. She blocked my s/n, got rid of pics of me hanging on her wall, deleted my phone number out of her cell phone all because if he found out that she was talkin to me the shit would hit the fan. Lately ive been always thinking about her and its just bull shit i cant talk to her cause of dumb F*@#$!. She said he hates all of her exs too. What a dumb jake off.

What do u guys think?

[ec437]

Originally Posted by BigFig15

I got this friend thats a girl. We used to talk to eachother all the time til she got this "boyfriend" Ever since shes gone out with him shes not allowed to talk to any guys other than his friends. We hardly ever talk anymore. She blocked my s/n, got rid of pics of me hanging on her wall, deleted my phone number out of her cell phone all because if he found out that she was talkin to me the shit would hit the fan. Lately ive been always thinking about her and its just bull shit i cant talk to her cause of dumb F*@#$!. She said he hates all of her exs too. What a dumb jake off.

What do u guys think?

Dude, I've had experience with crazies, and I can tell you from all the way on this side of the internet that it is time to drop this one because she is nuts.

[BigFig15]

I dont think shes crazy. Its her stupid ass boyfriend. I dont get him. Not allowing her to talk to guys he doesnt know. Me and her met at the mall for a 1/2 hr one night just to talk and he flipped out about it. I think hes really insecure. To me i think its a bunch of crap that shes not allowed to talk to any guys but this guys always talking to other girls. Idk bout this guy.

[Steel]

yeah he's insecure, but its her call as to whether she's gonna deal with that or not. I have a friend who is in a similar situation, and bascially when the chick who is his 'friend' comes crawling back from her over controlling boyfriend, he's gonna kick her to the curb. Bitches gotta learn.

[DylanTrott]

I wouldn't get into that dude. Stay away. Girls can get pretty crazy with stuff like that. Pissed off boyfriends can be even worse. And I doubt you wanna deal with him, no matter how much he sucks. Do you still have her number? Call her and talk to her if you REALLY feel you need to.

[JustSayGo]

The only thing you can do is get over the discomfort of loosing your relationship with her and decide how you will act when she returns. This guy will teach her plenty of difficult to learn lessons. You can bet that there is much more going on than you are aware. I recently experieced a similar situation with my daughter. Her guy tried to separate her from all her friends and family by replacing them with his choices. No thing or situation will ever allow these type people to feel secure, yet they keep trying.

What do you think of this logic? Just to share the top of the long list of uncontrolled temper, This guy says just give me what I want and I am happy and enjoyable to be around, if you love or care about me you will let me have what I want. If you don't let me have my way you must hate me and want to kill me, so he pressed his gun into her hands (never date a cop) and told her to pull the triger. Since you didn't pull the triger you really do love me and you really do want "ME" to have what I want.

I say your friend will be back. Do her and yourself a favor, quit being too nice and quit hoping to rescue her. Make her think for herself rather than giving her so much advice. Avoid behaving in some way you may regret. This guy is only making you look better.

[BigFig15]

I guess so. I guess I just gotta sit back and see what happens

[Muscletang]

Here is what I'd do.

A. Keep talking to her like it's no big deal. If she says anything, simply say, "You're a friend of mine and I'm going to talk to you. If you don't want me to talk to you because of your cock sucking boyfriend, well goodbye and I hope you enjoy being a beaten up wife on Jerry Springer."

B. If she stops talking, so be it.

C. She talks to you and the boyfriend comes into the picture, tell him this, "Listen you ball sniffing piss drinker, I'm going to keep talking to her because she's a friend of mine. Now if you don't like that, tuff shit. Pick the sand out of your vagina and actually grow a pair. I'm not going to fuck her but as I said she is a friend and I talk to her. Now if you don't like it, take it up with me but don't get her involved. If you got a problem, take it up with me."

Now he may want to fight you so get ready for that. I've seen though that if you confront them about it and get in their face, they usually either back down and start to change their mind or they dump the girl.

[Oz]

Find a new friend.

[sivic02]

I have seen and dealt with this before. So first of all your friend is an idiot. If she is going to settle for being with someone as controlling as this guy then she is going to be miserable for the rest of her life. If you are truly her friend you will try to make her realize this. If you dont try then aparently you arent a very good friend. She either will eventually see that you are right and break off the relationship or she will be pissed off at you and not want to talk to you again. Which seeing as how she isnt talking to you to begin with what do you have to lose?

[JustSayGo]

sivic02 may be destined to repeat his experience history until he learns the correct answer to this lesson in life. If one is a true friend with some wisdom, they will know that it is not their responsibilty to rescue this girl from the decisions she makes. It is in fact his responsibility to let her make her own decisions and learn by them. At this point, what has this girl lost? She has a "B/F" and a friend waiting. BigFig has shown her that he will always be there for her when she changes her mind. Sit back wait and seeee??? She will have more respect for BigFig if he gets busy and does his things for himself what ever they may be. Chicks deffinatly dig it when guys do this. Let her wonder if she has lost someone of value rather than staying right where she wants him. Next time she starts complaining about her "B/F", use some words and attitude like, "gosh what are you going to do now? Gotta go." You know the proverb about if they don't come back you never had them. How can she ever come back until you set her free? I don't think she is crazy or an idiot but my guess is she isn't in the top 10% of her class very often either.

[vinnym86]

walk away.

[2.2 Straight six]

murder the boyfriend.

harmony will be restored.

[ghostrx7]

sounds like a dead end relationship for her, so id leave her alone, let her learn, and wait for her to come crawling back. thats when u give "her" the cold shoulder and make her earn u back as a friend...

[BigFig15]

They have been going out for a year. It really bugged the hell out of me when this first started to happen but after a while i just got used to it. It still bugs me a little et today just to see this all happen. To me this guy is a complete F*** Head. One time he had a record of all calls made to and from her cell phone and he was questioning her on this and that.

She did call me up one night and we talked for like 5 mins which I thought was really cool. At the end of the call she said i got to delete this call i made or he will find out. We both hung up and i sat there like wtf is this guys deal. I see on his myspace profile all the girls that comment him saying that they should hang out soon blah blah blah. Its completly ok for him to talk to other girls but cant talk to any other guys that isnt his friends. I just cant believe they have been going out for a year. Whatever hes doing must be good enough for her.

I dont think i can just get up and walk away. When we first met she used to call me all the time and we would talk til 2 or 3 in the morning just stuff thats bothering her or just to talk. But for now i guess just gotta sit back and see what happens