weird question

RickwithaTbird · #1 08-12-2006, 02:18 AM

Alright now. Guys, is it a common problem to have a tremendous number of fat and/or ugly/annoying girls to have crushes on you? Cuz see.... yeah.

I just, don't understand. It's tremendous. I had a teacher in high school tell me one time that "All the fat girls in the school have a crush on you." I mean, of course not literally ALL, but yeah, it was a reality based joke.. tremendous. What's the deal with this? Is it normal? Cuz I get the hotties too every once in a while... but the ratio is... out of this world...

And girls... the one or two of you out there... If all the fat and ugly and annoying girls have a crush on a guy, does that mean that all the hotties do too? Or does it just mean I'm only good enough for the fat, ugly, annoying ones? It just blows my mind. It's like a curse. I'm hoping at least 10 to like 100 of you guys tell me I'm not the only one.

I know, weird question. Leave me alone.

Nicole8188 · #2 08-12-2006, 02:23 AM

That's the funniest thing I've heard in an incredibly long time.

Anyway, I don't think you're incredibly unattractive, so I'm sure there are hot girls out there that like you too. But hot ones don't have to put it out there as much, so you're not going to hear about it.

When I was in school, all the fat/ugly/annoying girls had crushes on the same guy - he was the hottest, most popular guy in school. Just because they're fat/ugly/annoying doesn't mean they have bad taste.

Igovert500 · #3 08-12-2006, 02:53 AM

No, completely unusual! Everybody knows fat/ugly/annoying girls aren't supposed to like guys at all. They all become lesbians or nuns.

Man seriously, how old are you?

FormulaLT1 · #4 08-12-2006, 03:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Igovert500

No, completely unusual! Everybody knows fat/ugly/annoying girls aren't supposed to like guys at all. They all become lesbians or nuns.

Man seriously, how old are you?

Why would his age matter?. We allow 13 year old and older members, which he meets obviously. So while this is a "odd" question as he stated (might belong in the relationship forum though) it is a valid question. I think plenty of guys and girls have found for like every 5 or more people that have a one sides attraction, there is the one case that is mutual.

We can't always choose the people we appeal to and that appeal to us which is a shame but its better to at least have some admirers that may not appeal to you than none

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Igovert500 · #5 08-12-2006, 12:26 PM

I didn't think it was an 'odd' question. I think it's a fact of life. Of course people are going to like you, that you don't find particularly attractive. And you will like people that don't find you particularly attractive.

What teacher goes up to somebody and says "hey all the fat girls like you"? And saying, 'it blows his mind', and 'it's a curse'....Really?
It might have been the fact that I read it at 4am, but it comes across as a bit immature and egotistic. No offense meant, and I'm sorry if I'm wrong, but it is the internet, and tone is hard to interpret, but that is how I did/do.

eversio11 · #6 08-12-2006, 12:29 PM

You should obviously take it as flattering. Just because they're fat or ugly doesn't mean they have bad taste. It also doesn't mean you should dismiss them as dating candidates.

FormulaLT1 · #7 08-12-2006, 12:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Igovert500

I didn't think it was an 'odd' question. I think it's a fact of life. Of course people are going to like you, that you don't find particularly attractive. And you will like people that don't find you particularly attractive.

What teacher goes up to somebody and says "hey all the fat girls like you"? And saying, 'it blows his mind', and 'it's a curse'....Really?
It might have been the fact that I read it at 4am, but it comes across as a bit immature and egotistic. No offense meant, and I'm sorry if I'm wrong, but it is the internet, and tone is hard to interpret, but that is how I did/do.

There are teacher having sex with there very under age students in the real world, so the odd ball teacher throwing out statements like that wouldn't surprise me all that much

but I get what you mean.

sganc4life_4 · #8 08-12-2006, 12:54 PM

Fat bitches need lovin too...theres my 2 cents lol

blindside.AMG · #9 08-12-2006, 01:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Nicole8188

Anyway, I don't think you're incredibly unattractive

There's a back-handed compliment if I ever saw one!!!! You're unattractive.....just not INCREDIBLY unattactive!!!

Rick, I was kind of in the same situation as you. I attract a good amount of large women. I always figured it was because I'm polite and chatty with them when most guys just blow them off.

GForce957 · #10 08-12-2006, 02:50 PM

more cushion for the pushin

vinnym86 · #11 08-12-2006, 02:54 PM

XeVeNskyLiNE · #12 08-12-2006, 05:01 PM

Got the same problem man, but I think mine is a bit worse. I attract the ghetto big girls. I think it's because I look like Tiger Woods.

Jay! · #13 08-12-2006, 05:18 PM

Glen Quagmire: "Don't look at me like that. Fat chicks need love too... but they got to pay."

Oz · #14 08-12-2006, 07:45 PM

Superficial.

Look beneath the surface.

FormulaLT1 · #15 08-12-2006, 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Oz

Superficial.

Look beneath the surface.

You know, I don't think so. Attraction should and has to be a big part of who we seek a physical relationship with. It is not in my opinion anyone's fault if the attraction is there or not. Its just lack of a spark and that doesn't mean you can't be friends with someone cause of the way they look or down the road you will see them as being beautiful but it obviously wouldn't be love at first sight. Just my

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