It's just a question.....

[Damien]

I just got off IMing with my friend and the main topic was sex. We said we would try to be virgins until marriage. She has failed miserably! Now I'm going to go on and wait till marriage, but how many of the AFer's haven't done it, is waiting, going to anyhow, has, etc.? Just a thought....

Also, does it bother you if a date/whatever ask if you are or aren't?

[Oz]

I have - and wish I hadn't. Won't again before marriage.

[Spec2 Girl]

I didn’t wait for marriage. I was in a long-term relationship at the time (it lasted 4 years) and neither of us wanted to wait any longer (we had been together for 6 months). I think if you love someone there’s nothing wrong with not waiting for marriage. Who knows, it could be the person you end up marrying anyway.

Also, to answer your other question, no it wouldn’t bother me at all. As Moppie said, I like to know my partners history and I’m sure it’s the same for them too or they wouldn’t be asking.

[Moppie]

Originally posted by Damien


Also, does it bother you if a date/whatever ask if you are or aren't?

Quite the opposite.
I want to know my partners sexual history (or at least a summury) before I sleep with them. Then you can be more prepared for what is likely to make it more fun for them, and for your self.

[darkness]

I like to know if they have or haven't, want to or don't.(If they haven't it might actually make me look good)

but it won't change my opinion or feelings. These days sex doesn't matter so much.

[ci5ic]

I'm with spec on this one. Doesn't matter as long as it's a committed relationship.

I wouldn't mind if someone asked, I don't really care, and if it matters that much to them, they're better off knowing.

[speediva]

I didn't wait, and I mostly don't regret it... But there are those days when...

I used to take offense when people asked me what my sexual history was, but that was before I had any. I always felt like they knew and wanted to make fun of me for it. Now, my friends and I are open with that general topic and it doesn't bother me so much.

[taranaki]

If anyone were to ask me my history,it would be a very short story indeed.Boring old fart that I am,I married my first love,and the means,motive and opportunity to stray have never occurred simoultaneously since.

[DVSNCYNIKL]

Didn't bother waiting. I never really asked them, but sometimes they come out and tell me.

[TerminalVelocity]

Originally posted by Moppie
Quite the opposite.
I want to know my partners sexual history (or at least a summury) before I sleep with them. Then you can be more prepared for what is likely to make it more fun for them, and for your self.

exactly, but to the same affect, I am still waiting, havent yet *suprisingly*

Have fooled around but not full on piston jaming

Although its getting extremly hard to wait, especally sence i'm engaged...and we have the want, the oppertnity just never seems to come up though

I wont regret if she and I do, even if we dont get married, because I truly love her.

[YogsVR4]

Didn't wait. Wouldn't have changed a thing.

[Ssom]

Haven't yet, aren't going to wait.


However I won't lower myself to doing it with sluts, I'd wait a few weeks before doing such a thing :alien2:


Is it normal to be 16 3/4 with 4 short-term relationships and never done it????

[Damien]

Originally posted by Moss1O6GTi
Haven't yet, aren't going to wait.


However I won't lower myself to doing it with sluts, I'd wait a few weeks before doing such a thing :alien2:


Is it normal to be 16 3/4 with 4 short-term relationships and never done it????

I'm not even goin to answer that!

Well, I will! My cousins were parents at 15 if that helps?

[boingo82]

My parents rented to a lady who had 4 kids at 19. The oldest was 5 years old. There's nothing wrong with being a 16 yr old virgin, or even a 25 yr old virgin. What's sad is the 37 yr old that I work with.

[Jimster]

Yeah, like Jimmy could really wait :finger: