Getting rid of an ex help...

666_speed · #1 07-19-2006, 11:23 PM

I have this ex girlfriend who I've been broke up with for a year and she still won't leave me alone. I've tried being nice to her and that didn't work. I tried ignoring her and that didn't work. I've tried being rude to her and that doesn't work. I've told her I hate her and want her to die and she still won't leave me alone. She comes into work almost daily, follows me through town, has my friends call me and put her on the phone....This girl is fuckin' crazy. Any tips without killing her or ending up in jail to get rid of her for good? Thanks for any tips!

mike@af · #2 07-19-2006, 11:28 PM

Dont know...maybe she's doing it to annoy you, and seems like she's doing a damn good job of it.

gouldie1903 · #3 07-19-2006, 11:37 PM

try having sex with her mom. she'll probably never talk to you again.

00accord44 · #4 07-19-2006, 11:52 PM

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Originally Posted by gouldie1903

try having sex with her mom. she'll probably never talk to you again.

I dunno. From the sounds of this one, she might try to join in.

You got a tough one. Have you had another gf since her? Maybe that will make her finally get the point. Maybe she thinks that even though you're rude/mean/hateful to her you still really wanna be with her

So perhaps if she sees you with another girl, she'll leave you alone... or try to kill the girl

BleedDodge · #5 07-20-2006, 12:28 AM

Lose the car. That's the only reason she's still around.

666_speed · #6 07-20-2006, 12:36 AM

I've had 4 or 5 girlfriends since her. I dated one girl for close to 4 months after her. She did try to kill her haha, she said it didn't matter that I had a girlfriend, she would have me back or else.....I like that do her mom idea haha, her mom gets botox and has a boob job! My car has 5% tint all the way around so you can't see in. When she was following me before, my mom drove my car through town. That girl started following my car and pulled up beside my car and my mom jumped out and was going to beat her ass and the ex girlfriend left me alone for a few months. That's the only relief I've had from her this past year. I know I shouldn't let her get to me, but she's fucking driving me crazy and ruining every relationship I attempt.

EDIT: I guess it would be important to note that at one point in time I lived with the girl for almost a year AND she dumped me.

666_speed · #7 07-20-2006, 12:38 AM

Oh, thanks for the idea Bleed, but losing the car isn't an option. I bought a CBR 600 in hopes that she wouldn't recognize it for a while but her mom found out I have it and told her :/ I painted it and she still found out...grr!

00accord44 · #8 07-20-2006, 01:14 AM

I don't think painting a bike helps much since she can see you on it and all... unless you got some kind of tinted bike shield goin on. But if she dumped you, why the hell won't she leave you alone?!?! WTF is wrong with females these days?

WickedNYCowboy · #9 07-20-2006, 02:28 AM

This may sound out there, but every once in a while maybe mom should drive your car, and have her follow your mom again, after it has worn off. At this point I'd document every time she tries to or does make contact with you. Write it down in a notebook, then go to a police station throw a harrasment charge(they may even bump it up stalking which is a more serious crime). Also get a restraining order. Those are the two best and legal ways to get rid of her.

Oz · #10 07-20-2006, 02:38 AM

Just keep ignoring her - don't do anything malicious, it sounds like you could have a very messy stalker.

Why not film yourself F*cking someone else and send her a copy?

WickedNYCowboy · #11 07-20-2006, 03:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Oz

Just keep ignoring her - don't do anything malicious, it sounds like you could have a very messy stalker.

Why not film yourself F*cking someone else and send her a copy?

Because then she can charge him with sexual harrasment or someother crime.

Oz · #12 07-20-2006, 08:22 AM

Then, WickedNYCowboy, say she stole it from you and thayt she's been harrassing you forever and put a stop to it (and drag her name through the mud). Really.....no imagination at all in the youth of today.

fredjacksonsan · #13 07-20-2006, 10:21 AM

If she's 18 or older, ask her out to dinner. After you've both sat down, show her the restraining order that you have worked up. Look her in the eye and tell her that if she doesn't quit stalking you, the order will be activated. Ask her if she understands. She'll try to waffle and change the subject. Ask her again, and again if necessary until she responds that she does. Then walk out.

Then follow through if she continues. Then have her arrested if she violates the order. Repeat as necessary.

highteknology · #14 07-20-2006, 10:25 AM

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Originally Posted by fredjacksonsan

If she's 18 or older, ask her out to dinner. After you've both sat down, show her the restraining order that you have worked up. Look her in the eye and tell her that if she doesn't quit stalking you, the order will be activated. Ask her if she understands. She'll try to waffle and change the subject. Ask her again, and again if necessary until she responds that she does. Then walk out.

Then follow through if she continues. Then have her arrested if she violates the order. Repeat as necessary.

that's awesome, and you leave before the bill come so she has to pay too

00accord44 · #15 07-20-2006, 10:27 AM

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Originally Posted by fredjacksonsan

If she's 18 or older, ask her out to dinner. After you've both sat down, show her the restraining order that you have worked up. Look her in the eye and tell her that if she doesn't quit stalking you, the order will be activated. Ask her if she understands. She'll try to waffle and change the subject. Ask her again, and again if necessary until she responds that she does. Then walk out.

"Leave the gun, take the cannoli."

Sorry, I couldn't resist

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