pros and cons of being single......

[ghostrx7]

lets make a list!
being single

con
usually dont get a constant supply of sex
sex is usually awkward, and has to be safe
going to the bars will break your bank!

pros
you could hit on any girl you desire
going out to the bars looking for women with your friends usually ends up in a greattime.
you dont have to answer to anyone about where you were
u dont have to commit to diner with g/f parents, activities, etc.......

being in a relationship.
pros
constant affection and sex(usually)lol
spending time just relaxing and watching a movie is cheap on the wallet!
always having an activity partner for company diners, etc....

cons
everytime i do meet a girl i like, im in a relationship and shes off limits
your friends think your whipped and you dont see them as much
sometimes after being together for a long period of time you get on each others nerves
you have to let them know where you are going out to, and usually if your home late, u have to have a damn good excuse!

thats just for starters. ive been single for a year and a half, but i think i wanna go back to the darkside!haha

any input? im just bored................

[highteknology]

one pro for the relationship side for me is that you always have someone you can talk to. sure you can call up your friends or talk to your parents. but sometimes it just feels better talking to your significant other. your friends will give you shit and your parents always take it out of context.

[ghostrx7]

good point, thats why i think i need a psycologist! lol

[Chiquae07]

wish i could help ya here, but its been too long for me to remember anything about this....i can tell u the con though...lonlieness and no support to fall back on.

[gouldie1903]

can of being in a relationship. she can cheat on you.

[BleedDodge]

As far as I can tell, there are no cons to being single.

[2.2 Straight six]

there are, but you need to have experienced a relationship to see them when you're single.

[BleedDodge]

I have been single my whole life and I am here to tell you that there are no cons. Just pros.

[2.2 Straight six]

you have to experiance a relationship to see the other side. until you've seen the whole story you can't judge it.

[Nicole8188]

When you get out of a long relationship, it's really nice at first...

Until you have nowhere to go when you're bored, nobody to call to just talk to, nobody to touch and be comfortable with.

I like being single, but after a while it's just boring. Being with different people is always awkward, and you never know what they're after.

[BleedDodge]

Originally Posted by 2.2 Straight six

you have to experiance a relationship to see the other side. until you've seen the whole story you can't judge it.

I'm not talking about pros and cons of being in a relationship. I'm talking about pros and cons of being single, and I'm telling you; there are no cons.

[2.2 Straight six]

you obviously dont get what i said. when you've been in a relationship you see things in being single that are cons. if you haven't been in a relationship you wont see them.

[BleedDodge]

Originally Posted by 2.2 Straight six

you obviously dont get what i said. when you've been in a relationship you see things in being single that are cons. if you haven't been in a relationship you wont see them.

I believe I can appreciate completely what it means to be single, in a fully untainted and unbiased way. Your belief aside, I can say that to be single and just single there are no cons. That's not that "having been in a relationship" scenario you keep mentioning. That's just to be single and single only. Not single and looking back on a relationship past. I do understand what you are saying.

[2.2 Straight six]

i guess it's different for everyone. live as you please.

just how i feel. no offence meant.

[BleedDodge]

Originally Posted by 2.2 Straight six

i guess it's different for everyone. live as you please.

just how i feel. no offence meant.

Roger that.