Ahhh!! why do guys always have to think about sex!

[candywhore]

Ok ok so i'm with this amazing guy okay, gentle man, responsible, romantic and everything you can wish for, its just that. every guy in this world has to think or talk about sex, ALL TH TIME!! i just wanna know whats so amazing about it? geez..i mean yeah okay once in a while is understadible..but why do they ALWAYS have to either talk about it or ask for it! whats the big deal with guys and sex? were you all born with an automatic sex brain cell or what?

[Muscletang]

Originally Posted by candywhore

were you all born with an automatic sex brain cell or what?

Yes, it's called a penis.

P.S. Welcome to AF.

[quteasabutton]

Originally Posted by candywhore

Ok ok so i'm with this amazing guy okay, gentle man, responsible, romantic and everything you can wish for, its just that. every guy in this world has to think or talk about sex, ALL TH TIME!! i just wanna know whats so amazing about it? geez..i mean yeah okay once in a while is understadible..but why do they ALWAYS have to either talk about it or ask for it! whats the big deal with guys and sex? were you all born with an automatic sex brain cell or what?

isn't that just the worst? you won't get much sympathy here, there's only like 4 other girls besides me. but yeah i TOTALLY agree it gets sooo annoying. i mean if u want to talk about it sometimes yeah that's fine. but when it's all you ever hear from them, it's like stfu already. some guys get all hurt and offended when you tell them u don't want to hear it. but yeah, if ur guy is that amazing, i say stick with him. hopefully he'll grow up and his brain will be less geared towards sex. try talkin to him flat out about how you feel about it. if that doesn't work, i've found that being the nastiest bitch possible often works. at least for that time and then 15 minutes later they'll be back for more.

example from last night:

guy: so what position do u wanna be in?
me: alone position

try stuff like that

[2.2 Straight six]

welcome, lou. not all guys think of sex constantly. and truth be told if you really love someone it's not just sex. there are guys that think about all the time, and only want one thing...*cough*...MBTN...*cough* and they're all-too-common.

some guys just have an over-active sex drive.

[Muscletang]

Originally Posted by 2.2 Straight six

some guys just have an over-active sex drive.

Yeah...it's really hard to live with and it controls your life like a drug. I'm getting help and checking into Betty Ford soon...

[2.2 Straight six]

if you really want i can just get the scissors and remove that problem.

yea, talk to him about it. a relationship will benefit by going slowly with things, you need to really spend time together and such before doing sexual things. they're for a long time into the relationship. talk it over with him, if he has any sense and wants to stay with you he'll calm down and realise what you mean.

[Muscletang]

Originally Posted by 2.2 Straight six

if you really want i can just get the scissors and remove that problem.

You just keep away from my crotch with scissors or any sharp objects...infact...stay away from my crotch period.

[quteasabutton]

some guys aren't even aware of the fact that they're the world's biggest pervs...i can't fathom how they couldn't know but oh well. in short, they don't know what they're doing is unacceptable and making girls around them rather uncomfortable. like i said before, talk it over

[2.2 Straight six]

yea, i was with my friend at the park today, and this guy's just sitting under a tree staring at her, i wanted to slap him. it's just odd.

[candywhore]

hes not a perv..and i did tell him that i didnt liek it..and he said they were only jokes..see when i tel you guys this..it seems liek hes a jerk and hes lying..but i dunno i kinda beleive him cuz he really sint the sexual perv kinda guy..i mean he's 17 and well.you cant balme him for thinkign about it..but i told him too much was too mucha nd he got offended so yeah =S..one of my problems is that i always blame myself after..im not able to live with a fight..so yeah..=S

[Muscletang]

Originally Posted by quteasabutten

some guys aren't even aware of the fact that they're the world's biggest pervs...

Oh I know I am.

Originally Posted by quteasabutten

they don't know what they're doing is unacceptable and making girls around them rather uncomfortable.

You've never acted uncomfortable. You actually really got into it...a little too much maybe....

[2.2 Straight six]

our judgement is impaired by the fact we don;t know him, we can only go by what you've told us. i guess we can't just see the whole picture.

[quteasabutton]

Originally Posted by Muscletang

Oh I know I am.



You've never acted uncomfortable. You actually really got into it...a little too much maybe....

pipe down or i'll savagely rape you again. don't think i won't go thru with it this time. you only got away last time cuz u burst into tears you little girl.

never said your guy in specific was a perv, like chris said, we only can make judgements on what you tell us and let us know.

[driftinggrifter2]

Damn that he's a male which means that he is a perv to an extent. Truth be told though that guys think about sex or sexual situations about an average of once a hr or someshit like that. I saw that on cnn few months back.

P.S. If he is makin alot of sexual comments and or jokes then that does not let him qualify as a gentleman






Welcome to AF by the way.

[Oz]

A lot of it is the age of the guys your hanging around with - some of us grow up eventually.

Then again, some don't.