Alright, i need dating help

[Steel]

YEah, so... kinda embarrasing, but i'm willing to admit when i need help. See, i've been out of the scene for so long that i forget what to do.

So the story goes there's this girl at my work (don't even start with the dating coworkers thing, i'll take the risk) that I really like. And when I really like a girl, i turn into a bumbling idiot. So I already took her to the movies once (to see v for vendetta, she liked it, as did i) and she seemed to have a good time... but.. now what?! Keep in mind i have to keep this kinda under the radar, because i don't wanna be cathcing flak from the rest of the guys. Oh, and she's 19, so the bars are out of the question too.

Yeah so. I don't really know what my next step is. I'm thinking of inviting her to a party up at UMass whenever my friend throws one, cause then we'll be surrounded by people I know, and that I trust. But i feel like that's kind of overt... but then again, who says overt is a bad thing? Meh.

help!

[TexasF355F1]

I feel you man. It sucks. I just say go out to lunch a few times. Maybe once or twice a week. Skip the movies and go bowling or putt-putt. Something where yall can interact and act goofy.

[sv650s]

yeah you need to take her somewhere where you can both talk and you could get to know her better....most people think the movies is all romantic and it's the perfect date but honestly if i take a girl to the movies i'd love her to shut up and let me watch it....so take her to lunch...maybe take her somewhere nice so she knows you're not just being friendly

[Steel]

yeah well the movies were just a water testing thing, to see if she's even agree to go. Thing is, this girl is impossible to read, i can't tell if she's just being nice or if she digs me...hard to tell

[NintyNineZ]

Dude, your going at it the wrong way already! C'mon... just sit back and relax. You went and saw a movie with her right? Yes, so she digs you. Next time you hangout with her dont worry about it, just have fun!

[mazdatech177]

ask her out to dinner one night... but have the day, time and place in mind already. you got to seem like you have all your ducks in a row and are confident. if she says yes, great.... if she says no, dont sweat it, but dont push it either

[milton666]

force her to have sex with you

[NintyNineZ]

Originally Posted by mazdatech177

ask her out to dinner one night... but have the day, time and place in mind already. you got to seem like you have all your ducks in a row and are confident. if she says yes, great.... if she says no, dont sweat it, but dont push it either

Exactly. You might even try suggesting to her what to wear.....90% of the time, they come wearing the exact thing you told them, and they love it.

[KustmAce]

Lunch will get you into the Friendzone.

Take her to dinner.

[Ford hater]

Man I maybe only 16 but I would take her out to dinner not lunch go hang out get to know each other then ask her to date you if she says no no big deal you can still hang out and have fun its never let me down so far.its easier said then done but dont sweat it.

[Steel]

Alright, i got it
Dinner,
tell her what to wear
forced sex.

I'm so in.

[NintyNineZ]

Originally Posted by Steel

Alright, i got it
Dinner,
tell her what to wear
forced sex.

I'm so in.

Good luck. I'll see you on the news.

[elementskater15]

Take her to some Go-Karts and then invite her to your place and cook for her.....trust me

[BleedDodge]

Originally Posted by elementskater15

invite her to your place and cook for her.....trust me

You got that backwards.

[milton666]

Originally Posted by Steel

Alright, i got it
Dinner,
tell her what to wear
forced sex.

I'm so in.

haha whoa man the whole force sex thing was a joke, i don't need that shit on my conciuos(sp?)
lol....