Cheating

[BigFig15]

My friend this weekend cheated on her boyfriend with one of her exs. I dont know why she did it. She told me that she wants nothing to do with him anymore. Now she ends up sucking face with him. According to her current boyfriend. Shes not allowed to talk to anyother guys, he wants a restraining order on her ex, he thoughly looks at her cell phone for txt messages, incoming and outgoing phone calls. I think this sucks because theres been plenty of nights when i would stay up with her on the phone til 2 in the morning while she cryed about something and ive always been there for her. Now its over.

What I dont get is why people cheat? Is it more that girls cheat on guys or guys cheat on girls? I myself would never ever cheat on a girl. My last realationship ended with rumors going around that i cheated on my girlfriend. Which was complete lies. I remember I was at this party and this guy was bragging, yea ive been cheating on her for 2 weeks. I sat there and thought who the F*** do you think you are? I was pissed about it. Im sitting her listening to this, knowing the truth. While she's probably sitting at home happier than hell that she thinks that shes got the best boyfriend in the world. Only in the end to have her heart broken cause this guy thinks hes hot shot.

This whole thing with cheating is bull shit.

What do you guys think?

[2.2 Straight six]

i think it's fucked up that the guy went through her phone, girls are gonna have male friends, it's not right to even try and stop that. relationships dont work if there's no freedom. keeping someone under your thumb really isnt the answer. i think she cheated because she needed an escape from her boyfriend, im not saying what she did was right, im saying what he did was wrong.

[BigFig15]

She told me that she loves him a lot and i believe it. She also told me that she will do anything to get his trust back. I can see this kid cheat on her, walk all over her because he knows that he has her wrapped around her pinkie finger. Id like to tell her to get f*cked but i like her way to much

[TerminalVelocity]

just be there for her. If hes like this, she will see the light or he will move on. And your friends again.

Trust me....

[tenguzero]

According to this month's Reader's Digest, it's estimated that roughly 60% of married men, and 40% of married women will have an affair. In other words, 3 out of 5 guys and 2 out of 5 women will cheat. The only way to heal and move on? Time and acceptance. Acceptance of the fact that it happened, that the person who cheated is (hopefully) genuine in their remorse, and that trust will need to be rebuilt for the relationship to succeed. Time will see the incident disappear into the murky past of an otherwise (hopefully) successful relationship, and facilitate the continued growth of trust.

Not all people who cheat are bad people, but all who cheat ARE weak people. They are weak because either they can't resist their biological urges, they can't stand up for themselves (and the relationship) and make it known to their significant other that they aren't happy or something is wrong, or they can't admit to themselves that there is a problem, and so they seek the comfort of a third party. Then of course there are the ones who knowingly (with clear intent) cheat on their partner, and may in fact take pleasure from the act, or consider it a game, or even do it to actually SPITE their partner. Those are the bad people, and they are the ones who don't deserve anyone at all.

I think few people out there can say for sure that they'll NEVER cheat on a partner, but I should hope most of us would know the right thing to do if the opportunity ever DID present itself. We just have to trust that our significant other would do the same.

[BigFig15]

Yea. I hope that some where down the line she realizes that she really messed up for doing what she did and that i would be a great boyfriend if she gave me the chance

[imtheoneandonlyD]

That guy needs to grow up and stop being a paranoid litte bitch. Seriously, going through her phone and tell her she isnt allowed to have guy friends. Thats just stupid.

[stoned_pimp420]

All I'm gonna say is that not that I wouldn't cheat on my GF but it's that I COULDN'T but that's just being the honest person that I am.