What do you consider as "CHEATING" in a relationship?

[vinnym86]

Something contraversial to stir up CoT for a bit, What do you consider as CHEATING?

I myself consider the second as cheating, cuz i've seen too many of my friends end up making out with girls that "take advantage of them" when they're drunk as hell, and truly regret it when they wake up. I myself have never even made out with someone else if i was in a relationship, but that's my view anyway. i know most pple will probably say that kissing is it, that's crossing the line.

Discuss:

[eversio11]

iono, it really depends on how the kissing occurs and whatnot

and why isn't this in the new relationship forum you crazy

[vinnym86]

Originally Posted by eversio11

iono, it really depends on how the kissing occurs and whatnot

and why isn't this in the new relationship forum you crazy

that's true, actually, i dind't take that into account


and yeah, i completely forgot we had that forum when i posted. mods, if u gotta move it, move it. but i'm sure more feedback will come here, lol

[TexasF355F1]

Kissing. I mean fuck how the hell can you not consider that cheating? Her lips are not locked with yours. Bitch'll get dealt with penis slap.

[SLoe]

Gimme a break. Wait til you are married, and then ask your wife that question. Drunkeness is not like diplomatic immunity.

[sv650s]

sex and oral sex but just remember, it's only cheating if you're both in the same time zone

[SLoe]

Right, and if you are with two women they cancel each other out huh?

[sv650s]

yeah and if she's family ya'll were just playing twister

800th post! 200 more to hit 1000

[SLoe]

^urghh gross!........... Wait I'm from AR, so yeeeehaaaa hell yeah!

[L-Spec]

Kissing and anything more I obviously consider cheating. Flirting is so so to me.. it's not like they're having sex, but it still bothers me. Well.. they're having word sex. I want word sex.. but she's busy word sexing it up with another guy. Fucking bitch. I'll word sex with some other girl then, "Hey baby, wanna super size that?" *wink* ... *slap*

Flirting I just find discomfortable. At first it's fine, but it could possibly lead to something else. My ex had a bunch of friends that were guys and I was completely fine with that, simply because she didn't flirt. We broke up because she kept scaring the crap out of me. Constant phone calls, randomly popping up at my house, tail gating my car for miles, etc.

I agree with the drinking situation though. Just because you're drunk doesn't mean you can be a hooker. It's the main reason why I don't drink often. Sure I'll have a few, but not to the point where I wake up with some girl I don't know. I guess I'm just the more wholesome kind of guy.. I'll find a lot of things that would be considered cheating to me. If another guy likes my girlfriend, I don't care at all. If she starts hanging out with him often (especially with the "I barely see him at all" excuse), then I would feel uncomfortable with that.

Bottom line: Flirting is a no go with me. Would she like it if I stared down the shirt of my 23 year old boss? Oh yeah, speaking about that, I know it's human nature to "check someone out", but if a girl is open about it, my foot follows her ass out of my car door (in the middle of nowhere).

[vinnym86]

Originally Posted by L-Spec

Kissing and anything more I obviously consider cheating. Flirting is so so to me.. it's not like they're having sex, but it still bothers me. Well.. they're having word sex. I want word sex.. but she's busy word sexing it up with another guy. Fucking bitch. I'll word sex with some other girl then, "Hey baby, wanna super size that?" *wink* ... *slap*

Flirting I just find discomfortable. At first it's fine, but it could possibly lead to something else. My ex had a bunch of friends that were guys and I was completely fine with that, simply because she didn't flirt. We broke up because she kept scaring the crap out of me. Constant phone calls, randomly popping up at my house, tail gating my car for miles, etc.

I agree with the drinking situation though. Just because you're drunk doesn't mean you can be a hooker. It's the main reason why I don't drink often. Sure I'll have a few, but not to the point where I wake up with some girl I don't know. I guess I'm just the more wholesome kind of guy.. I'll find a lot of things that would be considered cheating to me. If another guy likes my girlfriend, I don't care at all. If she starts hanging out with him often (especially with the "I barely see him at all" excuse), then I would feel uncomfortable with that.

Bottom line: Flirting is a no go with me. Would she like it if I stared down the shirt of my 23 year old boss? Oh yeah, speaking about that, I know it's human nature to "check someone out", but if a girl is open about it, my foot follows her ass out of my car door (in the middle of nowhere).

that's real hard if you are in a relationship with a girl/guy with an addictive personality. imo, flirtings all fun and games. it shouldn't really matter, shouldn't feel that insecure about your own relationship. you should have more trust and faith in the other person, that an exchange of words won't break you to off.

[Rally Sport]

The thing is.. we as guys focus more on the physical part as cheating so kissing and crap would automaticly be there for us.. while a female would look more into how close you get to another female as cheating.. now I dont mean like kissing and all that other stuff but if like you go to that other chick for your problems and blah blah blah.

Just to let you guys know.. but chicks are more concerned with the emotional crap than the physical one.. while we can get jealous or not like that a chick has had alot of sexual partners, she'll feel the same way if you were really in love with someone else or equivalent..

If it doesnt make sense then just disregard this post.

[L-Spec]

Originally Posted by vinnym86

that's real hard if you are in a relationship with a girl/guy with an addictive personality. imo, flirtings all fun and games. it shouldn't really matter, shouldn't feel that insecure about your own relationship. you should have more trust and faith in the other person, that an exchange of words won't break you to off.

Well, what I guess I mean there are expections. I have friends that are girls and she should have friends that are guys. It's just when it comes to the point where everything becomes seductive flirting lol, I guess you could say. Sorry about the confusion. I agree, flirting is fun and games..

[Damien]

this is totally stupid because why is somehting only physcial considered cheating? There...discuss that and when I'm awake, I'll be sure make a better point.

[Steel]

Matrubating with a lesbian = cheating in my ex's book...