i need to vent

[Jcrane88]

My mother has gone crazy. the smallest things make her scream and cry now. yesterday when she was practicing piano, she got frustrated, threw something at the piano, got up to go mess with the vcr ( piano teaching tapes)... the remote wasnt where she thought it was...... she started screaming and crying saying her life is falling down around her...... and nothing works out right anymore..... screaming and crying she ran out and slammed the door.....a few minutes later she came back in and got on the computer...( now something is wrong with the phone and she called and the phone company said they couldnt get a guy out here for a few days)....she gets on the computer and gets the 4.2 kbs connection ( normal lately) she starts going crazy again screaming crying about the phone company..she wants them people out there in the dark fixing her phone line now!..screaming about everybody else has perfect lives.. nothing goes right for me. nothing ever goes right for me ....she does this all the time lately..........then my dad goes to work mon-fri making decent money...then my mom gets the paycheck to get grocery's pay bills etc....and she blows the paycheck on alot of non-useful items or insanely expensive ones...basically she runs the paycheck so close..that if anything happens during the week that costs money she dont have it....then she screams and crys about everybody elese has money..why are we the only ones that have to go through this......my dad cant help......everything he does anymore she screams at him..and its little stuff....he cant hardly even breath anymore without her picking a fight.......i beleive it is caused by my brother.....a year ago he had a nice nice job and a fiance ( a nice one) then he gets himself fired from this job..postpones the wedding then the night before they were supposed to get married ( the orignal date) he said he was taking a underage friend to a big drinking party..then he had sex with another girl that night....comes home..lays back down beside his fiance....the he would wake up and scream at her " get me a drink B**ch" he would do stuff like this all the time to her...there seperated now..but her brags about this type of stuff to mom...bragging about telling his boss off ( mcdonalds now) sleepign with a 16 y/o ( he is 20) and he is always saying..arent you proud you gave birth to such a sexy son..all the ladys like me im so sexy..im so sexy i cant contain it...and he is serious...then he takes my moms van doesnt put gas in it, smokes in it ( big rule) wreck it..and screams at mom cause they wont let him take the van.
also my sister got married 2 years ago moved to new hampshire had a baby...and they dont talk to each other any more..both of there fault to and both are to arrogant to apologise.............
i really needed to vent.. sorry...im gonna go wash dishes ..maybe she will feel better then

[quteasabutton]

that really sucks about your family. you seem like a nice, level headed person. i say get a job, save up some money and move out as soon as you're financially stable enough to do so so that you don't have to deal with any of their crap/issues. best of luck with it

[imtheoneandonlyD]

I would kick your brother out of thouse for being a little bitch.

I hope everything gets better for you and your family.

[Jet-Lee]

move out

[BleedDodge]

Originally Posted by Jcrane88

bragging about telling his boss off ( mcdonalds now)

That is awesome.

[Oz]

Your brother and mother probably share the same problem - clinical depression (and maybe others?)

Has she seen a psychologist yet?

[Jcrane88]

thanks alot.......my brother quit mcdonalds tonight..but he still has a loan on a 99 sunfire gt that he held at redline with 0 oil....he blames pontiac for making junk. confusing.....she would never see a psychologist

[Alaa_Turbo]

It can be that your mother is depressed because depression makes the mood of the person so low and the person easily can be angered, speak to your mom and try to change her negative thoughts if you can and I guess you can if your mom listens and you know how to talk to your mom in her language