I'm back for sure and I need all your help you guys....

[jcz1987]

Well my life has been sad and at the same time good for me but I need your help again you guys. Its another girl issue problem but this one seems to be a hard one for me.... Well heres the story.... It started in Late June when I met this girl and became her freind. We hung out a few times and I got to know her really welll and she seemed to like me.... Then in July she got a boyfriend that happens to be a total jerk... She always asked me for advice about her boyfriend about being a player and such and she thought that he would cheat on her. Well appears he did and they broke up for a few days.... I started feeling really bad for her and my emotions for her got deeper when she was going out with that guy... I asked her out but then she told me she got back with her ex that same night I asked her out around the same time... It was too late. Over the past month she has been misleading saying that "she has feelings for me at the same time" she also says Im handsome and all this stuff to make me feel better and such and I think it was total bs... my friends basically told me that I should tell her to stop misleading me and she cant stop flirting with me. Friday night I went to a dance witha few friends and then she was ther with her boyfriend.... later on during the dance she came up to me and started dancing with me and her boyfriend was watching me every second.. I got mad at her and later that night she called me and I got angry at her and I told her to stop being a "fucking tease and stop misleading me" and I cussed at her so much for hte first time that now she thinks of me different and not the same.... But heres the question... Did she deserve to see me angry and see what she did to me since she hurt my feelings?

[lamehonda]

Sounds like shes just using you. Why else would she have told you that you are "handsome". What a b*tch

[travis712]

Eh your life doesn't suck, you got a Beamer..cruise around town and pick up like 5 chicks at once. IMHO she deserved what you did to her all the way man.

[Mediocrity]

^That's Bimmer..

And I had sort of the same issue as you with another girl. I quasi dated this girl.. and then one day she got with an ex boyfriend of hers.. and flips out on me when I got mad.

Girls are nuts.. youre better off without someone like her around.

[-Josh-]

I wish i knew the situation a little bit better. But i will say this, you just need to use your time now to have as much fun as possible, dont worry about the high school dating game man, you're just gonna look back on it someday and be like "wtf was the point of all that?" Go party, or to concerts, or car shows, or whatever you do and just have as much fun as possible without women right now, trust me, have fun > than women's BS at that age.

[deadbolt_35]

Originally Posted by -Josh-

I wish i knew the situation a little bit better. But i will say this, you just need to use your time now to have as much fun as possible, dont worry about the high school dating game man, you're just gonna look back on it someday and be like "wtf was the point of all that?" Go party, or to concerts, or car shows, or whatever you do and just have as much fun as possible without women right now, trust me, have fun > than women's BS at that age.

i agreed totally, the high school dating scene is something worth staying away from. have fun hang out with friends. sure, date a girl here and there, but keep it lite and fun. never get really serious in high school.

[MBTN]

I'm sure many of us have been through that crap. It'll put you in a world of hurt during the time, but it will pass and you'll look back realizing it wasn't even fussing over. Let the time pass, and the issue will pass.

[Shpyder]

Don't settle for wish-washy stuff like that. She either wants you, or doesnt.

The grey area in between has always been complete BS for me, a kick in the ego. Why should anyone have to be second in line? Don't be someone's just-in-case backup guy. So many girls do that, it's terrible. You'd be running around doing stuff for them, bending over backwards, and at the end of the day when it comes right down to it, your'e just a "really good friend", and she will still be "confused" and "have feelings for her ex and you". Screw that.

You have every right to be pissed off. Being mislead is the same as being lied to. I would respect a woman who says flat out, "You know, I really like my ex, I'm going to try to make it work between us, but thankyou for you support". It saves you money and emotional hassel, and shows solid character and integrity on the lady's part.

I've had that happen to me so many times in the past, and one day I just said, "You know what? screw it. The drama is not worth my time. See you later." This is Cali, bro. Youve got fish of all shapes, colors, sizes and trims here. Move on, ditch the chick. If she really had anything going on for you at all, she come running right back once things get messy with her ex, if they ever do. If not, you won't hear from her again. Just my 2 cents.

[jcsaleen]

Peace her!

[Damien]

Seriously, if you're in high school you gotta learn to adapt. Either have fun with your friends or get caught up in the worthless drama. If you're gonna date, you gotta learn to just be like 'pssh. whatever' when shit happens. It's high school, 97% of the people their aren't mature and same goes with college (hehe ) but that's not the point. Life extends beyond that, so no worries about then.

[jcz1987]

Thanks you guys! I honestly do think that she deserved to be yelled at by me and I told her the truth about stop being a tease and a big filrt. Im just now concerned if her boyfriend decides to be a jerk like he is and pull pranks on me like vandaliziung my car which he already did by throwing some pepsi all over it.

[Zcaithaca]

Fill a supersoaker with paint thinner and fuck his car up






















jk in case u didnt realize

[jcz1987]

^ He drives Mercury Villager and he thinks he can pimp it out a van by putting 4 subs in it without an amp... HEs a dumbass. Plus he brags about his other car which is an integra thats riced out but he never drives it yet he brags about how fast it is.... which I highly doubt.

[Zcaithaca]

.....sounds like he needs a good ass whoop session (no homo)

[XeVeNskyLiNE]

I can't agree enough with these guys enough, I'm a senior in high school and dealing with an immautrure as ex-girlfriend. Seriously man, enjoy the high school life and don't concentrate on the ladies, let them concentrate on you and if you get the urge, pick out a good one. Some girls like a challenge ya know, besides you don't want one thats gonna be all cocky becuase they got with you just like that (speaking from personal experience ).

And about the dumbass boyfriend, let him be just that. Like my daddy always told me, don't start no shit, won't be no shit.