About to be dumped

[-Davo]

I'm so close to tears I can feel my heart ripping apart.

I don't know why it went, I don't know where it went...

Everything was fine on the weekend... I was more in love with her than ever...

My life was so happy, so complete... So... right, ya know?

Then on sunday, we went into the room I stay at their place I closed the curtain and lyed on my bed, this was about 1:30, Brony (my what-was true love) came into my room to talk to me, then 10 seconds later her mum and step dad exploded saying "oh you always go behind a door or that curtain and we just don't know what you're doing".

Basically not trusting us. Brony broke down in tears. They had to leave, then Brony just broke down and started saying how they only think about them selfs (not true) and shit. I thought everything was going to be O.K...

Wazza, the step dad, wanted me gone, so I left...

I thought everything was going to be fine... I did... But she didn't talk to me... She kept saying how she's got mixed feelings, and she's confused... I went to bed wondering if she still loves me...

She's been talking about how she "can't cope with life" and "everythings bothering her"


I have desperately trying to get her to not let everything that's bothering her to affect us... But she isn't listening...

I tried so hard to calm her down, but it didn't work...

Oh god, I'm crying now, I feel like such a pussy...

Just 5 minutes ago, I asked her "tell me if you still love me", she said she does, but not the same as she did....


I begged her not to... I begged...

Kill me.

I just got a message saying she just wants to be my best mate...

Kill me.

[-Jayson-]

man im sorry to hear that. Give her some time, it sounds more like her family is pressuring her not to be with you. And just remember theres pleanty of fish in the sea. Do you really want to be with someone who doesnt want to be with you enough to defy her family?

[-Davo]

I don't know... She told me "theres plenty of fish in the sea", but that's just it, I found the one I need.

It's official. I'd still take her back... Not because I'm an idiot, but because I know she is for doing this.

[Mediocrity]

That's terrible man..

I'm a firm believer that it's impossible to be "Best friends" with a girl that you love dearly. Because then you get to see who else she gets with and it burns deeper.

I dont talk to my ex.. I refuse to.

[AlmostStock]

It sounds like it's not quite over yet. Just hang around and see what happens. If you do get dumped just remember it happens to everyone. You'll get over it, everyone does.

[lamehonda]

Don't give up on her.

My dad married a great lady because he wasn't afraid to deal with the crap from her family. Too bad there offspring turned out to be so sh*tty

[-Davo]

I didn't give up on her... She kinda gave up on me... Just "oh, sorry, thanks for your money get out of my life"... Like everything I did didn't mean shit.

Be back in 7 hours.

[Rally Sport]

Eh.. good luck man.

[lamehonda]

We still need to know what was up with your "arse" post yesterday.

[ghetto7o2azn]

my last ex said that she wanted to be "best friends" too.. but somehow that just never works out

anyways.. i hope you the best of luck and do get her back.. but if not, im sure u can find someone else... even though u probably dont feel that way.. u feel like theres no one else in the world like her and that shes perfect for u and all this stuff and u feel like u want to throw up because ur so sick... ive felt that way before, im sure most of us have (or was that just me?).. and now ur probably thinking, that i have no idea how u feel and that no one could feel for someone else like u feel for her, but honestly weve all felt that way before too and even though u probably don't believe me still, we'll see how u feel in 6 months time or so... in my experience its a lot easier to get over a girl when you dont see her that much... if they go to ur school, and u see her ever day then it sucks

[RickwithaTbird]

When somebody makes you hurt like that, they know it. I guarantee all the problems in your relationship have been about her. I think she's a needy girl and she knows it will hurt you but she still wants to see you treat her like she means the world to you. And this is how she is getting you to do it. Trust me bro, anytime you have feelings like this you would be better off if you never met her. She said shit like "theres more fish in the sea", she's trying to make it look like she's optimistic for you both when really, she's just a bitch. All she wants to hear is how much you need her. Then when you say you need her, you've lost her. Do you really want a girl that couldnt live life if you decided it wasn't working out? You turned yourself into more of an obligation. Its a lose-lose situation bro. Don't cry over this shit. One day you'll look back and feel stupid for it. Do your thing, and just WAIT, because I guarantee you will learn a lot of important things in different relationships. And if you dont get that experience, then you'll be dealing with problems all the time, which you would otherwise know how to deal with. dunno if thats worded exactly right, but work with me. I had a long night.

[thecackster]

Shitty, i'm sorry mans, I'm having a hard time as well. I finally find a girl that I care this much about then Bam, I have to move(transferring from community college to university). Sucks, but hang in there man.

[Mediocrity]

If you ever feel like you need to vent in person, gimme a message man, i'll be more than happy to listen to ya.

[Steel]

AH... I know exactly how you feel, my friend. And i'll just tell you what was told to me when I was going thorugh the same situation (thought I didn't believe it at the time).. Time will heal you. Probably a looong time, but it'll eventually get better.

Here's some things that will help you; Don't kid yourself into thinking you're going to get abck with her. No matter how much you want it... it probably isn't going to happen. Try not to talk to her too much. The more you stay in contact with her, the more you'll be picking at the scab on your heart, so to speak. OH, and stay away from the drugs and alcohol. Trust me on this one - it only postpones and prolongs the pain.

You'll pull thorugh. Just don't do anything dumb like I did. And give yourself plenty of tiiiiiime.

[-Davo]

Back. I didn't come on last night, I was too drunk and just went to bed.

I called her yesturday and today...

She said that on sunday night she started having mixed feelings, and basically stopped loving me then and there.

I had a go at her for just giving up, and not even wanting to work it out...

Oh god it's so hard.

It was over officially yesturday. I made sure of it today. I had a lot of support from dad and a friend. My what-was-perfect life was just destroyed.

I'm slowly starting my recovery... thanks for listening. I'm really bumbed out.