well thats the end of that

[TerminalVelocity]

SO I tried working things out with my EX and it just went nowhere but more heartache. Were friends now which is nice, and she is still a roomate (in another room). I still need her to be apart of my life, which really sucks...I hate needing anything.

But now I am totally ready to find someone new, problem is I have been out of the game for so long I dont even know where to start. The clubs are alright, but the bitches there are skanks or wont really give you the time of day because they are there for a playa or just to be left alone (which totally dosent make sence)

And other than that, I can make great friends or relationships, I just dont know how to meet chicks...

And hell,I want a chick who is into cars....THEY DONT EXIST! Some are here, but I like see one chick on these fourms like every 4 months. And this shit is worldwide. How the fuck am I going to meet a girl who is into cars.


FUCK!!!!!!


AND DAMNIT I NEED TO GET LAID!!!!......yes...I know thats probally more than any of you needed to hear but...I DONT CARE RIGHT NOW!...sorry for any incovience

[xokayxo]

maybe you shouldn't call them "bitches." most women don't like that.

as for meeting them, try places other than clubs. bookstores, concerts, the mall, etc. perhaps you have friends who have friends that might be your type (or something along those lines). it's all about connections! good luck, man.

[BleedDodge]

Bitches.

[TerminalVelocity]

most girls I meet at clubs are bitches, hence why I said that. And my friends all know liberal women who hate guys like me. They all want a guy without ambition who lives at home... It sucks!

Meetin them in bookstores and such dosent work for me because I dont know how to just go up and say hi. Just walkin up and sayin it dosent work (for me at least)

[drewh4386]

Start anywhere. Say something nice. If they smile thats good.

I have 2 weird friends.
Friend 1 walks up to a girl in the club and says "SAY BITCH...GIMME YO NUMBA!" as a bet..............she did it. (weird...we all say it was out of fright )

Friend 2 stayed in the dorms and fucked this girl. SHe didn't want anybody to know....HE told us.....
I seen her at the movies one day and spoke. She acted as if she didn't know me. That pissed me off. I said "you may not know me but you sure the fuck know how my homeboys dick taste like in yo mouf..." (extremely embarassing to her....I know it was wrong.....but some girls get on my nerves with that shit)


Moral is...*drum roll*.........start anywhere. Girls are everywhere. Job, park, drive thru, waitress, store....anywhere.

[bluechevelle]

Just talk about the setting you are in. Like, if you are in a book store and see someone you want to talk to, casually walk up to them and mention,"thats a good book" or something. Be smart though, if she asks you well what is it about just say your sister read it or something. If you get the feeling she is not nto you. just walk away. As corny as it may sound " there are more fish in the sea". Just be relaxed and do what feels natural.

[_WIDE_LOAD_]

Man come to Aus if you want a chick thats into cars.
I know what you mean though. You out of the game for so long all the rules have changed.
Best of luck with everything dude.
Cheers, Troy.

[jcsaleen]

Originally Posted by xokayxo

as for meeting them, try places other than clubs...... "bookstores".

Originally Posted by drewh4386

Start anywhere. Say something nice. If they smile thats good.

"SAY BITCH...GIMME YO NUMBA!"

Lets combine the two.... That'll work

[Rally Sport]

Just be yourself and if it doesnt work then go ahead and give them the gold ol backhanded compliments.

[TerminalVelocity]

thanks fior all the help bros! And man...Ive wanted to move to Aussy land! Shits fcrazy down therwe and I gotr alot of family histroy there!

Ill type more when im sober!

[RickwithaTbird]

I wanna know wheres all dem liberal bitches dat like broke muh fuckas... I can give up hope, quit working, and sit on my ass if it means I'll get laid every night. (again... I miss having sex all the time, it fuckin sucks not getting laid once you used to get it a lot)

I know exactly what you mean. All of it. Girls are fuckin snobs man. You can walk up to a chick, be a gentleman, say polite things and kiss ass for days, and still she dont care. Fuckin women.

If a cute girl walked up to me and said, "Hey, my name is....mandy." (for example)... that is good enough for me. Why? Because it shows she has interest enough to come talk to me and get to know me. Why can't that be enough for girls? Why do I gotta have the bombest pick up line ever just to get your name? I fuckin hate females.

and I need to get laid too. The fucked up thing is when I have a chance, I don't want to. I either lose interest once I know I got her, or else I don't care enough to make the minimal effort because I want a hotter chick.

I guess I'm just as bad as girls. But I'm not judgemental... theres a difference.

[TerminalVelocity]

Originally Posted by RickwithaTbird

I wanna know wheres all dem liberal bitches dat like broke muh fuckas... I can give up hope, quit working, and sit on my ass if it means I'll get laid every night. (again... I miss having sex all the time, it fuckin sucks not getting laid once you used to get it a lot)

I know exactly what you mean. All of it. Girls are fuckin snobs man. You can walk up to a chick, be a gentleman, say polite things and kiss ass for days, and still she dont care. Fuckin women.

If a cute girl walked up to me and said, "Hey, my name is....mandy." (for example)... that is good enough for me. Why? Because it shows she has interest enough to come talk to me and get to know me. Why can't that be enough for girls? Why do I gotta have the bombest pick up line ever just to get your name? I fuckin hate females.

and I need to get laid too. The fucked up thing is when I have a chance, I don't want to. I either lose interest once I know I got her, or else I don't care enough to make the minimal effort because I want a hotter chick.

I guess I'm just as bad as girls. But I'm not judgemental... theres a difference.

totally agree on most of it, but my fucked up thing is

I want sex to mean something so I only want it with a chick im attached to. So what I could get isnt what I want.

[RickwithaTbird]

Originally Posted by TerminalVelocity

I want sex to mean something so I only want it with a chick im attached to. So what I could get isnt what I want.

same here too.

Like I was hangin with this chick not long ago, a fine black girl, mmm, yummy dude, she was nice. Well about a week after meeting her shes talkin about, "When are we gonna have sex?"... I'm like, "not yet." I couldnt stop myself from foolin around and doin anything besides sex, but I couldn't do it. She called me a tease and told me how bad she wanted me, and I told her it was gonna have to wait until it meant something.

Eventually I felt like she was way too attached, (eventually meaning about 3 weeks) and I had to stop talking to her. DO YOU KNOW HOW BAD I WANTED TO HIT THAT SKINS? GUHHH!! I hate morals. And now when I look at a chick I think... do I really wanna spend six weeks tryin to hit it? And usually the answer is no. I want a hot azz bytch yo. So I only approach the hotties. Hot chicks always talk about "Guys are too scared to talk to us, why dont they just say hello?" But when you talk to them they act cool with you, take your number and never call.

I don't ask for numbers, I give mine. I'm sick of getting numbers from girls who don't want a call from me. If they wanna talk, they can call me. Obviously they know I want to hear from THEM.

Single life sucks. I miss a steady relationship with ass benefits.


About your situation with your ex, I kinda had the same thing before. We broke up, and hated each other for a while, but then started talking to each other just to see how we were doing cuz, we cared, thats all. Then it was like, well hey I still care about you, lets not argue, how about a friendly dinner some time? Then after a few friendly dinners, they started to become dates, and after a date theres usually some sexual tension, which results in making out. Which leads to one thing... and another. Which means you're back in the ship you abondoned before.

Be careful of that. Unless you wouldn't mind it. I kinda did it on purpose, but it's not hard with an ex. It comes natural. Too natural. So if you don't want that you have to cut ties.

[imtheoneandonlyD]

Originally Posted by xokayxo

maybe you shouldn't call them "bitches." most women don't like that.

as for meeting them, try places other than clubs. bookstores, concerts, the mall, etc. perhaps you have friends who have friends that might be your type (or something along those lines). it's all about connections! good luck, man.

Lol, not true. I was at a party at the U of M and my friend and i sat outside drunk yelling at girls calling them bitches and sluts and more often then not they actually talked to us..


Thats not how i treat women BTW....i was drunk and it was funny.

[TerminalVelocity]

problem is I want to be back with my ex, she dosent want that with me, she bairly hangs out with me as a friend *and unfortunally we live together*