Could you hit a girl back??

[jason2]

I was at this bar last week in St. Louis when a young woman bumped into me. She was turning around from the bar and getting out of her chair when, she bumped into me somewhat hard. From my point of view it was her fault but she thought otherwise. She slapped me across the face very hard. I told her, "I was sorry" as I rubbed my face. She said, "You are a punk and I'am going to kick your ass."" I told her "I don't hit females." She said,"Good" and started punching me bare fisted in the face. She got me good a few times in the face, then I bent over and tried to block her punches. She finally stopped hitting on me and stormed off. Everyone in the bar was laughing at me. I was so embaressed, but what do you do in a situation like that?? You can't hit a girl back. At least I can't.

[95cord]

you don't hit her back b/c you just don't hit females, no matter what they do to you. atleast thats what i was taught. but you can restrain her so she can't hit you.

[drewh4386]

Don't hit girls man. Especially the pretty girls. Show them who's the boss by restraining them. (if you can)

[fredjacksonsan]

Exactly; the only time you hit a female is if she breaks the rules. The rules are broken if she comes after you with a gun, a knife, or a baseball bat or something else that can do permanent bodily harm.

In this situation, restraining her would be the best option. She was actually guilty of assault, and there were lots of witnesses. You have every right, when anyone is assaulting you, to use whatever force is required to stop them. So with her, I'd have grabbed her arm and twisted it up behind her back, while calmly asking the bartender to call the police.

Stepping away is also a good option; one step back makes her the aggressor, and you can block her next punch and proceed with the arm twisting.

[sivic02]

Yeah, the only time its ok to hit a woman is if she doesnt have dinner ready when you get home.

If that ever happens again, which I doubt it will and if it does then damn you have some bad luck. If you cant restrain her just casually call the police after she is done hitting you. Anyone who freaks out like that about getting bumped into needs to learn that hitting someone isnt the right thing to do... or I have some friends who are girls who are pretty hardcore, id hate to be out at a bar with some of them and have a chick hit me....mmmm....catfight.... great taste! less filling! great taste! im gonna shut up now...

[YogsVR4]

Its all about the situation. If she's kicking your ass - I mean causing damage - you better damn well hit back and defend yourself. If she's not really causing any harm other then being a bitch, call her a fucking rancid cunt and tell her bluntly that you wouldn't sleep with her no matter how much she paid you. Then just back up and if she continues to be agressive, repeat the initial assessment. If she causes damage - take her out. If she's not, insert insulting quip. One way or the other, those situations burn themselves out pretty quick.

[Gotti]

you dont have to hit her... i would of put her on her ass. I would of pushed her so hard she'd fly to the ground, she'd fall over and feel stupid. And if she came back i'd just do it again and again, laughing while looking back at my friends yellin "this bitch is crazy yo!"

i was really close to knocking out girls before tho..... like 2 monthes ago i was at some party, this fat and ugly girl was tripping out on her sexy friend, so i was like shut the fuck up, and she started tripping on me and at that point i was drunk and thinking in my head, she's fat, she's ugly, she's not even really a girl, and i was about to lay her ass out till people started holding me back cause they saw the rage in my eyes lol if nobody pulled me away, i would of knocked that bitches jaw off her ugly face

with ugly girls i just see it as, oh you want equal rights, then you're gunna get equal rights. you hit me, i'll hit you back. I dont give a shit.

[Oscuro]

*shrugs* Always told not to hit a woman.
But fuck that. If they hit me first, without valid reason, I can't give a shit anymore.
Preferably I would attempt to restrain her, or cut off the assault in the first place, but hell, if she won't give up, I will not hesitate to defend myself.

[WickedNYCowboy]

IF someone hit a girl in front of me they'd be in a world of trouble with me and the law. IIRC New York State law domestic voilence/battery codes say that if a guy hits a female your(the male) at fault pretty much no matter the circumstance. I wouldn't do it.

[eversio11]

"I ain't never hit a women. Never have, never will. I just don't do that, I don't hit women.

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But I'll shake a bitch."

[ghostrx7]

a little shove or shake is ok if she hit u, but hitting is out of the question.slapping her would just be gay!gettin another girl to beat her azz(priceless)

[BleedDodge]

You got the shit beat out of you by a chick.

[drftk1d]

"I wouldn't ever hit a woman, but I'd sure shake the shit out of her!" - Chris Rock

[TexasF355F1]

What if they want to trade licks?

[Rally Sport]

I cant believe your first response wasnt to restrain her, thats like the first thing I ever do because, hey its a girl, unless they're a big fat bitch, but even with those you can get in trouble with the law none the less.