Senior Prom

[IIwhitexb0iII]

let me preface this rant with the fact that i've wanted to kiss my date to prom for four years, even thought i had plenty of other opportunities of people to take.
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i've spent a whole lot of money making this evening a possibility for the both of us.
dinner was nice and cheap, she paid for herself and mine onle ended up being $18.00 because a girl's dad from our group was the hotel manager at the marriott at sawgrass in ponte vedra, florida.
the limo ride was ok and even cheaper, $12.50 per person, the evening basically went down hill after dinner.
so we get to prom and i learn that she hates the actual dancing part of prom and was only looking forward to partying afterwards. what the fuck man, i wanted to dance my ass off. being that i was raised right and am a gentleman, i stuck around the whole evening. there were 5-10 other women that i could've easily gotten dances with and one of them even dumped her boyfriend that night, he goes to a different school, so she was single! (i've had a thing for this girl since the beginning of the year) i didn't dance with her because i didn't want to piss my prom date off.
so we get to the afterparty. mind you my date has stomach problems, and she drinks a little. she begins to get sick and anxious because 8 people are in a hotel room drinking underage. so again being the gentleman that i am, i offer to drive her out of my way, home to her house at the beach, i get to her house and all she can say to me is thank you. no goodnight kiss. the only thing i wanted from her, besides her to have a good time. at least she had a good time, and i didn't have to spend alot. but she could've had the same amount of fun without me while i could've been having more fun. i hope i'm just too much of a gentlemen and i suppose that was the right thing to do. but senior prom man...
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i hope someone is able to justify my evening when all it would've taken was a lousy kiss.

[Gotti]

that sucks man... did you atleast go back to the afterparty and find that single girl for a night of fun?

[-Josh-]

I hated my senior prom because i had to go with my ex girlfriend.

If she wasn't feeling good then you may have done the right thing....who cares, you had a date, that's more than a lot of people could ask for. But i always give a goodnight kiss to my date, she may have been waiting for you to make the move.

[Ace$nyper]

I didn't even go to mine or any other dances cause well i dont like them. And i had a G/F lol.

well man that sucks. I bet she was just still quezzy and didn't want to cause a bad moment. So don't blame yourself at all

[IIwhitexb0iII]

big thanks to all of you for your support throughout this situation...this has been helpul in my getting over the situation, after all its only highschool.

[jcsaleen]

Yo man I feel for ya... That does suck she should atleast apologise next time she talks to you.

[RickwithaTbird]

Just let this be a learning experience. This girl was selfish, and caused you to have a bad night. You were mr nice guy all night to her.


Unfair.


I think you should have said, well, I came here to dance, so you go ahead and find another wallflower to chit chat with, while I go cut a rug. I agree taking her home was the right thing to do, but you should have let her sit there by herself if she wanted to be boring. It sounds like she didnt even make decent conversation. If I wasnt gonna dance, she would at least have to be making me laugh and smile with some good conversation. Not just sit there like a lump. Don't let people do that to you. Explain as honest as it gets, because you have good intentions, they should understand. And if they don't then fuck em.

I was Mr Nice guy in high school too, and I let a lot of people ruin my good times. I dont allow that anymore. I live my life, you live yours. If we have fun doing the same thing, GREAT. If not, then get over it.

[IIwhitexb0iII]

hindsight is 20/20 which is a terrible fact of life. hopefully this has taught me a very valuable lesson and this wasn't a bad circumstance to learn it in. there is such thing as too nice and i needed to figure that out.

[TexasF355F1]

Pretty similar shit happen to me at my prom. I went to Homecoming and Prom with this girl. Talked to her the entire year, but never wanted to date her. Okay, I did want to date her, but something in my head and heart said don't b/c i felt i couldn't trust her. Get to prom, things are going okay, i knew something was going on b/w her and my friend already. We danced pretty much all night and then went to Project Prom afterwards. Thats when shit really went downhill.

I hardly spent anytime around her the entire night. Took her home about 6am and picked up back up around 11 to head outta town for after prom. Everytime i sate next to her when we got there she would get up and walk off. I got pissed off. So i avoided her. She confronted me once asking if i was okay b/c i was acting wierd. I played it semi-cool to where if you really cared you would know i was pissed.

She came up to me later and said something like are you sure your okay. At first i said yea and she said no your not, whats wrong. I blew up, cussed her out. i honestly have no idea what exactly i said to her i was furious. For some reason, i still regret this, i appologized for blowing up on her. Something ill never know why i did. Her and my friend ended up dating. I had a grudge against him for a while. She cheated on him many times, which proved my instincts right. My friend and i lived together for the first two years of college. We are now very close and great friends. Kinda funny how things work out.

Girls make you do stupid ass shit.

[pickle]

My date (my best guy friend at the time) was so drunk, he ended up hooking up with this fat drunk chick who looked like a man. She hit on like 20 guys and he was the only one drunk enough to go for her. He regretted it when he saw her again sober.

[sameintheend01]

it's just high school...don't worry about it. stop being a gentleman, you don't get ass that way (yes, i was that guy too).

[Gotti]

Originally Posted by pickle

My date (my best guy friend at the time) was so drunk, he ended up hooking up with this fat drunk chick who looked like a man. She hit on like 20 guys and he was the only one drunk enough to go for her. He regretted it when he saw her again sober.

Am i the only one who can tell a girl is ugly when i'm drunk? I think its bullshit when guys say they were too drunk, they were just too horny and didnt care if the bitch was ugly.

Even when i'm shit faced, i can still tell a girl is nasty, the alcohol wont make me see a model, it usually makes me crack jokes and make fun of ugly people lmao

[imtheoneandonlyD]

Originally Posted by Gotti

Am i the only one who can tell a girl is ugly when i'm drunk? I think its bullshit when guys say they were too drunk, they were just too horny and didnt care if the bitch was ugly.

Exactly. Some guys just get way to horny when they are drunk and will take anything.

[sivic02]

You should have just done what I did at my senior prom. After I took my date home I found my friend passed out so I decided the proper thing would be to "entertain" his date...all night long...in the pool, and the hottub, and the bathroom of the hotel room, the hotel bed in 2 different rooms, and on the blacony....yeah i slept for like 3 days straight after that night...

[TexasF355F1]

Originally Posted by Gotti

Am i the only one who can tell a girl is ugly when i'm drunk? I think its bullshit when guys say they were too drunk, they were just too horny and didnt care if the bitch was ugly.

Even when i'm shit faced, i can still tell a girl is nasty, the alcohol wont make me see a model, it usually makes me crack jokes and make fun of ugly people lmao

I'm with you. I can always tell. It's the guys who think completely with there dicks and not their brains who fall for that shit.