ok, theres a cheating thread and this made me wounder...

[dmbrisket 51]

women: what is the big thing with dating black guys? I dont mean it as a racist thing, but every time i seam to turn around at my hs theres a whit chick with a black guy, the girl alwase gets played, crys her eyes out, and then goes back to him or one of his best friends. i ask because one girl (age 14, yes the one then the four, as in a sophomore in high shool) gave 5 dudes, all over the age of 16 sypholis (sp!) and yes it was at one time in the parking lot of the high school during a junior varsity basket ball game. C'Mon what the hell is up with todays kids, now all 5 guys are getting csc (criminal sexual conduct) charges pressed on them, and they dont see what was wrong with it! sorry, just had to rant, my school has gone to hell in a handbasket (in case you didnt notice) and i was just wounden if anyone can give a reason why (right about now, a shitty reason is better then none)

[civickiller]

once you go black, you never go back

[dmbrisket 51]

once you go white, youll get it all night... theres a million of um

[Hilikus Funkin]

i go to school with some girls who stopped dating white guys because they couldnt pleasure them enough, i was like "wtf youre just goin for the nerds" didnt say that but i was thinkin it. This girl courtney is a huge slut and always talks about guys she has and will fuck. Shes hot but i know i dont have a chance because A) im white B) oh yeah im white and C) she just doesnt like me for some reason.

[CivicSpoon]

There are a lot of women (and men) who just don't have any respect for themselves. They will sleep with any guy or guys who even flirt with them a little. No self respect = slutty. That's just another reason to make sure you wrap it up, or make sure the guy wraps it up.
I think the whole reason that so many people sleep around is because society condones it. It's always been ok for men to sleep around. But now you hear sexuality all over the place. Whether it's music, tv, movies, internet, or people who are supposed to be "roll models". I mean think about it. If it was 10-15 years ago, would people allow people like Britney Spears or Paris Hilton to be their childrens' roll models? Instead of parents not letting their children watch or listen to stuff from these people, they encourange it by letting their kids go to concerts where the performer simulates sex acts or let them watch white trash women who have s'd and f'd every guy in hollywood. Ya know personal rights and all; but if I ever had a daughter who started to dress like britney spears or another one of those glorified prostitutes, I'd kick her ass and ground her until she went off the college. And also for men, I think parents (especially fathers) need to teach their sons how to treat women with some more respect. I was watching tv with a friend of mine last week (of course 200+ channels with not a damn thing on) and he flipped it on some show about teens and sex. There were these group of guys sitting around playing poker and talking about how they're going to be the first to score. It was so funny listening to these Tools, but it just showed the mentality of kids these days. I blame the parents. They need to step in, have a little talk about respect of selves and others. And if that doesn't work, a nice brutal beating will help hammer the information in.

As for the white chic and black guy thing... personal preference I'd assume. My aunt is white and my uncle is black, as far as I know most of the guys she was in a relationship with before were white. The person she fell in love with just happened to not be white And boy was my grandfather pissed off when she married her husband (my grandfather was a bigot).

[dmbrisket 51]

yeah, ive been saying blame the parents for 8 years now, and im only 18, as for personal preference, possibly, but, if i was her dad it wouldnt fly, and i know a lot of guys say that, but when it came to it they sit back and let it happen... and also, if you look around your local hs (if the situation there is one tenth what it is here youll see it) the girls with black guys walk them around like a trophy, a cat that just killed a mouse and is now bringing it back to show its owner

[Hybrid1990crx]

maybe this is why all the white kids in highschool try to act black...

[dmbrisket 51]

^ yeah if it was a disease it would be an epidemic

[CivicSpoon]

I've been out of high school for almost 6 years now. But my high school was really strange. It was a mostly "white" school. I graduated with a little over 700 others and about 90% of them were white. So I didn't see many white women with black boyfriends in school. Maybe I just didn't really notice though because I really didn't care for most of the people I went to school with. But the way I look at it is that if a guy or girl will only date someone based on something as stupid as the color of their skin, then it's kind of sad. But oh well, everyone has to do what they feel is best for them. Me personally I'm white, and I could care less if a girl is white, black, hispanic, or whatever; if she's attractive and isn't stuck up she's got a chance with me (yes I know it's shallow about the attractive part but that's reality).

I don't know. People are weird, especially in high school. Once you get out you realize that most of the stuff that bothered you or ideas you have really don't mean sh*t anymore. When those girls who abuse their bodies get into college, they'll get used and abused and wonder why it keeps happening. And all the guys who sleep around will wonder why it burns when they pee In the end all you can do is worry about yourself and stay true to yourself while keeping an open mind about others.

[doug294]

Yeah I have noticed the same thing around here, but think about it, whats the difference in a white & black, black & hisp., white & asian, etc, etc... You get the point. I mean there is no difference. Personally I wouldn't date a black woman, but thats because I am just not attracted to them. (wouldn't date a asian woman either for the same reason). Don't get me wrong I have Asian and Black friends just not my thing ya know?

One thing I noticed in my school though is once a girl went out with a black guy no other white guys would give her the time of day.

[dmbrisket 51]

Originally Posted by doug294

One thing I noticed in my school though is once a girl went out with a black guy no other white guys would give her the time of day.

one teacher at my school once said... once you go black you never go back, because thats the way he wants it and i think thats about right, a chick that has been with a black guy i wont give the time of day to, its just a personal thing i guess

[travagliante]

Originally Posted by civickiller

once you go black, you never go back

isnt the reverse "once you go black, we dont want you back!"

[dmbrisket 51]

[CivicSpoon]

"once you go black, we dont want you back"

Sounds like a lot of insecurity based on black men's stereotypical...size.

[Hybrid1990crx]

I think theres more behind it then that, just most of us are grown up enough to not bring it up.