Whipped friends

[jcsaleen]

ok so since last october my friend has been "dating" this girl in nov she went to a baseball game with her ex an dumped his ass (my friend for her ex) they got back together before christmas an he just took her back like nothing ever happened. See the thing is when your best tells you almost every day "BBH" (Bros b4 hoes) and then completely fucking leaves you in the dirt like your nothing I'd say you have a right to be mad. Now get this his words exactly the other day "I dont hang with her all the time just 7 days a week" WTF??? I am I missing something here???? Now the wopper of all he says he truly thinks shes the "one" lol omfg how many times have we all heard that... Be aware hes 17 too..... Now the funniest part is that I truly think hes whipped because of this not only does he go to school an hang with her for countless hours each an everyday but...... He works for her parents?????? omg he goes over her house everyday in the morning gets driven together by her rents hangs with her all day in school then goes to work for her parents and eats dinner there and takes a shower an sleep at home... I dunno Im not even pissed anymore everytime he tries to talk to me I just walk away now. Not mention everytime I try to talk to him his Gf starts making out with him to stop him from talking to any of his friends too...
So I tink Im fighting a losing war and giving up on this kid I got plenty of other friends who I can hang with...

Just venting thats all.....

Jc out

[bayouwolf]

It's just part of growing up man. Guys are led around by their dicks for the better part of their lives. Give it time...
(here's where Oz comes in and tells you to do his sister or something)

[jcsaleen]

Originally Posted by bayouwolf

It's just part of growing up man. Guys are led around by their dicks for the better part of their lives. Give it time...
(here's where Oz comes in and tells you to do his sister or something)

lol ur right but Ive had friends who date but arent pwned to the extreme like he is... well he isnt really a ladies man so I guess hes just overly gracious...

[SniperX13]

well, hopefully he will come around. and hopefully, you'll be a good enough friend to be their and rub his face in it and say "I told ya so" when he falls, but just be gentle about it

[jcsaleen]

O not in this case me an his other 2 really close friends (all in a group I guess) Were leaving him High an Dry.

[jcsaleen]

Another thing not only when we tell him stuff about whats really going to happen and he just denies it and goes back to his GF.

[kublah]

Don't just give up on the guy... You might think he's a moron for being with this girl, and he probably is, but that's no reason to break off a friendship if that's the only problem you've got with him. Some guys are just stupid about this stuff, and this is a constant source of frustration for their slightly more clever friends who see through the smoke & mirrors. You just have to hope that he wises up to it eventually, as such lessons are sometimes only learned the hard way.

I actually just got off the phone with a good friend of mine who is in kind of a similar spot. I can't f#cking stand the girl he's engaged to marry, and we don't see each other very much anymore as a result. But I can't ignore the fact that he's still my friend regardless of who he choses to go to bed with. I still see him every once in a while, and when I do it's basically the same between us as it's ever been, but it couldn't be that way if I was around them both as much as I used to be.

If he's not going out of his way to hang out with you, then you get to do the same thing. But don't be a prick about it because that will just hurt your cause. Nothing brings people together like a common goal, which in this case would be proving you wrong. Make sure he knows how you feel and go ahead and keep your distance for a while, but trust me, you need all the friends you can get.

[jcsaleen]

I dont mind being aqaintences....

It really is rediculious how bad it is and he gets mad at me for this reason I said "I needed MY locker" because I let him use it an I had mad stuff in it so not only does he throw his stuff in but his GF's coat an everything else along with it soo I took it an dumped it all in the lost in found.

In all Honesty I really could careless if I lose this friend. & trust me its not just one little incident like that. Its been adding up 4 a bit.

Another example most Random thing ever ~ Im talking to another good friend of mine when he walks up with his GF an is like "so I heard u were selling razors during that big fight" and tells his GF "see I told u he's such a nut sometimes" Im like """WTF!!""" I told him were do u get this stuff from an he said he heard it from this random nobody an assumes it happend and goes an tells people mean while during the fight I was sitting watching it with another one of my friends who I do car stuff with . I dont get it... So I bugd on him and told him just dont even talk to me anymore.

[SniperX13]

well, a battle not fought is a battle won. It sucks to see a friend go, and under trivial circumstances, but it seems that he really wanst that good of a friend anyways.

true friends never let women, money, politics, or anything come between them.

[kublah]

Originally Posted by jcsaleen

In all Honesty I really could careless if I lose this friend.

Then get busy doing it and stop worrying about him. If he's that big a dick, then you should be happy that he's with a woman that will probably stab him in the back some day.

[jcsaleen]

Originally Posted by kublah

Then get busy doing it and stop worrying about him. If he's that big a dick, then you should be happy that he's with a woman that will probably stab him in the back some day.

Yea I guess ur right but he wasnt a dick just very niave....

[SniperX13]

well, think of this JC.... you triend to be a good friend, and warn him, and attempted to turn his head to what was going on, but he refused to listen. this is all on him. let him suffer his fate, and just wash your hands of the whole thing.

[jcsaleen]

I think im going to now the challenge is avoiding him.

[SniperX13]

well, from the sounds of it, with him not coming around much anymore anyways, it shouldnt be that hard of a problem to advoid him.

[jcsaleen]

ya hopfully unless he tries to show his "friends off to his gf again"

Btw ~ shes a Freshman hes a junior.