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03-13-2005, 06:49 AM
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Getting married while you're young
I have two old mates of mine, both not even 20 yet and are already engaged.
I don't want to bag em out, but are they serious? I mean, seriously, 19 years old and you want to tie the knot? I bet they won't last a year. 
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03-13-2005, 06:57 AM
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Re: Getting married while you're young
yeah know.... people said the same shit to me when I was 19. Now I'm 21 and i realize they were right.
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03-13-2005, 07:17 AM
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Re: Getting married while you're young
no point in getting married that young when you are still trying to figure out who you are.that is the way is see it. during that time you could grow apart. like me and my girlfriend of 3 years did. she did the dumping because i was not where she wanted to be in life....that was me being seriuos all the time. she wanted to live a little and see want other guys were "like" Bitch.
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03-13-2005, 08:30 AM
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Re: Getting married while you're young
You at least have to wait til after you're 21. The difference b/w the way I was when I was 19, and the way I am now is astronomical. I can only the imagine the pain I would have caused that person had I gotten married at 19.
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03-13-2005, 12:31 PM
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Re: Getting married while you're young
Exactly...take you team. See what life has to offer. Maybe there is something out there you'll find you want more than kids before you're 22.
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03-13-2005, 12:33 PM
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Re: Getting married while you're young
its funny cause like 90% of the guys i talk to who are married say never get married. They dont get laid, they get bitched at all the time, most of them would rather work than be at home with their wives.
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03-13-2005, 01:27 PM
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Re: Re: Getting married while you're young
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I lived with my ex g/f for a while and if we hadnt lived together there is no doubt in my mind that we would be either engaged or something along those lines. Do NOT think about getting married to someone unless you have lived with them. Im not talking about spending most of your time over at your girlfriends house either. Things get completely different when you dont have any real "escape" from a girl. When you come in at 5am and your so drunk your friends have to carry you inside...she knows. If you have a bad day and need a little time to yourself you better go back to work. It might seem like all fun and games and sex all the time...just wait until the stress comes in, then youll know if you are ready to marry the person. I have/had 2 friends who were married before 20, one got a divorce about 3 months after getting married, the other shot himself leaving his wife and twin girls behind but thats another story all together. So far from what I have seen getting married early is 0-2 for this season.
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03-13-2005, 04:11 PM
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Re: Getting married while you're young
Fuck that... I'm not gunna get married till i'm 25+
I need time to enjoy my young age, if you get married when you're 19 you miss out on all the crazyness of your early 20s, some of the best times of your life. In the US you cant even buy beer yet and you're getting married?! thats stupid as hell.
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03-13-2005, 04:28 PM
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Re: Getting married while you're young
I am with Gotti on this one all the way...!
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03-13-2005, 04:44 PM
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Re: Getting married while you're young
I'm living with my girlfirend now, and it definitely is WAY different than just spending most of your time at thir house. My stuff gets moved all the time so i don't know where it went. My lucky jersey gets washed when it's not supposed to be washed. I get yelled at for getting up too early to go to work, etc. It has it's good moments, but before you marry someone, I definitely agree that it's a must to live with them first.
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03-13-2005, 05:05 PM
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Re: Getting married while you're young
If you're in love... Why not?
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03-13-2005, 05:18 PM
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Re: Getting married while you're young
You can be in love with someone, then find out that the two of you are incompatible in a living situation. I have a friend who was head over heels in love with a woman. They would have been married had they not moved in together. They moved in together and he found that she was unbearable to live with and they broke up. He still loves her very much, but he knows they have no opportunity for happiness with one another.
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03-13-2005, 05:24 PM
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Re: Getting married while you're young
I would be asking WHY they want to do it? What have they got to prove? If they are committed to each other for a life time, surely 3 years of living in a defacto relationship won't hurt.
Sounds like they are both trying their hardest to enter the 'adult pond' with the biggest splash possible. Not advisable.
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03-13-2005, 05:25 PM
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Re: Getting married while you're young
I'm not getting married before i'm 28, at the earliest. Maybe even 30.
2 reasons: * fun * career
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