Small Girl Dilemma... Need Opinions

[Gotti]

OK so me an one a my friends met these 2 girls, I wanted one, he wanted the other. Now we find out that the one he wanted likes me and the one i wanted likes him. But i can tell the one i wanted from the start likes me too cause a the way she looks at me.

Now i dont wanna be with a girl i was less attracted to, so we have to figure out how to take care of this situation. The girl that he was into is calling me all the time now, while he's talking to the one i was into. So I dont really want to hurt her feelings to bad telling her that i want her friend more than her. We have to figure out how to break it to them...

We'll probably just end up telling them straight up, that we gotta reverse this. I just need some opinions on how to break it to them, i'm not sure what words to use cause i dont wanna hurt that girls feelings too bad that likes me, she'd prolly be pissed at her friend to cause i think her friends sexier lol

Her friend is more my type cause she's more "bangin" if you know what i mean... she's got curves and a fat ass. While my friends more into the skinny girls with a little bum bum popping out haha


interesting dilemma huh

[ghostrx7]

thats a ruff one gotti, i dont know if u'll be able to pull this one off without upseting the women. imagine if u were talking to a girl and she said, sorry but, im more attracted to your friend than u!i guess if she also mentioned her friend likes u it wouldnt be too bad!i'd try 2 drop the other girl a call and have ur friend do the same. try to drop clues(ask the girl for her friends #?)just say u want to talk to her bout something.then call the one u want and tell her ur dilema.i bet telling the one u like would be easier than telling the one u dont! thats all i can think of for now. goodluck

[RickwithaTbird]

The girls just started calling the wrong guys, no biggie. Just swap numbers with your friend, and you call the bangin chick and talk to her, and give your friend the skinny girl's number so he can talk to her. They'll get the point without you even having to bring it up. But knowing girls, they might start asking you two what you think of their friend. At that point just say, (lets assume your friend is named bobby) "Well actually, Bobby is diggin her, but I'm more into you."
ORRRR beat them to it. muahahahaa... ask the skinny girl when she calls you, "What do you think of my friend? He's really diggin you!", and have him do the same to the bangin chick. Just play the girl game. They won't know how to deal with it, they aren't used to it, they usually dish it, not take it. I think they will go for it.

[DGB454]

Just tell them. No games. Just straight up. Say what you mean.

[Oz]

3some.

[82KnightRider]

You and youre homey should just swap the chicks once in a while.Unless youre not down with the sloppy seconds.

[Gotti]

Thats what i was thinking was gunna save me, that atleast my friend will go for the girl that liked me so she wont go home empty handed. But now my friend is saying he didnt even like her like that he jus said he would fuck her.... got damn!

DGB is right i'm just gunna tell the girl straight up. I like you, not your friend.

She's a cute girl, sexy and all that.. thats why i dont want her to feel bad, i jus like her friend more, she's more my type.

I'm sure her feelings are gunna be crushed that she didnt win the man of her dreams but she's gunna have to deal with it.

[Oz]

I reckon it'll all blow up in your face and you'll end up with neither of em.

[Gotti]

Originally Posted by Oz

I reckon it'll all blow up in your face and you'll end up with neither of em.

We'll see what happens... cause i'm not just gunna go for a girl cause she likes me when i like her friend better. Thats like settling for 2nd best. Thats like settling for vanilla cause they're out of chocolate chip. Thats like... well you get the point

[stoned_pimp420]

Do like me tell them "If you want him you can can have him" and tell your boy "If you want her you can have her" some of my past G/F's wanted one of my homies more than she wanted me but he didn't want shit to do with her except to fuck her, I found out about that and I told them both my little piece of advice and went on with my life. Just basically what I'm sayin is tell them the way it is and whatever happens just happens. Hell man life goes on!

[Gotti]

Originally Posted by stoned_pimp420

Do like me tell them "If you want him you can can have him" and tell your boy "If you want her you can have her" some of my past G/F's wanted one of my homies more than she wanted me but he didn't want shit to do with her except to fuck her, I found out about that and I told them both my little piece of advice and went on with my life. Just basically what I'm sayin is tell them the way it is and whatever happens just happens. Hell man life goes on!

Its more that the girl i didnt want likes me, thats the problem. The other girl (that i like), i can tell likes me too. I jus dont know how to break it to her that i like her friend better.

lol life goes on... trust me i dont sweat girls. Theres plenty more if it doesnt work out

[RickwithaTbird]

chocolate chip is pretty good! Sucks when they are out. If you do get the vanilla, then while youre eating the vanilla, you walk by another ice cream store that does have chocolate chip, you'll still want the chocolate chip. Which isnt fair to the vanilla. Don't hurt the vanillas feelings by saying its not your favorite, just tell the chocolate chip that its your dream flavor. Ya know.

I don't know what you should tell the girls though, I just like ice cream. lol.

[SniperX13]

just sit back, and see which one contacts you. thats the one who wants you. hopefully its the one who you want too.

[DGB454]

Love the title of this thread. At first I thought it was about a small girl.

[Oz]

Me too.