I have something to say everyone...

[jcz1987]

Well. As you can see I liked a girl but now my heart has been broken. I saw her today at school and the guy she hangs out with the most gave her a gift for her "half" birthday. I saw them hanging around and being with each other and I sad hi to her today when she was walking by herself, and she didnt even say hi to me and she just walked passed by me and hugged the guy who gave her the gift right behind me. I felt so sad, lonely and ignored. But I tried at least. I guess I'm just not good with girls at all. I guess my time will come much later than I expect it to be. Her dad is getting better by the way and he will live. Oh well, this is the third time its happend to me. I guess its time for me to just lay off for a while and take my time now with life and move on. I hope that girl is happy the guy she is with now. I hope we can still be friends. But I want to say something for all you AF members and friends. Thanks for helping me as much you can. I learned something from each and every one of you guys. Even though we may not agree with things on topics and etc but, YOU ALL are something to me. I feel that AF is a second family to me. I want to thank each and everyone of you for helping. I tried my best and I will help anyone who feels the same way when they fall in love. Peace out everyone, Justin is out now to find his true inner self.

[-Davo]

Oh man, I'm sorry to hear that, I've been in almost the exact situation.

It does hurt when the girl you've fallen far is in front of you in the arms of another, it sucks and doesn't seem fair.

It hurts more when you find out it's your best friend too, and he knew, and back stabs you. Get used to dissapointment. (I have no idea where I got that from, but it's a good line.)

[Suislide]

man, honestly. i can relate. i had LOTS of turn-downs, rejections, and heart-breaks before i finally had my first girlfriend. it hurt, alot. but you just have to push through it and know that some-day you WILL meet that girl who will like you for who you are. and that's the main thing, BE YOURSELF! don't change yourself to be what that girl wants. if what that girl wants is not what you are, then that girl is not for you. i've learned that the hard way, and sadly so are you and many other people in life.

the key is to not try too hard. don't seem like you're desperate, even if you are. be yourself, play it cool, and it will come naturally.

best of luck to you Justin.

oh, and you're welcome for the advice happy to help.

[KustmAce]

What your looking for will always find you when your not expecting it. Dont be out to find a girl. It will come. Thats how I have found all my gfs, my car, college, and a job.

Best of luck!

[uranium235powered]

I feel that AF is a second family to me.

I know how this feels. However, I do have a second family now because I was an exhange student last year and a family hosted me for one year, where they were like mom and dad to me, along with brothers and sisters I never had.

I guess I'm just not good with girls at all.

This is exactly me. I guess I'm just shy and embarressed that I'll make a mistake. Today at lunchtime, a blonde girl sat opposed to me. I really like her, but I don't know how to react. We had a short conversation, and then later she sat next to her friends. Now, as of this moment, I feel that I lust after her. She is cute, friendly, and the thing that caught my attention was that she was HOT. Real hot. I seem to have a thing for blondes. Especially when they are a year younger than I am. They're just so irresistable ...I have to get my hands on them.

Anyways, I just wanted to put in my input. Anyone got any comments or suggestions?

P.s. If you're just curious, this is from Prom 2004. I was 15, and my date was only 14! This was last year when I was an exchange student so the school let me go at such a young age so why not?



The one one the left = me; the one on the right = my date.

BTW, I need to find my inner-self too.

[Toksin]

Ah well.

FIDO. Fuck It, Drive On.

You'll find another. Just go nuts and enjoy yourself.

[Jimster]

Just wasn't your time, don't worry though because I'm sure that you'll find somebody better, I know what rejection feels like, don't let it knock your confidence in yourself because if you lose confidence in yourself then you will only make it worse.


Chin up man.

[chacal]

You know, although it can seem to be the end of the world, it isn't! Girls come and go. Don't worry. BTW, you don't have to have a girl! Sometimes boys feel they MUST have a girlfriend because all their friends have. That'll get on your nerves and you'll screw up every chance!
Loosing a girl is bad, but remember: there are lots of wonderful girls out there. Give them a chance to find you! Go easy. Have fun. Be yourself. You'll see it works.

[Damien]

You got a nice ride, what more could you ask for...

Live and have fun, you're young!

[tonioseven]

Life goes on; I didn't find my wife, she found me!! I "stalked" her for 2 years on campus then I just said forget it because I was unsure of myself. She saw me, called me over to her and the rest is history!! Keep your head up, your time is coming. Enjoy life in the meantime!!

[YogsVR4]

Not to sound harsh, but you are going through something every man has done for countless generations. It doesn't make it easier, but you might just take heart from the fact we make it through and something better inveriably comes along

[MBTN]

Welcome to the club! But always remember: No matter how good she looks, somebody somewhere is tired of putting up with her shit.

[fredjacksonsan]

Hang in there, we've all been through it. Girls can smell desperation I think....

[fredjacksonsan]

Originally Posted by -Davo

Get used to disappointment. (I have no idea where I got that from, but it's a good line.)

"Who are you?"

"No one of consequence."

"I must know."

"Get used to disappointment."


--Exchange between Inigo Montoya and the Man in Black, aka Wesley, from "The Princess Bride"

[-Jayson-]

well i consider myself lucky, ive found someone who means more to me than anything else, and she feels the same way about me. Ive never had a really hard fall like the one your having right now. All i can say is to move on. Be yourself again and find a new girl.