Hey AF friends I need your help badly!!!!!!

[jcz1987]

Ok during my Winter Break before I went to Switzerland. I met a girl at my school a few weeks ago. She wanted to hang out with me to get to know me more. I got to hang out with her one day and we saw movie, had Jamba Juice and walked around. She said I wear a nice cologne and she likes my car and the way I drive. After I dropped her off to her place she gave me a hug and so did I. After that I thought about that night and after that and now, I really like her a lot now because she is such a nice girl to be with right now. I've been taken this step by step. I did get her a xmas but I havent got the chance to give it to her yet because shes either busy or I see her hangout with this other guy that is her friend but I want her to recognize me also. Oh well. What do think I could do to take this up another step to point that she wants me as much as I like her. Please help my AF buddies!

[clawhammer]

I would just talk to her friends (some queiet ones, not the gossipy ones) to find out how she feels about you, then take it form there.

[ci5ic]

Originally Posted by clawhammer

I would just talk to her friends (some queiet ones, not the gossipy ones) to find out how she feels about you, then take it form there.

Why mess around? Call her, or go talk to her... Don't play the junior high school game where you talk to all her friends and shit. Who cares if she's with another guy. Just go up and say hello and all that, but save the xmas gift for when you're alone (if she is up for that).

[eversio11]

I just say flaunt the money you've got to get her in bed.

[KustmAce]

Originally Posted by ci5ic

Why mess around? Call her, or go talk to her... Don't play the junior high school game where you talk to all her friends and shit. Who cares if she's with another guy. Just go up and say hello and all that, but save the xmas gift for when you're alone (if she is up for that).

I concur.

[87lToronadol]

[Andydg]

[Moppie]

Dude, you shared Jamba Juice, given yourself a hug with her, and she likes how you smell.

Your in!

go get some!

[WickedNYCowboy]

What the heck are waiting for? Your in now all you need to do is git r done!

[Schister66]

Nothing ever got done by sitting and waiting...go out and be agressive. Go on dates and do small things, and above all...take it slow and don't seem like you're too interested. You could push her away if you move in too fast, but don't worry, by the sounds of it, you are already in.

[Suislide]

hang out with her as much as you can, without seeming like a desperate stalker.

just try to learn more about each other and look for signs of flirting.

[ec437]

Originally Posted by clawhammer

I would just talk to her friends (some queiet ones, not the gossipy ones) to find out how she feels about you, then take it form there.

bad idea.

Originally Posted by Suislide

hang out with her as much as you can, without seeming like a desperate stalker.

I'm an expert at that... remember, there is a fine line between cute and creepy. Just know how to walk it.

Originally Posted by eversio11

I just say flaunt the money you've got to get her in bed.

this one also works on occasion


I would also like to add that if she is actually not single, but you still want to pursue a relationship, then you'll have to come up with a nice shpeel about the way you feel that doesn't make you creepy but implies that you'd like to date her. This one can be tough to pull off. Remember, don't make it too specificly about you and her, be kind of non comittal. At least that is my experience. But if she is single, then anything goes

BTW,

[indyram]

Well put

[Toksin]

Pound it!

Why fuck around?

[knorwj]

well you definitely need to let her know how you feel, if you don't you will miss out. Just make sure you don't come off as desperate. Just let her know and don't make it seem like its all you think about etc. (that may be thpught of as creepy). Just invite her out or something and make sure you have a great time and then be like " hey I think you're swell" haha (you get the idea)

Don't involve her friends it never works. Think about it, what good would it do? then if they do let it leak to her she will think you are too shy or lame or something to just talk to her. girls don't generally like that. One thing that WILL work however with friends is if they like you, not in the way that you like her, but in a "hey he's a great guy" type of way. That way when you let her know how you feel and she discusses it with her friends they will be like oh he is a great guy. See where i'm going with this?




edit: By the way I wouldn't push the present on her until it is appropriate. Take her out, have a good time, tell her how you feel, wait a little while for the present. If things go well after you tell her how you feel maybe give it to her the following week or something. If things don't go so well when you tell her then save it for another girl or return it.