Asking for permission for posting a offtopic !!

Killa · #1 01-03-2005, 05:37 PM

Im here to ask about, I can post a topic that doest do any about car , I got some problem that I need to share with any body here, But before I post , I want to ask permission , so I dont got ban. Thanks

1stGenRocks · #2 01-03-2005, 05:52 PM

theres a dedicated off topic forum if you go to the main automotive forums site

Killa · #3 01-03-2005, 05:58 PM

I like to post here , cause I kinda know people here better.

scottsee · #4 01-03-2005, 09:14 PM

lol. its not that easy to get banned, but im sure the mods appreciate your dedication to the rules. im sure its allright. what do you want to say?

bighauns · #5 01-03-2005, 09:54 PM

yeah, just go for it man!! that is cool that you asked though, not many people would

imtheoneandonlyD · #6 01-03-2005, 10:07 PM

just post it.

Killa · #7 01-03-2005, 10:49 PM

ok here I go ( My english suck, please understand )

It about my women and my life , and my 1 month old babe

My name is Ken , im 18 year old, I start know this girl about 2 year ago in high school. After know her about 1 month , I brake up with her ( because she hard to listen) , and go out with another women ( it been a week later until I got another girlfriend ). Then my ex girl friend start change alot , and cry , come my house , talk sweet , that make me want come back to her. I did , after get out high shool , I got my driver licent , and bought a eclipse ( been looking for 9 month , all over the place )Then one day , she start fell her stumach hurt, it get worse every day , It was hurt my heart , I want to take her go doctor to see what wrong to her, then one day she say to me that MABE she PREGNANT , I was scare and ran go eckert , and bought ( some thing that test the woment pregnant or not ), she test it , and it show that she pregnant , I dont trust it , went bought another one expensive then the one I bought before and it show that she pregnant. We try to hide away from our parent, but she hurt more every day , and im worried about her and babe. So I go home and dont eat all day , my mom see me and I cry ( yes I do cry ) and tell her about my girlfriend. She was sock cause Im the first one in the familly that not married and had a babe ( my grand mother had 12 children , 6 boys , 6 girls ) I had about 50 couson. After every cool with my parent , now it time to talk to my girl friend parent, her mom got piss and never want to see her or talk to her. But her dad sat down and talk to me , Everything went ok. two day later , her mom ask me to MARRIE HER THIS WEEK , or else i cant see her again , I was shock , I never thought I get marrie this early ( i do thinking to marry her , but not this time ). So I walk out the door and go home, after that day I cant allow to come to the house, but my girlfriend and I still talk pretty cool. BTW my girl still go school that time ( 2 month until summer ). So every day my girlfriend stumach got big , every body in school can tell that she pregnant , and all of them know that babe is my , I take her to school early , and get out at work early to pick her up , and take her home. after many month , she born a little girl. The little girl cant had my last name , cause in the paper , she say that she is single mom , so insurance can pay every doctor bill.

Now I spend more money on the babe and her , more than my car. She tell me to move out and live , but I cant move out , 1 - she still 17 , 2 I dont had real job yet. She was mad at me , she mad at me every day , even now . She dont listen to me any more , dont like to call me , today she go out with some woment all day without call me , I try to call her alot , but no answer .

My life is fuck now ( if I can say that ) , I dont know what to do , to make her happy , I really dont know any thing now.

sorry about this long storry , hope you guy understand what i mean , please give me some advise , if you dont understand any part , please tell me I will tell you more careful. thanks for reading this.

wuman82 · #8 01-03-2005, 11:25 PM

Well, I'm sorry to hear what happened to you. I don't know how you are feeling right now but I can say it can't be too good. However, the bottom line is that you fucked up. You should of used protection if you were sexually active with that girl.
Since its already too late to play the blame game you need to think about how you can support the baby, you don't neccessarly have to suuport her, but you have to support that baby. If you don't have a real job right now, then I'm sorry to say it, you have to grow up real quick and go find a real job. It sounds like your parents are accepting the fact that she is pregnate, maybe you can ask your parents for help in supporting the baby.
I don't think you should move out and move in with her, thats just another expense that you have if you move out. Stay with your family and go work your butt off.
Sorry to say it, but you are looking at at least 5 years before you can do/buy anything for yourself, but this is one of those life lessons that you happened to learn the hard way.
I don't want to make you feel worse, just cheer up and think that you will be a daddy soon, having a kid is one of those moments in life that should be a great experience. He/she will bring you smiles everyday, so talk to your parents, talk to your girlfriend and see what you guys can work out, just remember it will always come out for the best.

Killa · #9 01-04-2005, 12:27 AM

yo , thanks for the advise man , I can only get part time job , cant get full job , cause I go to college . The thing that I worried about is , every day we just falling apart , like we will brake up or something , like when ever I call her , if she pick up the phone , she will ask me " do you had something important to say to me ? " she mean about rent appartment to move out. And that just make me cant say anything I felt to her when she start that.

metalhedskater · #10 01-04-2005, 12:32 AM

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Originally Posted by Killer7

she will ask me " do you had something important to say to me ? " she mean about rent appartment to move out. And that just make me cant say anything I felt to her when she start that.

ummm...

anarchy1114 · #11 01-04-2005, 12:42 AM

sorry to hear that man .... everything will eventually work out. all i can say is really sit down with her and explain the situation, and what you truely feel. ask her the same thing, listen to her and how she feels as well.

i mean it may be hard right now with you being in college and only having a part time job, but when your done with college you'll be able to provide better for not only her but most important your child.

hope everything works out for you, your girlfriend and your child. best of luck

and over all your a dad. be proud of that. and i have to say that atleast your good enough of a man to take care of her and your child.

again best of luck with everything

coolguycooz · #12 01-04-2005, 12:57 AM

I say you put that baby for adoption. break up with your girlfriend and spend 100% of your time money and effort in to your car. Who needs a family and kids when you have a turbo DSM????

george536 · #13 01-04-2005, 01:05 AM

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Originally Posted by coolguycooz

I say you put that baby for adoption. break up with your girlfriend and spend 100% of your time money and effort in to your car. Who needs a family and kids when you have a turbo DSM????

i know your joking, but i dont think he needs that rite now.

tfoti · #14 01-04-2005, 01:07 AM

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Originally Posted by coolguycooz

I say you put that baby for adoption. break up with your girlfriend and spend 100% of your time money and effort in to your car. Who needs a family and kids when you have a turbo DSM????

ass

Killa · #15 01-04-2005, 01:12 AM

thank you , I try to talk to her, you guy very nice to me , thank for that. BTW to the last post I dont had a turbo dsm , try to build up everything , but had to stop now , and use the car for the familly ride ( no I dont want to sell it to get honda ).

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