I'm wondering...

Vtec913 · #1 12-16-2004, 05:34 PM

Is being in a relationship when you're 14 years old meaningless? I just have a lot of moral issues to look at and I don't want to waste my energy to try something that is meaningless.

ghostguy6 · #2 12-16-2004, 05:52 PM

Thats really up to you. I wouldnt say it would be meaningless, no matter what happens you will learn something. Honestly the odds are that a relationship at 14 wont work out but some do. At 14 your still young and you have your whole life to live. You need to deside if you are ready for one or not, also the guy or girl you are looking to start a relationship with may not be ready yet. This is something you need to deside, we can only offer suggestions to help you make your desicion.

clawhammer · #3 12-16-2004, 08:06 PM

You get the life experience, but if there are big issues like that involved, then she might influence you in a bad way, so I would end the relationship

SeXy_AnGeL · #4 12-16-2004, 08:38 PM

IMO....I wouldnt do it. I remember those "relationships". You "go out" for a week or 2 then break up and then a few days later his friend goes up to your friend and is like "she still wanna go out with him" then the respective parties go back to their friends and then after several meetings (the friends not the actual ppl in the relationship) the ppl in the relationship start to talk again...continues like this until hs and then things start to get a bit more serious...slowly but surely it happens...

Vtec913 · #5 12-16-2004, 08:57 PM

by the way I'm not a girl, I think we got some wires crossed there

SeXy_AnGeL · #6 12-16-2004, 09:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Vtec913

by the way I'm not a girl, I think we got some wires crossed there

just reverse what i said then to make it make sense for you.

-Josh- · #7 12-16-2004, 10:38 PM

Judging by your attitude from your first post, it probably would be a waste of time for you, Kate's right about it on this one, wait maybe another year or two(unless it's a senior your wanting to date).

carnut · #8 12-16-2004, 11:04 PM

You're 14 years old? Go out and enjoy your youth, dont't grow up so quickly. You're only young once. There will be a lot of time for relationships later in life, what's the rush?

BleedDodge · #9 12-17-2004, 12:25 AM

Don't do it. I'm nearly 20, and I've been single my entire life. My friends all have girlfriends, 2 of them have kids on the way, and everyone is flat broke. I have money and no big problems, and everything is pretty much perfect. I wouldn't have it any other way.

WickedNYCowboy · #10 12-17-2004, 12:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Z28Josh

Judging by your attitude from your first post, it probably would be a waste of time for you, Kate's right about it on this one, wait maybe another year or two(unless it's a senior your wanting to date).

I agree. If he is a senior at 14 god bless him. I know I wasn't still aren't that smart. By the way Kate as well alot of other chicks I know right about a lot of things.

-Josh- · #11 12-17-2004, 12:30 AM

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Originally Posted by BleedDodge

Don't do it. I'm nearly 20, and I've been single my entire life. My friends all have girlfriends, 2 of them have kids on the way, and everyone is flat broke. I have money and no big problems, and everything is pretty much perfect. I wouldn't have it any other way.

That's right, cause there's always rosy palmer and her five sisters to keep you company right?

BleedDodge · #12 12-17-2004, 12:34 AM

At least I have money to eat.

kornflakes28546 · #13 12-17-2004, 10:22 AM

i say go for it. sure the odds that a 14 year old relationship will last is slim to none but you learn a lot about yourself, the opposite sex, and life during relationships. just remember to always put your friends first, girls second. your friends will always be there for you, even when your girl is gone... 2 cents

ridestreet84 · #14 12-17-2004, 10:50 AM

at 14 a relationship to most people that age is holding hands during a school function and having a dance partner and maybe getting a kiss or to or thats how its was when i was 14. i say over all go for have fun your young

WickedNYCowboy · #15 12-17-2004, 11:22 AM

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Originally Posted by ridestreet84

at 14 a relationship to most people that age is holding hands during a school function and having a dance partner and maybe getting a kiss or to or thats how its was when i was 14. i say over all go for have fun your young

I wouldn't know bout that stuff I was banned from school events. As dating goes. It is still the same no girl looks at me.

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