Girl problems SO CONFUSED! Help

[scubawrstlr]

Okay, I have been with this girl for almost 7 months now. At first it was great, but now things are starting to get a little hard. Sometimes she makes me feel crappy, like I'm not good enough. And other times I can't be myself around her. Like at the mall I love to just go around and have fun. Ya know, messing around and playing with things, tring the samples. She totally freaks out when I do though. Then she doesn't let me do certain things that I like. We live 60 miles apart, and in the time we have been together she has come to see me at the most 5 times. The other i donno, 50-75+ times I have gone to see her. I've got a lot of bills to pay, and sometimes I have to help my dad with the family bills. She makes more than I do and her parents pay for her gas, yet she will never drive down to see me.

Now here is my problem. I met this girl Brooke like a year and a half ago. I havn't seen her in a long time, but when school started I ran into her on the first day. We got caught up, and now she is showing an interest in me. I was sick and didn't go to school today. The second she was out she was calling me to see if I was okay. Amy has called me I think two times, and thats only because I asked her to call me. I'm so confused, cuz I fell in love with Amy for who she used to be, but now she has changed. Now Brooke is in the picture, and she isn't giving up. I need a little input from you guys.

[Raz_Kaz]

First of all, this is in the wrong section.
Second of all, dump the girl your with right now. She doesnt seem to have any interests in you, probably on the hunt for a "better" bf as we speak and is waiting to dump you. Plus it's not like you guys havent been seeing eachother for long so that your throwing a marriage type relationship
This new friend girl sounds like a better match for you. She cares and you two have a past. But be careful, once you two go into the relationship faze, your risking the friendship for good...so think about it!

[scubawrstlr]

Sorry about posting in the wrong spot.

[ghostguy6]

like raz said, be very careful when dating a friend, things can go bad real fast and if they do you probably just lost a friend as well as a gf. If you feel she is worth the risk id say go for it, but give it some thought first. Something definally seems fishy with Amy, my advise would be to ask her about it, if she lives 60 miles away things can be happening that you may not know about that may justify the way she has been acting.

[-Jayson-]

dating friends only one of two things will happen. You will destroy your friendship and relationship or you will have one of the best relationships ever. Its either big time hit or big time miss when it comes to that.

As for amy, dump her ass. If the girl isnt as crazy about you as you are about her then the relationship will never work. And from the sounds of it, shes not very crazy about you. Brooke seems like a good choice. She prolly had a crush on you before but didnt know how to tell you, but now that shes a little older and more experienced she could just be doing what shes always wanted to do. Ask her and find out. But if she worries about you like you say she did, then thats something really to look at.

[tacoma man.]

you dont need someone like that. go for brooke

[landyacht]

Dump the current and date the other. You're young enough that it's not gonna make or brake you. Remember, friends come and go. Despite the fact that this may end up spoiling your friendship, should ya'll choose to stay in contact if things DO turn out badly, you'll end up with a friend for life.

I think this new girl sounds more like who you want to be around, so break up with the old one.

Good luck!

[indyram]

go for brooke, i might not be the best advise right now though. I am quite pissed off at this time and would like to divorce my wife.

[scubawrstlr]

I left Amy, and things with me and Brooke are looking good. Thanks guys.

[landyacht]

Glad it's working out.

[importssuck88]

sweet! how did u brake it to her?

[scubawrstlr]

Just told her straight out that I wasn't happy and that I was leaving her.

[jcsaleen]

peace her! Go brooke lollook @ the vote count! 16-0 lol

[KustmAce]

Originally Posted by scubawrstlr

Just told her straight out that I wasn't happy and that I was leaving her.

Be glad you ended it before she did. Dignity is a fine thing to have!

btw...

[scubawrstlr]

What pics do you need? I'm glad you figured out a way to use that smiley, I could never find a chance.