im really p'oed and need to vent ( very long)

[tacoma man.]

my mom takes care of foster children, she currently has 2. on is 17 and the other is 14. my mom and dad is currently in process of finishing a 2 car garage, that will have 3 bedrooms and a bathroom over top the garage, now the problem. until the rooms are done the 2 boys are sharing a room with me. they have a set of bunk beds were they sleep, they have thier own dressers for thier clothing. (thank god i have a huge bedroom), anyway, while im at work every evening they are playing my playstation 2, they have scratched several of my games, i have asked them not to handle the discs, and take better care of them, these kids came from bad homes, thier parents were to sorry to work and i did feel sorry for them at first, they were poor, hardly had any clothes when the came there. so i didnt mind them playing with my games. but anyway, another problem the 17 yr old wont do anything to help around the house, he throws his clothes in the floor that mom just washed and then walks on them all day, he is a pest and he follows me around on weekends, he lays on my bed all evening watching tv, and uses my telephone and computer. he even knows my damn password to log in with and i had to change all of that. i cant use the computer when he is in the room cause he looks over my shoulder to see what the passwords are, he gambles at school playing them stupid magic cards, so i have to hide my money elsewhere. he also plays football, well he is a bench warmer, he is a senior and when he does play its after the good players has scored all the points and they mix him in with the freshman players, he complains all the time, and he KNOWS it all, i cant talk to friend unless he is knocking them out of the way so he can talk to me, he wears my clothes to football practice, then some other guy ends up stealing my good clothes from him and taking them home the i end up having to go to the idiots house to get my shirts back. i cant have no privacy, it has been like this scince febuary. but thats only half of it., last week mom got problem child # 2 , i think that the title problem child serves him just fine, he is a small build kid for being 14 yrs old, and he is red headed. the agency told mom he was an angel, yeah right, maybe at home but at school this morning he tried to beat up another kid, the principle called the house and said someone needed to come to the school and deal with him, see the school cant paddle or punish kids that are in foster care. so my dad went and he told him that one more mess up and he could go back to the state home that he come from. but my mom called the agency to see how she could punish him for his actions and they said that she cant, she cant send them to their room, she cant ground them, but they can be put into time out for 10 minutes. this is a 14 yr old not a 5 year old. hell if they get away with everything they they will become worse, and probally get so out of control that no one can make them mind. i have told mom for months that she needed to lay down new rules and i couldnt get it through her head. but now she has seen the light and is going to make them do chores as a punishment, like washing down the house, cleaning, and yard work. these kids need to learn that when they go from a home where their parents cant provide a good life for them, to a good home with anything they want they need to appreciate it. because my mom waits on them hand and foot, and they dont have to do nothing but lay around and destroy whats not theirs. (told you guys it was long)

[WickedNYCowboy]

But the agency didn't tell them you couldn't beat them up. I say beat there asses when they do crap to you. Perhaps you could teach them a few lessons.

[tacoma man.]

actually we cant lay a hand on them id like to beat the hell out of the 17 yr old but id go to jail

[WickedNYCowboy]

So get one of your friends to. IF that is also an issue just let it be. Before you know it they will be out.

[tacoma man.]

im hoping so its hard sharing a room with idiots that just dont care. another thing i will be playing my ps2 and the 17 yr old is always saying watcha doing. and it gets on my nerves. another thing i left out earlier, the 17 yr old has been chasing after a cheerleader, he wont leave her alone and she is ready to kill him. her friend told my brother that she cant stand the ugly bastard. and she wants him to leave her alone, she even had to switch out of a chemistry class to get away from him. we found out that he was cheating off her so he could pass,
" after him telling us he was super smart ", he made an ass out of himself there. mom has punished the 14 yr old, by making him write "i will not cause trouble at school no more" 1000 times, and if we have a repeat of the problem it will go up to 2,000 times. so maybe he might learn his lesson.

[xyfalconsrock]

I can't beleive that.You take them into your home and they repay you by wreaking your stuff and causing shit to happen.
Thats freaking un-believeable, tell ya what to do.
-put sand in their beds.

-puts locks on everything...

[240NIZ]

Beat their asses anyway. It'll be your word against theirs. The cheerleader will probably love you for it.

[-Jayson-]

dude i know exactly how you feel, when i was about 12-13 somewhere in their my low life aunt died at like 30 something. She had a 16 year old son who we decided to take into our house. I have 2 brothers and my parents living in a 4 bedroom 2 bath house. Anways its like you said, at first he was fine, fit in well and didnt cause any trouble. But after a while he started doing the same shit. he would go through all of our stuff and steal from us. He got horrible grades in school, wouldnt clean up after himself, wouldnt help around the house, followed us around and bugged the hell out of us. Just became a real pain in the ass. Luckily is real father decided that he wanted his son, so took him.

As for him using all your crap, do what i do when i get pissed at my brothers for using my PS2 and not cleaning it up or scratching the CDs, take the controllers and hide them somewhere. Or hide the power cord.

[ridge_runner]

empty your room....thats what i would do.. well no i would beat the shit outa them actually cause i have a short temper

[tacoma man.]

Originally Posted by ridge_runner

empty your room....thats what i would do.. well no i would beat the shit outa them actually cause i have a short temper

you'd introduce them to the sledge wouldnt u ridge. another thing he has no respect for our cars and trucks he slammed the door on my dads SS and i told him that it wasnt a clunker and that it would shut just fine if he done it easily. he wallers in the mud at football practice and then wants to wear the mud in the vehicle, he is a moron. he wanted to take the ss for a spin the other day while mom and dad was gone. they would kill him then

[tacoma man.]

oh and i hid all my dvds and games, so the only thing that they can do now is just watch tv