Love

[96Civ]

It's something I want.

I have never truely loved someone before but I know the exact feeling that I am looking for. I once had a dream that I was with a woman and I was laying down bracing her and I hadn't a care in the world. The presence was totally unsexual but the feeling of love rocked me so hard I felt it as I woke up and throughout the rest of the day as a burn in my gut that kept me asking where is my love in this world.

Each incident of love in a movie or a song or between a couple on the street is a nail in my chest. I want a love of my own. Now I know the day will come eventually come and that I'm still young, but I want someone to come into my life that I will absolutely stunning in my eyes that I could just BE with.

There are lots of girls that have passed before my eyes, but no girl I have ever seen or talked to has grabbed my heart, my attention, or my love. It seems like everyone is attracted to the opposite sex for only one obvious reason. I think most of my friends don't even know what love really is or have ever experienced it themselves. Well neither me, technically, except in a dream.

But even if I had only experienced it in a dream, I honestly feel like there is someone out there who cares for me but has not showed up in my life yet.

I just wish I could be with someone. Knowing now that my whole life I have been missing something really important. I realize now that I need love in my life more than ever. Without love... I would never feel complete.

This is a difficult subject for me for I never talk about love.

It just feels better to type it all out.

Any comments concerning love?

[Jm93]

ill comment.

Love is a good thing, but it can make your life a living hell. want proof? look at 90% of the posts in stress release here. i think a healthy Sex only relationship would be plenty fine for me, less problems, more fun!

unfortinetley, women dont seem to see it that way.

[taranaki]

Love sucks.















True love swallows.

[-Davo]

hahahahahahaha, yeah, love sucks.

[Jet-Lee]

hey homie, your 17, go party and screw girls brains out, have fun, the girl your supposed to spend the rest of your life with will come around eventually. Just cuz you want her now, wont get her to you any quicker...

[ghostguy6]

In all honesty I used to think love sucked too, when you really love someone you wont feel that way ever again. I found someone whom I have very stong feeling for and she totally changed me for the better. When you find that person, youll change too. Since your 17 im going to asume when it comes to women you only really have one thing on your mind, sex. sure you may feel other things but a great deal of it is sex. Love and sex are often confused. I dont want you scare you but when you meet someone you really love you wont think about sex as much, insted you will be thinking about just being with her, sure sex will still be on your mind just in a different way, its hard to explain. IMO its better to stop fussing over finding that special person, its when your not looking that you find them. Just keep your head up and im sure the right one will come along

[psychobadboy]

Well you can't assume that he's naive about love because he's 17...there was one girl who I really loved at the age of 17 & 18, and sex wasn't the only thing in my mind. Love truly is a wonderful thing. Take your time and look around...love just doesn't happen overnight with just anyone (and I don't mean "overnight" in the way y'all are thinking...I'm talking in a figurative sense).

But you've got to know that love doesn't come without hurt. I've been bitten in the ass by love a couple times before, and I'm gonna be honest: it hurts real bad. But even after going through that, I still don't think love sucks.

Maybe you want love...but the one question I pose for you is this: Are you ready for it?

[fajita23200]

In life it comes and it goes. I'm 29. I've been with a few women over the years. I got married at 25. Still too young to know what I really wanted. But, yes it is an almost indescribible feeling. Alas, all good things must come to an end. But, like alot of people have already said, don't go looking. Because it will elude you. Concentrate on other aspects of life. Then it will probably fall in your lap.

[ghostguy6]

Originally Posted by psychobadboy

Well you can't assume that he's naive about love because he's 17...there was one girl who I really loved at the age of 17 & 18, and sex wasn't the only thing in my mind.

Im not assuming he is,just trying to make a point that love and sex can easily be confused, just like infatuation and love.

[96Civ]

I know what love is. It has nothing to do with sex. They are totally unrelated except that some people think they are.

[Soyo]

Originally Posted by 96Civ

I know what love is. It has nothing to do with sex. They are totally unrelated except that some people think they are.

good point man.


well not having love sucks, but wait till you end up like me.

I found the perfect girl, I even thought I was the perfect guy for her. I fell in love with her, but she doesn't have feelings for me, so now we are just really good friends... at this point I want to hate her so bad, but I can't because I love her too much, and it hurts to talk to her or hang out with her cuz it just pushes the fact that I want her so bad and can't have her, yet I wouldn't give up spending time with her for anything in the world, no matter how bad it hurts...

honestly, I'm not sure if I'm glad to have love anymore or not... its got its ups and downs

[jon@af]

Love is something that no one can explain, it just happens. I never saw myself loving someone, then one day I up and told a girl I loved her, because I truly do. I don't know what it is, but I love being around her, and everything about her.

My point is, when it's time for love to come your way, you won't be expecting it, because it's something that no one ever expects. It will hit like a ton of bricks and leave you sitting there thinking "wow, I'm in love".

[kittedb18bt]

great posts guys. i am learning a whole lot here. i am 21 and have never been on a date. most of my friends think that is hilarious.

well, tomorrow is friday. maybe some of us will find that "bed" love. he he.

[BleedDodge]

I'm 19 and I've never dated either. I love my truck a whole bunch though.

[zebrathree]

Here it is. You may just fall in love. You may just not.

It's a game of chances.

You may fall in love and be hurt. Anything that doesn't kill you, will only make you stronger. Or bitter. So then you suck it up and drive on.