Vacation?? (Yeah right)

[Spyke^]

Well, I start my 2 week vacation as of 5:30pm tonight. Horray!!
My g/f is also off for these two weeks. We have been counting down the days. I have been so excited and looking forward to just chilling and laying back and basically doing shit.
I work as a Manager in a Composting Facility where it's hot, smelly and very noisy. All I wanted was some peace and quiet and to be together.Even though we live together its like we never get any quality time together as we both lead very busy lives.

Last night I was out cutting the grass, takes me like 2+hrs and I come in all sweaty, tired and smelling like OFF ( bug repellant) and as soon as I step in the door I hear her on the phone to her best friend who lives away.
Her, all excited to me, " Guess what honey, Kim is coming home for a week and her and her boyfriend are going to be staying here"

Excuse my language..
Oh fucking joy!! That's just fucking great!! Yeah good for you. Now why the fuck should I be all excited?
I'm so fuckin pissed off, I feel like cancelling my vacation and going back to work!
It's good for her, she gets to be with her friend,but now I'm stuck with them for a week?!!
We had all of these plans ( most of which were just crashing at the beach ) and now its all fucked.
We had a big fight last night and she was all mad at me for not being all excited like she was.
Errr, I'm happy for her but that's about it.
I was so looking forward to us ( just us) being together for these two weeks.

She just doesn't understand where I'm coming from at all. She thinks that I should be all happy.
Well I'm not.
I said to her " What if one of my buddies and his girlfriend wanted to crash here for a week during our vacation"? She said that was completely different.
My buddies are partiers etc.

She thinks that we can have sooo much fun with these people.
Hey thats fucking great. But guess what? I don't give a shit about your friends.
Your friend is a slut ( she constantly hits on me when my g/f is not looking) her boyfriend doesn't know any better and is a royal dick ( rich French boy)!!
Jeez, where do I sign up?
I don't blame her for her friend deciding that she is coming to visit, but I do think that I am entitled to be less than estatic.


And before you think that I'm some selfish bastard, I would hardly say that.
I cook, clean the house, cut the grass, do dishes, laundry, work on her truck, I compliment her constantly especially when I know she feels like crap about her self, tell her that I love her everyday, the best sex she ever had, money whenever she needs it, pay most of the bills and never once complain about it as I feel that it is just part of me and I enjoy doing it, I comfort her when she's sad, I prop her up when she's down...and did I mention the sex??

I give at work. My mission in life has been to make others happy and smooth things out.
The one time I wanted to just sit back and relax and do something for me...
She just doesn't understand how much that this has pissed me off or how I could feel this way.


The worst part is I have a wicked temper. One of those, I'm going to pick up this computer and throw it through the fuckin' window, smash and destroy fuck you and anyone who makes the mistake of trying to reason with me when I finally let it out?
6'2" 220lb do a lot of damage if I lose it...

She just doesn't understand how much I was looking forward to just relaxing, not trying to impress anyone, no pressure to go anywhere, sex all day and night wherever I want her , walk around naked if we want, just sit back and go "ahhhh", sleep till noon...

Sorry for the lenght of this post and it's ramblings. As it says Stress Relief I was hoping that I would find some relief..

[ghostguy6]

fuck you and anyone who makes the mistake of trying to reason with me when I finally let it out?
6'2" 220lb do a lot of damage if I lose it...

Well to damn bad Im gonna try to reason with you! Im bigger than you!
Why dont you be happy, if you g/f is happy seeing her friend shouldnt you be happy knowing your g/f is happy? I know where your coming from, I havent had a real holiday in like 3 years. Dude you can still have fun with them. Just sleep in, do the stuff you wanted to and forget about them still do stuff with them, dont be rude or anything just try to foget they are there.

[Jet-Lee]

6'2" 220lb do a lot of damage if I lose it...

Small guys do damage too, to me this statement means nothing...

I'm with ghost guy on this...They're gonna be there, whether you like it or not, so get over it. It will only be one week, you've got 2 weeks right? Hell, I wish I could get 2 weeks off without a damn good excuse...Make the most of the time your getting, whether her friends are over or not. If you don't like them that much, do your own thing. Sleep in, go places, and when they leave, be with your girl. Don't get all pissed off and start bashin shit.

[Spyke^]

First off I'd better explain something I guess.

Me saying I'm such and such a size wasn't meant to scare anyone or anything like that, ooh look at me I'm so big and strong, it was just a statement that when I do lose it I do real damage. I hate that about myself. Btw, the damage is always to my own stuff, no one elses or not to anyone...well unless it's some rich French fuck daddy's boy!
When I get frustrated I get angry and when I get angry I smash shit. I've always been like that.
Then after my rage is gone I'm fine. And no, I've never let her see that side of me. I'll go out to the garage usually and beat the shit out of my heavy bag or smash something. Stupid I know, but it's the only way I know of to release.

And yes, small guys do damage too, just smaller. j/k

Also I get three weeks off, I just took these two in a row for us to be together. Come to my work where in some buildings its over 65 C and filled with rotting food and you'd want three weeks off too...

I'm pissed off that she cannot accept the fact that I'm pissed off and disappointed.
Btw, I already stated that I was happy for her..I'm not mad at her, I'm pissed because this has happened and now I'm stuck and I'm also pissed that she can't understand that and I'm frustrated.
We'll be fine by the end of work today.

Picture this then. You just walked out to the parking lot to pick up your brand new ( insert you pref. here), that you have been waiting a long time for, and it's got a major scratch on it and it's the wrong colour. You'd be pissed right? It's not the end of the world but you're still upset.
Then the salesman tells you that you have no right to be upset...welcome to my world.

Oh man, I just reread that part where ghostguy6 said " Well too damn bad I'm bigger than you" Thanks man, that really made me laugh.

[Jet-Lee]

Nice recover... make the best of it...

[YogsVR4]

You need a vacation from your vacation.

Start making up excuses as to being at the beach while they go do their own thing. Don't avoid them altogether, but make it clear to your GF that you're not going to be spending all the time with them.

[psychobadboy]

Did you actually talk to her beforehand about your all your plans for the two of you?

[ghostguy6]

Well Im glad I could make you laugh, as for the bigger part if your really that pissed off we can go a few rounds. You said you have a heavy bag, I assume you box?

[TexasF355F1]

Originally Posted by Spyke^

My mission in life has been to make others happy and smooth things out.
The one time I wanted to just sit back and relax and do something for me...

I hear you on that. I would rather everyone else around me be happy than myself. If everyones happy then there's less drama that can happen. But when I try and bitch about something it's like I'm a royal asshole.

[lamehonda]

I hate it when the women in our lives think that if were are not social and cheery we are horrible people. I work hard and enjoy doing the things I enjoy doing, not talking to people I don't know about things I don't care about. Too bad about the two week vacation, Just be sure to party your tail off during the second week!

[RSX-S777]

Get a hotel room at the beach for two weeks and disappear...

[Raz_Kaz]

Just do the normal things you wanted to in the first place. Walk around naked, bang your gf anywhere anytime and see how long they will stay!

[ghostguy6]

[Spyke^]

Thanks for the replies guys, they really helped.

Beach is literally 3 minutes from my driveway so we'll be hitting that.

She was well aware of our plans, but as I said I don't feel that she did anything wrong. Her friend decided that she was coming down, not anyones fault. It just pisses me off that it has to be that way when I had my heart set on other things.
I'll get over it.

Yes, I box and work out regularly, no I don't want to go a few rounds. I'll keep you in mind though.

I'm glad that someone else here knows what I mean when I talk about making everyone else happy. Not the most healthy way to be most likely, but, meh...

Partying will commence in about 2hrs..

Hmmm, /me pictures self having sex with g/f on kitchen table and her friend walking in..." Freshly squeezed juice anyone"?

[Raz_Kaz]

how about pictures of just your gf naked???
jk
...or am i?