friend has a big problem.....dont know what to do

[tacoma man.]

i know this girl, actually ive been trying to go out with her
for over a year,she has been seeing this guy that beats
on her, he dont take her anywere, she cant leave the
house, cant use her phone. its her house, it was left to
her when her grandma passed away, her friend introduced
her to him over a year ago. he moved in, all he does is
slap her around, she is a good person and she deserves better.
i found out a year ago that she had a crush on me, and i am
also interested in her also. so one of her friends were going to
help throw him out and that was months ago. he is still there.
her and the friend were playing monopoly the other night
and they were trading property. he grabbed the board and
slung it across the room and said i dont like cheaters.
he went and got his gun put 3 bullits in it and told them.
" i dont know what i will do if someone tried to make me leave."
and he already told her that he would come back and kill
her parents if he got thrown out. they are afraid to call the law.
what can she do to get rid of him.

[psychobadboy]

Damn, that is a a horrible situation. I would probably have no choice but to call the authorities. That's the only thing I can think of, other than putting a bullet in his ass. But I don't recommend the second option.

[tacoma man.]

i cant stand the though of whats going on, i think of it
all the time and its killing me. if the cops do pick
him up he will just come back. he would kill her and
her parents then. i found out that his last girlfriend
had to post up his phone number and tell people he was
gay to get rid of him, and he finally moved out. if
i could get my hands on that girl that introduced him
to her i would strangle her. she told me that he shoved
her down one night and when her parents asked why
he said i thought that she was a piece of furniture.
all the guy does is play playstation, drink and snort
pills. he beat her up a few weeks ago and her dad
had to run over there and pull him off of her. i could
kill him. the poor girl had to quit collage to keep
the bum up. i tried to tell her about him from the
start and she didnt listen. now that she has seen
the light, its too late and he thinks that he owns
the place and her too. in high school the kids
made fun of him cause his name is isreal and called
him aladin....he got on the phone and told me that
his friends would kill me and throw me in a sludge
pond if i didnt leave her alone. i told him that he
better rub that damn lamp and make a wish and get the
hell out of dodge. he hung up on me.

[Raz_Kaz]

your paragraphs hurt my eyes...
But yea, call the cops and explain to them whats going on and the consequences and tell them he is armed and dangerous. Then call on the wellington vice to take care of the rest

[tacoma man.]

i think i will do that, i will talk to her parents
before so they will know what a going on.

[Raz_Kaz]

too many ppl that know could be dangerous, he can hear of this....I say tell only those who are not living in the household

[tacoma man.]

yeh. her mom and dad live next door.
they want him gone and they too
are afraid to do anything.

[Raz_Kaz]

yea, just let them know of your intentions an get the cops involved asap...also, I wouldnt plan on getting too close to the girl soon afterwards, she wont be ready for any sort of real relationship, just stay friends and then take it from there

[tacoma man.]

yeah i realize that i cant make it look
like i called the cops, and that it was
my intentions on getting him out
of the house. i plan on laying low for
a month or two

[Raz_Kaz]

Keep on talking to her, but dont expect anything from her, she will need someone to talk to after all this, just be a good friend, sometimes a mans gotta do that

[iGyx]

WOW man, she lives right next to her parents... that must be really hard for the parents to be so close and not be able to do anything..... you should bring him down to L.A. we will teach him a lesson...

[91300zxtt]

the next time he leaves or she has to go to work tell her to go to someones house maybe yours and call the cops. thats the smartest thing to do. no ones gonna touch you, they prolly wont even realize its you till its all done. get her out of there. if all else fails remember you win some you lose some tell her to run and drop that clown

[RSX-S777]

Sounds like he needs a thorough beating.

[tacoma man.]

well we were thinking when she leaves to go to work
for her to get her clothes together and leave shes
going to hide the car in a relitaves garage. i will
then pick her up and she will stay at my place. her parents
has already gotten everything worked out. she will quit
her job too. we will make it look like she has just disapeared.
i live 10 miles from were she does. im going to meet her
at 11:30 tonite. the abuser is gone right now, he said he wouldnt
be home til 5 in the morning that he had been called out to work.
so we took advantage of this. she has agreed to do it. she is scared.
im going to pick her up in my ss camaro. it has dark tinted windows
and no one will ever see her.

[91300zxtt]

good

thats the route you should go let it all blow over and get her a job somewhere else cuz it could be bad if someone sees her