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#1
06-09-2004, 05:19 PM
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He is moving out
Ok here is the short version of my story, which i would like some feed back on. A week ago my boyfriend whom i have been with for two years and have been living together for the last year tells me he want to move in with his one and only single friend, but still wants to be together. Then a few days go by and he says no he wants to stay and now he has decieded he is going to live with his friend and his excuse is one he needs time by himslef.. But here is the thing where we live now he has his own room to do what ever he wants with play video games or what not.. we both trust each other (at least i used to ) so we never give each other shit about going places without each other and we do not care if the other goes or not..
To add some details he justed started to act like this once he heard that his friends roommate was moving out and that he needed a roommate.. and this is his only single friend and by the way this guys hates women for the most part.. Also now he is talking to this girl that he works with all the time at work and outside of work.. she is married and he says it is just a friend.. but i think there is more too it.. He says he still loves me and wants to be together and that maybe it will pass and what not.. even though he knows i cannot afford our apartment on my own. so that means i have a month and two weeks before i have to move out.. so when i move I will be moving about an hour away from him.. But he tells me if he does not do this now he feels if he does not he is going to regret it for the rest of his life.. go figure what the hell is the deal with this situtation... I do not know if i should keep seeing and and see what is going on or to just end it.. or if any other male has gone through this and wants to share his feeling or whoever.. please help me 
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#2
06-09-2004, 05:27 PM
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Re: He is moving out
I think he's turning and burning on you and whatnot...
"Time by himself"...translation: Time away from you. By the way-that is without a doubt the longest run-on sentence in the history of human communication.
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#3
06-09-2004, 11:37 PM
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Re: He is moving out
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Sounds to me like he's trying to get himself into a situation where your relationship might start to die out to save himself the discomfort of telling it to you without the layer of bullsh!t. Or maybe not. I don't know much besides the fact that I'd be really pissed about the apartment thing...
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06-10-2004, 09:51 AM
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Re: He is moving out
Another thing you should keep in mind, is that guys don't always have deep underlying motives or secrets ( i said dont always!) It may be that he just wants a break from your relationship. He doesnt want to give you up either, he wants to know youll still be there when hes ready again
i could be totally wrong, but i know ive felt like that before
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06-10-2004, 12:55 PM
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Re: He is moving out
Yeah, us guys arent like all you fucking women. Just because we talk to girls, doesnt mean we're trying to get into their panties.
Not all of us... anyway.
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06-10-2004, 02:28 PM
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06-10-2004, 02:36 PM
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Re: He is moving out
What in gods name is fucking wrong with a guy becoming emotionally attached to another female?
Guys are allowed to have good female friends. Im emotionally attached to some girls I grew up with, doesnt mean theres a trust issue between me and my fiance'.
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06-11-2004, 04:58 AM
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Re: He is moving out
^that's what YOU think
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#12
06-11-2004, 07:55 AM
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Re: He is moving out
Right, let me photos of the new place and I'll show you where to place the Bugs.
Oh, and tap his phone.
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#13
06-17-2004, 06:55 PM
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Re: He is moving out
I dunno. I think if he's wanting to go move in with his "buddy" and it's not because your smothering him, (not letting him do his own thing) He's either turned gay or he wants to screw other chicks on the side but still keep the familiar in case he can't get any....
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06-17-2004, 06:57 PM
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Re: He is moving out
Here's another idea..... you could always get a hot guy to "pose" as your new roomate, and introduce him to your boyfriend and explain to him how you can't afford the rent.... a sure way to find out if he still cares for you or not.
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06-19-2004, 10:51 PM
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Wow, deja vu. My GF's father (82 years old) is leaving his wife of 50+ years to live with an old high school flame who he claims "needs his help after her husband passed away". Yeah right
 .Hanging with the guys once in awhile is one thing, but to go live with one after living with a woman, well to me is  . Hope everything works out for you.
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